Shit tests,

kingcal · 2013-08-25T14:43:17+00:00

A lot of guys will suggest you give some "clever" or "smooth" line. Honestly, I hate it. You're essentially still adopting her frame of her being higher than you and that you are trying to impress her. You're looking for the perfect key to unlock her pants. I'm not saying that you should act superior to her, either. Just that you're on equal ground and you don't have to impress her. Agreeing and amplifying can be fun, but it's easy to over do. Honestly, most of the time I just ignore shit tests.

I had a girl shit test me today. We were talking about people who text too much. I mentioned my ex would text me random shit, like not even words, just letters to make my phone ring to get my attention.

Her: Oh, so you're one of those.

Me: What do you mean?

Her: You date crazies. Why would you ever do that?

Me: Shrug.

Her: I mean, I'd understand if she was good in bed.

Me: Bingo.

She's trying to push my buttons. She's searching for a reaction. She wants to know if I'm going to be defensive about it or try and cover my tracks. Fuck it. I don't apologize or make excuses. After that, the subject changed. Twenty minutes later she was on my motorcycle and we were going back to my place.

2013-08-26T01:49:34+00:00

For some reason I loive shit test. Absolutely love them, it just proves your openers and conversation skills are perfect and on par.

One response to a shit test, that I've always known, but just couldn't perfect was ignoring.

It works even better when you've shown you've heard, and just choose to ignore it.

This one girl I took home this weekend, even mentioned it to me, and she said it was the sexiest thing in the world to her.

These past few weeks have been a little interesting to me.... in fact I'm going to make a post on my observation. Thanks for the reminder.

rmbarnes · 2013-08-26T14:03:24+00:00

Know who you are
Know what you want
Value your opinion of yourself higher than you value the girl's opinion of you

Title	Shit tests,
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	9
Comments	10
Date	August 25, 2013 1:05 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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