I met a girl over the summer in the US from my home country. We are very close and when were together in America we were basically stuck together for the final few days.

We have now both moved back home near 3 weeks but she lives a 2 hour drive from me. Since moving home we have been texting constantly and have also seen each other twice, the first time she had a free house so I stayed the night and we had a great time. The second time was a few days ago where we both met halfway, we went for a walk and hungout for a few hours. This was good too, there was lots of physical contact (holding hands, kissing, hugging) and we were glad to see each other.

At the end of both dates however she has made a small comment about how she is not sure how this will work in the long run which has made me question what to do, I really like the girl and we both get on very well but if it’s not going to work long term is there much point?

I will probably see her again in the next week or 2, and I was thinking then of asking her what she wants to do long term or should I say nothing and just let it work itself out? I dont want to put her under pressure but I also want to know now instead of waiting too long for something that might not happen.