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[–]Livefreeconsulting 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I swear a solid 70% of the advice on this sub is just "ask her out"
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like good advice. Make a move. Ask her out, touch her, etc. Make an actual move and see what happens.
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[–]Livefreeconsulting 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I 100% see why you wrote this. I feel like a dick saying this, but some of the guys on here are so clueless that they need to be pushed to even act. They are like 1-2 steps removed from Incels or Forever-alones, and I'm not convinced a few of those snuck in to this sub & learned the lingo to try and seem like a player.
Once you start to understand women, I think your algorithm completely falls apart, which is why I think you say...
Older and more experienced guys may modify the algorithm.
So I'm going to bitch & complain, but it's not a personal attack against you. It's an attack against the culture that makes your post necessary.
This sub is called r/seduction, but the only advice that these people understand is "Get your numbers up". That's not seduction, that's searching around for a woman desperate for sex. I wish we could talk more about how to actually seduce women, but some of these guys are just working up the courage to ask a girl out.
Your algorithm doesn't talk at all about setting the mood, or earning her trust, creating a sense of adventure, winning over closed off women, making her laugh, or any of the other aspects of actually seducing a woman.
Not your fault of course, just a frustration.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Have you even asked her out yet? You yad her nunber for tweeks?
[–]varunv153 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I am currently in a different town for job purpose for the past 1 week and shall be for the next 2 weeks too
You don't have to message daily. Don't be afraid to go a week without contact. Set a date. After the first date when the "click" is there, that is the point when a girl will be texting you.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How many other options do you have?
[–]bolxrex 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dont expect her to initiate until you've met and there is chemistry.
[–]White_Mlungu_Capital -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She is playing you, get off tinder.
[–]Livefreeconsulting 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Never attribute to malice what could be explained by ignorance. It's far more likely OP lost her interest than a manipulative woman is actually using Tinder to play people off each other. She would get much more satisfaction from Instagram or IRL.
[–]White_Mlungu_Capital -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You win a ride on the short bus, always assume malice over ignorance.
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