I’m trying to figure out whether I should call or text her before our Valentine’s Day hang at a rave and we talked about buying tickets.We planned well before all of this. Recently, a conversation between us shifted from playful to more practical and safety focused because of bad weather and the fact that she couldn’t make it to the bar for us to hang at, and even though nothing negative happened, the energy felt noticeably more neutral afterward. That shift made me feel unsure, not because she said anything wrong, but because when momentum slows I tend to assume I caused it or lost my frame. We still have this Valentine’s Day plan in place, and I’m not trying to rehash the earlier interaction or “fix” anything I just want to show clear intent and reconnect in a calm, confident way. Given that the last exchange felt logistical rather than flirty, I’m unsure whether a light check-in text or a short, casual call is the better move leading into our Valentine’s Day plan.