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| 9 | Your ego is fucking you up in a way you don't noticeyeah I can relate to this especially the last few lines. Every time I even address a small issue about women with my peers, I get clowned on for not knowing or achieving as much as I "should". It can sometimes lead me to dark paths in my head. But at the end of the day, the more I learn and get better, the more of a pro I become and I wont hear any outside voices no more. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Cant stop comparing myself to homeboy.And your solution is? And I’m not some people, this is my own personal thought process | /r/seduction | 22/07/26 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Cant stop comparing myself to homeboy.I say were both attractive but in different ways | /r/seduction | 22/07/26 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Cant stop comparing myself to homeboy.Wym? I fumbled the bag or sum? | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Cant stop comparing myself to homeboy.he's in one but I also dont want to stop invinting him to open mic. He specifically said he goes there to support me. Its not fair to him | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 04:10 AM |
| 0 | What to say when girls lick their lipswym? | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 04:08 AM |
| 0 | What to say when girls lick their lipsNow we’re cooking. What else? | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 10:18 PM |
| 1 | What to say when girls lick their lipsshe wasnt that close to me for me to do it tho. And im asking... how do I proceed with that. She was a stranger, I just cold approached her. What do I say? | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 09:02 PM |
| 1 | What to say when girls lick their lipsis this a joke or do you actually mean to kiss her. I could t we were at a library and 5 minutes into the convo | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 08:47 PM |
| 0 | What to say when girls lick their lipsread my edit above | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 08:07 PM |
| -6 | What to say when girls lick their lipsYou gonna explain to me how or you gonna talk shit? | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 08:04 PM |
| -5 | What to say when girls lick their lipsYou gonna explain to me how or you gonna talk shit? | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 08:04 PM |
| 2 | What to say when girls lick their lipsok so one, in my earlier convo with the girl who wanted to keep the convo going, she was smiling and licking her lips at the same time. Sometimes I get the "look" and yeah my ass is curious cause I wanna get better | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Did I misread the chemistry or am I just over thinking this?sadly no | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Did I misread the chemistry or am I just over thinking this?hey thx for your comment. Forgot to mention, she did that while talking to the other comics while she was beside me. She was talking to them about if they have seen a show. Idk if she got flustered because one of them said they were confused and then she looked at me with the whole rubbing arm thing. Still dont know if that was positive. Would love to know your insight. Also she didnt come through and its 12am so I guess wait till tm then | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Need tough love and adviceand what can I do to help me relax and prepare for situations like these? | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 06:08 PM |
| 3 | I get no play (confession)I’m sorry? Add some more stuff dude otherwise why did you comment? | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 08:13 PM |
| 2 | I think I found my main problemSyntax. And when I fully remember I will let you know. I tend to remember moments not lines but I do recognize when my wording was off. Usually a homie would tell me | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 02:01 PM |
| 1 | I think I found my main problemWhat is something I can look up specifically to learn more of this? | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Just went on a date. How I do?Yeah we have great chemistry and idk honestly. She’s moving back in August. But my gut is saying I can make my move on the second date since holding hands is pretty intimate. But I’m a noob so who knows | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 03:52 AM |
| 1 | How true is this?Ok yeah. I’ve had girls literally today ignore me or turn the other way when we are with our friends during graduation and not acknowledging me BUT showed interest in the past or would watch my stories fast as shit. | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 09:42 PM |
| 1 | How to put less value on women over goals and how to not care about others value towards me?For the insults I get from other people a lot of times I don’t even show it. Sometimes I talk logically with other dudes and they just assume it. Not even on some nerdy shit. Maybe it’s my autism that comes of non verbally but yeah. When I was younger (and people don’t do this anymore cause I have gained a lot of respect myself) but they use to assume I got no women and try to son me. Or be like I can tell you get no hoes. And especially now it feels like I gotta prove myself man. It works but m… | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Knowing movies are fictional, how accurate is crazy stupid love in terms of learning escalation and emotional maturity to women?What media should I consume to really get it? Specially I’m having trouble escalation even tho my flirting can be good at times but taking initiative… idk | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Knowing movies are fictional, how accurate is crazy stupid love in terms of learning escalation and emotional maturity to women?What truths is there? I’m only asking cause ChatGPT recommended to me | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Knowing movies are fictional, how accurate is crazy stupid love in terms of learning escalation and emotional maturity to women?Yes | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Black films and seductionHow so if you don’t mind me asking? | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 12:23 AM |
| 0 | How to not seek female validation on social media?I’m not your buddy lil bro and I don’t post that I post stand clips of myself and what is your typing style cause none of this makes any sense and what does the first sentence even mean? | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 11:43 PM |
| 1 | How to not seek female validation on social media?How am I in the wrong place this about female validation which I gotta overcome for seduction, am I wrong? | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 06:50 AM |
| 1 | How to not seek female validation on social media?Ik but I have some prospects on my ig too. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 06:30 PM |
| -1 | How to not seek female validation on social media?Oh shit. I’m assuming you still get results too? | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 06:22 PM |
| 0 | How to not seek female validation on social media?That’s risky. Has that worked for you? | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 06:18 PM |
| -3 | How to not seek female validation on social media?I know but I’m asking how not to do that while posting at the same time | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 06:16 PM |
| 1 | How to not seek female validation on social media?Yeah the validation of pussy has strong hold on me ngl. Kinda is the factor of my decisions | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 05:58 PM |
| -2 | How to not seek female validation on social media?But I want to tho | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 05:39 PM |
| 2 | This Needs To Be Said!!!!This hurts my ego | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 03:27 AM |
| 1 | My ability to care less works?I guess the subtlety of body movement. Or maybe more so how far from perfect it is. Not horrible but also maybe awkward | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 07:08 AM |
| 1 | My ability to care less works?Even if that man may come off weird or quirky in his content? | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Good media to learn fromIt be like that | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Good media to learn fromPickup artist? Keys to the vip? This is all stuff chat told me | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Good media to learn fromDid you edit this? I saw you put love island first. Do you not think it’s a good choice anymore? | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Good media to learn fromOoh. Is there a specific season I should watch or it doesn’t matter? | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 12:17 AM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyThey’re really not bad at all. I mean some are od but not really | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 06:29 PM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyI got screenshots in case you wanna see | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 06:28 PM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssylol ok? | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 04:27 AM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyI can send screenshots if need be | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 12:32 AM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyWdym? | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 12:17 AM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyYet I had the worst success out of anybody in my group despite me having chances but being oblivious (of course) if I keep approaching and losing idk what imma do lol | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:55 PM |
| 0 | I don’t deserve p*ssyAs of now yeah that’s how I’m feeling. Again it’s been a while since I thought like this but genuinely there is something wrong with me | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:54 PM |
| 0 | I don’t deserve p*ssyI would disagree. ALL my friends are going on dates and getting into relationships | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:50 PM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyNone now. All of them were promising but I just fumbled another one for admitting my last text was kinda douce like. Got left on read | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:50 PM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyNah I’m just feeling shame highkey | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:49 PM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyYeah I’ll try | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:46 PM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyYeah I try to flirt and get to know them. I want to call but everyone wants to wait which I can see why but yeah. I definitely feel like others have it a lot easier than me without learning “game” | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:39 PM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyI can send screenshots if need be | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:38 PM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyAnd I meant back and fourth and all at once | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:38 PM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyNo 5 messages back and fourth | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:38 PM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyTrue. This is the first time in a while I truly thought negative of my self. It’s hard when I feel like I gotta up keep everyone’s expectations of me. | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:36 PM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyI’m not lol I can literally show you screenshots dudes. Like these messages aren’t even going past 5 | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:35 PM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyImma dm you | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:34 PM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyThat’s literally what they all did. Lol | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:30 PM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyThe thing is I don’t even chat with them for more than 5 messages back and fourth before shit goes left | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:24 PM |
| 2 | I don’t deserve p*ssyThat’s what we all here for. I need to make up for my L childhood | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:22 PM |
| 0 | I don’t deserve p*ssyYeah. I get told texting is the way and wanting to talk more in person is seen as too eager. Plus I can have fun but my bad social calibration makes it easy to fall off pace | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:16 PM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyJust messaged you | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:13 PM |
| 1 | I don’t deserve p*ssyI can dm you the screenshots if you want | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you?Even when they close space between us? That’s what I’m confused at and it’s not like they’re walking quickly either. I feel if they didn’t wanna be near me they wouldn’t | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 04:10 PM |
| -1 | Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you?But to Lower your head in shame?? | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you?I did build attraction that’s why I asked in the first place It’s college 3 are you projecting? don’t make a bold assumption. I didn’t even tell you the times I succeeded dick head. I’m just asking based off a certain experience | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you?How would you react? | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you?Why? | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you?? | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you?Nah I’m not pushy Ik that for sure and I don’t have a cocky personality but also like I said I feel like they close the distance between us so idk | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 09:23 PM |
| 0 | Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you?How do I inspect myself to find what isn’t clicking? | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you?Both really | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 07:47 PM |
| 23 | Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you?Well a good amount of my asking girls usually is like the banter, good positive energy and a polite no from her and a chill exit from me. I also like to say shit like “ that’s fine I understand” to show I’m not on some crash out shit | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 07:07 PM |
| -7 | Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you?Yeah it’s embarrassing for me | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 07:02 PM |
| -32 | Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you?Is this not embarrassing to me? | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you?I don’t understand the second one. Mostly cause I feel like I come off pretty unbothered everytime I see them so there should be no signs of my feelings getting hurt. Also with the first one, shouldn’t they also be aware that that’s what comes with rejection? Also it’s hard to come back to what once was because I told her my intentions | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you?No it’s a pattern I’ve recognized for like 3 years already. Also I’m trying to understand the psychology of it | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Would escalating be wrong in this situation?And everytime I’m telling these guys are just extra bit of information | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Would escalating be wrong in this situation?No looking back at it she has given me chances. Maybe cause I didn’t give you the entirety of our interactions of the past 4 years. But I get so tired of people telling me I’m losing it cause of my perception. | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Would escalating be wrong in this situation?Also let me be more clear. I stopped caring about her cause she graduated. It wasn’t until I saw her again is when those feelings rekindle | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Would escalating be wrong in this situation?My bad let me be more clear. I stopped caring about her cause she graduated. It wasn’t until I saw her again is when those feelings rekindle | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Would escalating be wrong in this situation?Also yeah she stared at my lips for like 5-10 seconds smiling. | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Would escalating be wrong in this situation?No read my last comment | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Would escalating be wrong in this situation?I wouldn’t agree with the first part. Like I said, I haven’t seen her in a year and I haven’t interacted with her since. She has reciprocated in the past so let’s get that out the way. | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Would escalating be wrong in this situation?Charge? Dude, I wasn’t just gonna go in for a kiss. Like I said last time I asked so I’m aware of consent. And I dated other girls but I’m just pre emotionally attached to her. Don’t make this seem weirder than it already is. Maybe because I haven’t put ALL the detail for you to read | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 06:01 PM |
| 2 | How to not hate yourself after fumbling?I think maybe it was too soon. At least that’s what grok said | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 02:49 AM |
| 1 | How to not hate yourself after fumbling?It’s been 6 hrs since my reply. Before it took her like a day once. But idk as long as I’m not cooked | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 12:50 AM |
| 3 | The worse you treat a girl the more she will like you.Grammar wise he isn’t saying it in a percentage/ratio/luck but “can” as you do have the ability and that it’s not a black and white thing. I know… the English language is hard asf | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 10:43 PM |
| 4 | How did you go from zero to hero on seduction?Mediocre friends? lol | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Does my iMessage pfp turn women off?How? | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Does my iMessage pfp turn women off?How and why? | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Does my iMessage pfp turn women off?Idk. Just not my thing ig | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Does my iMessage pfp turn women off?That’s what I’m working on | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Does content creation make me less attractive?Well to be fair I’ve been called Steve urkel my whole life as a tease but Steve urkel in himself isn’t exactly ugly he just looks like the average black dude with glasses. But in the video the laughs do offset the negatives | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Does content creation make me less attractive?Would you consider that joke self deprecating? Cause I never claimed in the joke that I called myself Steve urkel from bojack horseman | /r/seduction | 23/02/26 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Was she being polite or actually interested?A follow back at least. Lol | /r/seduction | 20/02/26 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Was she being polite or actually interested?We were both heading the other way. I had to leave the club with my friend and she had to go with her friend. | /r/seduction | 20/02/26 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Was she being polite or actually interested?Ah damn. and I know she’s not obliged too follow back but what was the point of asking for the insta? | /r/seduction | 20/02/26 09:59 PM |
| 1 | The Friendzone TrapFirst of all it’s not tough talk it’s genuine advice because words hold power but when I said “he did it” he could’ve spent the block and slept with her or maybe he got another women out the gate. The point is that would you still use words to help celebrate his win as fast as you said negative things? | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 04:31 PM |
| 1 | The Friendzone TrapThose first words triggered me. Be careful with you phrase things brother. If op came back with another post about how he succeed, would you use your words to congratulate him? | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Free GameFor me, sometimes I rush the process or I text the wrong thing thinking that it would work in my head but it comes off insecure | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Should I go for a call or keep it text?Idk she just didn’t bring up again. But I’m leaning towards call. My text game needs work anyways and I might word the wrong thing again | /r/seduction | 02/02/26 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Should I go for a call or keep it text?We actually talked about getting tickets. She said she couldn’t until she got paid and I said I’ll get mine a week later. But then she brought up the event we were suppose to go to tg last sat and forgot about the one on v-days | /r/seduction | 02/02/26 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Should I go for a call or keep it text?Thx and yeah we were suppose to see each other last Saturday but the snow happened :(. Also the event we were going to needs tickets to be purchased | /r/seduction | 02/02/26 07:56 PM |
| 1 | My biggest question yet… how do I forgive myself over small mistakes?My bad I mean 4 years of knowing her but we weren’t talking I just knew her as a mutual, it wasn’t until recently we got connected Idk I like raves and she invited me to one multiple times. We are suppose to go to 2 more but I just care about the one tn. But the texts before that safertu shit was playful banter. I made her laugh so I guess that overwrites all the negative. If that’s how it goes in texting then I’m straight then right? But that’s me thinking logically and not in the moment | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 07:13 PM |
| 1 | My biggest question yet… how do I forgive myself over small mistakes?We were already going to the rave it was just about the snow that she txt me about. She texted me today telling me that she couldn’t make it. The only reason I brought up safety is cause she emphasized my safety first. I just texted her a message about her being safe cause she mentioned she might go. Other than that that’s the only time I mentioned her being safe. I also we hung out before and I known her for 4 years. It’s just now where we are going out tg | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 07:06 PM |
| 1 | My biggest question yet… how do I forgive myself over small mistakes?What are your thoughts on the specific situation? Do you think I matched too strong or I’m just overthinking like usual? Or is this a shit test? | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl for a movie date, she said “Maybe this weekend. Did I push it?Also if it is weird do I clarify it to her on insta? | /r/seduction | 26/01/26 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl for a movie date, she said “Maybe this weekend. Did I push it?Ok well I see her Wednesday. I didn’t wanna come off weird tho. Maybe there is redemption? | /r/seduction | 26/01/26 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl for a movie date, she said “Maybe this weekend. Did I push it?But she agreed to watch movies tho just not that night. Does it still apply? | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl for a movie date, she said “Maybe this weekend. Did I push it?I said it with a smile. And I wasn’t like “cmon why not”.the reason was that I thought I mentioned watching it tn but I guess she didn’t hear me the first time. Also I backed off when she stated her boundaries as well. Did I come off desperate? | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl for a movie date, she said “Maybe this weekend. Did I push it?Everybody saying something different. lol either I ask again or I don’t. Also I have to see her in class Wednesday so… | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl for a movie date, she said “Maybe this weekend. Did I push it?Yeah, the way I went in for the hug was awkward. That was the only weird part. Everything was just logistics. But I can’t be cooked tho. But hey what do I know 🤦🏾♂️ | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl for a movie date, she said “Maybe this weekend. Did I push it?Yeah, I should’ve asked for a coffee date. I was thinking short term and not long term | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 04:22 AM |
| 0 | Asked a girl for a movie date, she said “Maybe this weekend. Did I push it?Did you delete your comment? I think so cause it seems like you can’t read. I told you the reason I asked this question in the first place AND you ignored the question I had for you. Which I’m probably gonna take as a yes. You need some healing brother | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 04:05 AM |
| -1 | Asked a girl for a movie date, she said “Maybe this weekend. Did I push it?So I’m a loser cause one girl doesn’t fw me? Is this how you think of your self when you get rejected? I’m serious be deadass cause this is some insecure as logic. And I’m asking because I put more pressure and was a lot more direct then I usually am. Don’t wanna blindly make girls uncomfortable 🤦🏾♂️. Cmon dooly do better | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl for a movie date, she said “Maybe this weekend. Did I push it?As long as I didn’t make her uncomfortable | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 03:56 AM |
| -13 | Asked a girl for a movie date, she said “Maybe this weekend. Did I push it?First of all. Don’t associate the word loser with me . That’s weird you even came to that conclusion in the first place, that I’m a”loser” to her? 2nd of all it wasn’t a date I asked her to watch a movie earlier in our hang out in which she agreed? How is that fantasy? Also she hinted at trauma too. It’s ok, I respected her boundaries. AND she’s the one following me to the library | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 03:55 AM |
| -2 | Asked a girl for a movie date, she said “Maybe this weekend. Did I push it?Idk. The whole reason we were hanging out for 2 hrs is because she offered to follow me to the library that I was originally going too. She could’ve went home is what she told me many times. Also I should’ve mentioned that I brought up watching a movie together in which she said yeah way before we parted ways | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 03:48 AM |
| 1 | When to actually escalate touch?Why the friendzone?also I keep getting told the later I don’t establish touch the more I’ll be placed in the friendzone | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Should I be consistent or give space?Yeah but to approach her every time I’m there? | /r/seduction | 16/01/26 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Should I be consistent or give space?No? | /r/seduction | 16/01/26 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Should I be consistent or give space?Yeah I just feel like if I see her in the same area, and we hit it off last time, I would need to go back over and talk to her ykwim? | /r/seduction | 16/01/26 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Should I be consistent or give space?What are those last two? | /r/seduction | 16/01/26 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Do subtle things actually kill cold approaches, or am I overthinking?I guess for the right women, small nervousness wouldn’t matter if confidence overrides it? | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Do subtle things actually kill cold approaches, or am I overthinking?Ok yeah. I’m hoping that this still pulls through. | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls do this?Bingo. You got a solution? | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls do this?What are some resources to learn these rules specifically texting wise? | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls do this?Yeah that last thing is something I do only because I’m very direct with what I want. This won’t affect me reputation wise right? | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls do this?For the women, yes to 3/4 of them. Yeah I guess you’re right. I’m assuming this applies to all the girls on ig | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls do this?But why do girls look at my story quick regardless if they liked me or not?also I couldn’t get her number because she was with her friend that night and he offered to exchange instagrams | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 07:08 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls do this?Yeah I mean this was weeks ago when I met her and just recently texted her yesterday but it’s like that in other situations too | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 06:57 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls do this?No we met at a comedy club | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Why do girls do this?Ah ok I will check it out. But hopefully I can defeat the narrative of me being desperate. Only because I always considered my self determined in anything I want to achieve so I apply the same metrics to women. It’s just part of my personality I guess. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls do this?Nah cause she was with her friend and he actually asked for my ig first and then she gave it to me but she seemed really receptive to my conversations | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls do this?I’m assuming any girl I interact like this with thinks I’m needy? Also any human psychology resources that might help me with this thinking? | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls do this?Ohh ok gotchu. Guess my idea of determination and confidence can come off as scarcity? | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls do this?Wouldn’t really put this on text game. All interactions that have led to this started off in person and there being tension there. In this example, her friend was there the entire time (and no I couldn’t separate them) but yeah we I texted something before I told her. But maybe you’re rigjt. I didn’t build it up, but that’s what annoys me about the texting game. I shouldn’t have to build up shit if we already interacted. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls do this?I mean, with the girl in the example she was with her friend during the whole time for open mic. With other girls, we had very tension like convos and some where I asked them out and they said yes very enthusiastically just for them to say no and stalk the fuck out my story | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls do this?It’s not really relationship, sometimes I just wanna chill | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Did I ask out too soon?Yeah I still ain’t go no reply yet. It’s cooked? | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Did I ask out too soon?But I already met her in person and we talked for 30 min | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 01:51 AM |
| 1 | How much does texting play a part?Yeah I’m over here waiting for a text back. But the slowness of it all makes me paranoid | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Did I ask out too soon?I know I’m just hard on myself for “fucking up” | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Did I ask out too soon?Like an hour ago | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Did I ask out too soon?That’s a dealbreaker? | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Did I ask out too soon?I guess maybe she wasn’t feeling me that much | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 09:10 PM |
| 0 | Did I ask out too soon?I did text her (my bad for not being clear) | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Is it over or a shit test?Yeah when school starts next month sure | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Is it over or a shit test?What could it possibly be? It’s just been straight banter back and fourth? | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Is it over or a shit test?Yeah well no girls with me right now in fact I just fumbled one rn. I do wanna take others advice and just call her(at least it’s assertive) but you’re also right about giving space | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Is it over or a shit test?True. It’s December so it’s getting lonely and there was potential. You think she gonna spin back? | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Is it over or a shit test?So I’m cooked?? | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Is it over or a shit test?Yeah that’s crazy cause she was showing insane interest the first week I met her. It’s the third week now | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Is it over or a shit test?How about calling like the other commenter mentioned? | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Do I need to give negative feelings to women in order to build attraction and keep a long term relationship?No I can’t cause she’s hours away from me. But should I reach out again or is it cooked? | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 12:35 AM |
| -1 | Is it over or a shit test?But wouldn’t that mean I’m chasing when she’s pulling back? | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 12:29 AM |
| 0 | Is it over or a shit test?Well since she left me on delivered the ball is in her court | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Is it over or a shit test?You deadass think that’s gonna work? I mean she left me on delivered so but what makes you think that solution? | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Is it over or a shit test?You think there could be reattraction if I give her space? I mean even she knows nothing can come out of this | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Is it over or a shit test?You think there could be reattraction if I give her space? I mean even she knows nothing can come out of this | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 12:03 AM |
| 0 | Is it over or a shit test?Well we can’t do anything about it. Like I said we’re both home for break and she’s too far away | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 11:57 PM |
| -13 | Is it over or a shit test?Yeah but I hate taking Ls even if they are small. I’ll go with this mindset moving forward. | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 11:11 PM |
| 1 | I think I’m about to lose it. Need advice!Yeah. It’s mostly texting if you wanna go over that | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 09:03 PM |
| 1 | I think I’m about to lose it. Need advice!I mean I’ll be honest. With December the nights do come sooner. And the idea that I need someone is killing me even tho the idea itself isn’t objectively true. Is it pressure? Is it the idea that I can’t live up to my looks or what? Self image has gotten better but leaving external factors is even better | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 08:25 PM |
| 2 | I think I’m about to lose it. Need advice!I feel good about my physic, weight and height. That doesn’t play a role in this situation. Yes I do kickboxing and wrestling. Do a bunch of interesting things. Rn is standup. I can be funny or just chill. I honest do realize it comes from the mind. In fact I was discussing with a buddy about that yesterday. But I was also sheltered and my college years are up. What seems to be yes in person can be fucked up over text. Not ALL the time. But the need to catch up is killing me | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 08:06 PM |
| 2 | I think I’m about to lose it. Need advice!Go ahead twin | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Am I ruining the mood or is it just me panicking?Hell nah I rather be the side dude. And even then I still gotta go on our second picnic date which she is acting weird about | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Am I ruining the mood or is it just me panicking?Yeah but I also think either my text didn’t make sense or just came off as mean | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Am I ruining the mood or is it just me panicking?Like for example. I said the weather can’t be that bad and she said “boy, you don’t know that. It could be worse in other places” and I said “tell me which place and I’ll believe you” | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Am I ruining the mood or is it just me panicking?Yeah but I thought I matched her tone. But yeah we reopened the convo and I sent a playful text and no response. Other dude said it was a shitpost. You agree?and also I edited it but she said “you don’t know how to spell” not “I don’t know how to spell” | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Am I ruining the mood or is it just me panicking?I don’t think I messed up that badly. As long as I didn’t fumble nun for good | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Am I ruining the mood or is it just me panicking?? | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Am I ruining the mood or is it just me panicking?How | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 01:40 AM |
| 1 | How to convert my unorganized thoughts to text?lol I asked chat to word it for me because like I said it’s hard for me to convey things over text | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | How are you hot but single?Autism. But I do get distracted when a potential interest comes in the picture. I think it’s time to focus on things that will help me instead of whether I will get a text back and that’s with girls I succeed with as well. | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to set up a coffee date or bring them to your place the first time you meet them?Yeah and it’s worse the fact that I’m a senior. Every body loves to spew out pessimistic ideologies such as you’ll never have this chance again. I know I can get some outside of college. I’m confident I will but eventually I would have to stop dwelling on the past | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Is it better to set up a coffee date or bring them to your place the first time you meet them?Ok. Cause sometimes I look back on all the missed opportunities and try to not feel bad. But maybe I’m underestimating the idea of casual sex | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Is it better to set up a coffee date or bring them to your place the first time you meet them?Do you feel like that’s why I haven’t gotten laid as much in college. That girls don’t wanna do coffee dates and just get to the point? Of all my coffee dates, they always usually come back to my place but that’s just my way of doing things | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 01:59 AM |
| 1 | I think I accidentally killed my vibe with my school org after a big event and now I can’t stop overthinking itI wouldn’t say spazzing but I did let me adhd traits show.it if wasn’t them it be another party I was comfortable with. Yeah and I wasn’t jumping up and down to see them but I can also probably guess they’re just not my type of people where I can showcase a more extroverted energy. But the reason I don’t wanna change that aspect is because that same energy was used to talk to new girls, dance with them and get their contact. So it’s a yin-yang thing. | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 03:41 PM |
| -1 | I think I accidentally killed my vibe with my school org after a big event and now I can’t stop overthinking itI wouldn’t say everyone just the girls. And one of them unadded me on tinder. My reasoning is that maybe my friends acted goofy and I got associated with them or maybe my extroverted energy was too much for them. I also. Went back and fourth to the table | /r/seduction | 20/11/25 05:56 PM |
| 0 | I think I accidentally killed my vibe with my school org after a big event and now I can’t stop overthinking itI was just standing and going back and forth to groups | /r/seduction | 20/11/25 03:17 PM |
| 4 | How did yall get out of your worst droughts?I wonder why female friends be cockblocking 😭 | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Had an off day socially, and it threw off the vibe with people I usually click with. Can I bounce back?True. I had a good streak of confident interactions so that’s why I care about this but yeah | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 07:46 PM |
| 0 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.How is than an insecurity? | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.Yeah that’s facts. Thing is I don’t like texting and more face to face especially since we had a good in person interaction to a point where texting is just for dating | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.How is that an insecurity? | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.No when I asked about her schedule this was over text but you made good points too | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.Yeah well I got confused and froze up but her text response means this shits dead lol | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.Well I didn’t know what to say the vibe switch so | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.No I know what it is but what did I do that was an ick | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.If you don’t mind me asking what’s the “ick”? Also that shit kinda dead | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.Also would you say my no response was sensitive even when I was just caught off? | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.What are you on about? I texted her “ah damn that sucks” and left her alone… | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.It just didn’t seem like it from my perspective. Idk how to explain it online but the way she expressed it didn’t seem like normal banter | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.I mean I guess. Like I said it was a weird 180 when I was already bantering but yeah. Her message was already a soft rejection | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.Probably because she thought it over and didn’t like the convo or maybe something else…who knows | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.Right and I didn’t really react at all. Is that a positive thing or nah? She also couldn’t see my face so she wouldn’t know regardless | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.Of course I won’t blame her like it’s a weirdos fault. I guess from my perspective I was trynna banter and the vibe did a 180 | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 10:21 PM |
| -4 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.And also I don’t really flirt like that. Especially since women do face weirdos a lot it’s not something they would “flirt” or “joke” about | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.It didn’t seem like it honestly. It wasnt anything I could go off of | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.lol chill out. I just wanna succeed with her but didn’t know if that was the cause of me fumbling | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.Yeah. I’m definitely getting better with not letting things get to me. But I definitely get strings of rejection that slowly creeps up to me | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 08:26 PM |
| -2 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.That’s facts. I asked her when she was free but said she was busy or might be. I just said damn that sucks only because I felt like that was a soft rejection. Could still be a test tho | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 08:07 PM |
| -5 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.Did I pass the shit test? | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 07:59 PM |
| -36 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.I was thinking that but she wasn’t smiling and her tone was a little serious | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Did I lowkey fumble or play it cool? First date went good but I didn’t escalateNah good news she texted me back and gave me her login | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Did I lowkey fumble or play it cool? First date went good but I didn’t escalateNo sorry I was drunk still when I typed this. She didn’t say I was drunk and aggressive I believed I was | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Did I lowkey fumble or play it cool? First date went good but I didn’t escalateSo I fucked up in that regard? | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 11:53 AM |
| 3 | Did I lowkey fumble or play it cool? First date went good but I didn’t escalateYeah we were talking about a second date but women change their mind and I feel like that last moment was a clear sign even if she said she’s gonna text me first. She said she had a connection with me unlike other people so that’s good | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Did I lowkey fumble or play it cool? First date went good but I didn’t escalateYeah we were in public parking tho. It’s cool or whatever. We were talking about a second date but women change their mind all the time | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 04:28 AM |
| 3 | Did I lowkey fumble or play it cool? First date went good but I didn’t escalateOk also check the edit of my post because I felt like I really fucked up there | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Did I lowkey fumble or play it cool? First date went good but I didn’t escalateThat’s what I’m saying but is it too late? Is it a fumble forever? | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Did I lowkey fumble or play it cool? First date went good but I didn’t escalateThis was about me making a move about sex I alreayd mentioned making out with | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Did I lowkey fumble or play it cool? First date went good but I didn’t escalateOk but she also said that she wasnt gonna give up her body. But I’ve grew up in a culture where people say hitting first date is the norm and usually the ones who are shy are the ones who do that. I respected her decision but I feel like I failed | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Did I lowkey fumble or play it cool? First date went good but I didn’t escalateHow did I make it all up? | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Did I lowkey fumble or play it cool? First date went good but I didn’t escalateThat’s what I’m saying but I feel so weird because the culture now is that sex on the first date is the way to go. It’s subconsciously on the back of my mind. And I had a suspicion that she usually does give it up despite the innocent I don’t do this often but I hope this wasn’t a deal breaker | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Did I lowkey fumble or play it cool? First date went good but I didn’t escalateAnd of course I up the notch but doing butt grabbing but I wasn’t trying to be in a rush | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 04:07 AM |
| 4 | Did I lowkey fumble or play it cool? First date went good but I didn’t escalateNo I wasn’t shutting her down and we couldn’t because we were in a public parking lot and she said that I’m not really gonna give up my body and what not | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to just chill and go on about your day if you’ve already been putting in cold approaches?Good thing I don’t do that but I’ve seen so much people say approach all the time it’s instilled in my head that I’m pussy if I don’t | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to just chill and go on about your day if you’ve already been putting in cold approaches?Nah I did after I posted this but it felled flat | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to just chill and go on about your day if you’ve already been putting in cold approaches?Can you be more clear? | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 05:56 PM |
| 2 | How do yall stop freezing when you’re along with a girl and the vibes there?Were there any hints that it was time for you to go for it? Like body language or a specific conversation? | /r/seduction | 04/07/25 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Why are emojis seen as childish when you texting girls, but not using them makes you come off too serious?But wait. We work in the restaurant industry. I’m a bus boy and she’s a server. I’m known for not taking things seriously and our banter is not serious either. It’s kind of like how we texted earlier. There was plenty of tension and she has seen me when I’m serious while working. Does this context help? Because I never appeared to be “alpha” to her I’m just me. I never act like James Bond because imo it’s never that serious. As immature as this sounds, fun positive energy> forced stoicism | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 04:46 AM |
| 0 | Why are emojis seen as childish when you texting girls, but not using them makes you come off too serious?Ok but if the tension is already happening irl then this won’t hurt my chances as much if not at all? | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Why are emojis seen as childish when you texting girls, but not using them makes you come off too serious?I understand that but if you don’t mind me asking and I’ll admit I think I fucked up, can you look at the texts with the women? I’ll send a dm if you would like? | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Why are emojis seen as childish when you texting girls, but not using them makes you come off too serious?Also sexual tension was already present in person for weeks too | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Why are emojis seen as childish when you texting girls, but not using them makes you come off too serious?Ok so if the emoji comes off too silly and unserious but our flirting is exactly that, then it wouldn’t kill the vibe right? And this comes from weeks of flirting too. Also if I did use that emoji would it already destroy everything if I did text her that? | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 05:42 PM |
| 0 | Why are emojis seen as childish when you texting girls, but not using them makes you come off too serious?Ok so what I find interesting is that this MIGHT be a generational thing. Crying eye emoji isn’t seen as you crying but more like I’m laughing so hard I’m tearing up and has been used in multiple contexts where if you see something or hear something so stupid you would use those emojis. Not disproving what you’re saying but it seems like we are looking at it from two different angles but I often get told it’s childish here but at the same time I don’t even know the demographic of this sub. And a… | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Why are emojis seen as childish when you texting girls, but not using them makes you come off too serious?Ok cause like I said I killed the convos quick if I don’t use emojis and asking my friends, theu usually say that I come off too serious and I feel like there’s two sides to it. Women want to have fun so your convos should be fun but I guess being serious works too but it’s all in what you have to say. I flirt with this person at of work so it’s not like there’s no tension already | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Coworker didn’t reply to flirt text. How do I keep it from getting awkward?Also we flirt like siblings too. Not in an incest way but I remember when zherka mentioned how sibling teasing is the number one way to flirt | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Coworker didn’t reply to flirt text. How do I keep it from getting awkward?Is interesting because every time I don’t use emojis I also get no response but also crying emoji isn’t really crying it’s laughing too hard but I hear you. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Coworker didn’t reply to flirt text. How do I keep it from getting awkward?I think it’s just mental problems for me but ty | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Coworker didn’t reply to flirt text. How do I keep it from getting awkward?Yeah the joke was that when she gets paid she gonna spend that shit on me | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 09:17 AM |
| -4 | Coworker didn’t reply to flirt text. How do I keep it from getting awkward?Well you gotta get better somehow | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 04:39 AM |
| -1 | Coworker didn’t reply to flirt text. How do I keep it from getting awkward?Why | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 04:34 AM |
| 0 | Coworker didn’t reply to flirt text. How do I keep it from getting awkward?Ok cool, all I care about is not fucking up. But if you have texting tips feel free to teach me either here or dms plz | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 04:31 AM |
| -12 | Coworker didn’t reply to flirt text. How do I keep it from getting awkward?Really? What makes it weak? ChatGPT said it was perfect. Also if it is weak, does that close the door for future interactions? | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 04:27 AM |
| 0 | Coworker didn’t reply to flirt text. How do I keep it from getting awkward?You deadass? | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 04:26 AM |
| -1 | Coworker didn’t reply to flirt text. How do I keep it from getting awkward?Ok well as long as I didn’t fuck anything up lol | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 04:21 AM |
| 0 | Coworker didn’t reply to flirt text. How do I keep it from getting awkward?No it was an inside joke that both of us made and she mentioned how she was send the picture of the purse | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 04:15 AM |
| 1 | How do I hook up with this coworker without making things weird?So it ain’t too late? | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 03:11 AM |
| 1 | How do I hook up with this coworker without making things weird?Ok well as long as it’s not too late to make my move | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 02:15 AM |
| 1 | How do I hook up with this coworker without making things weird?Yeah I mean there are excuses to touch and that happens a lot so yeah but I get what you’re saying | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 01:57 AM |
| 0 | How do I hook up with this coworker without making things weird?Yeah I just don’t wanna mess up or something go south and then there goes ALL my relationships with the servers because flirting with them is fun and that’s what makes the job a lot more fun yk? But I get you and imma try it either tm or next week | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 01:48 AM |
| 1 | How do I hook up with this coworker without making things weird?Do you know what I could do to lead that process? | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 01:35 AM |
| 2 | How do I hook up with this coworker without making things weird?I usually close and I don’t have time to hang with them outside of work as I’m usually busy during the week | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 01:34 AM |
| 3 | I fumbled some real ones…but they still show love, and it’s messing with my headYeah you’re right. I try not to get too optimistic about it though but they really are great people and maybe next semester is a good chance to take it to the next level | /r/seduction | 12/06/25 02:11 AM |
| 1 | I fumbled some real ones…but they still show love, and it’s messing with my headWym? | /r/seduction | 12/06/25 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Is there a ceiling to being yourself? Starting to fell like I’m not built for this dating game or being desiredKind of. I was living in the moment but when I’m by myself, those thoughts do come through and even in the moment they come and slip by. It’s a shitty reminder | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Is there a ceiling to being yourself? Starting to fell like I’m not built for this dating game or being desiredRight but is there fundamentally wrong with me if I’m pushing to be the real me and still can’t get result but others who are similar to me can. I’m also severely adhd and it shows communication wise | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?Yeah, one of the main reasons why I believe it is because that’s literally how I got laid last time so I’m not just gonna put it off yk? | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?Welp oh well 🤷🏾♂️. Not like it was gonna change anything | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 06:22 AM |
| -1 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?I was told that friendzoning a girl is actually a way to confuse her and set boundaries thus making her chase you harder since you’re the one not doing the chasing | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?No the text before was the “sure buddy” but I just went and said we should do it together or some shit like that. Imma be honest I have no idea what to do and it’s making me do stupid decisions | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?Who knows. The test is tomorrow so I guess I’ll find out before hand | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 06:05 AM |
| 0 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?I was told it was a perfect response. Regardless I already sent a follow up text anyways | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?Ok I did | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 05:41 AM |
| 0 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?What can I say, my brain loves closure 🤣 | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?Should I text her again and be like “go ahead and send it?” | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?But how? 2 days to respond? How do you know this isn’t her sending a pity text? | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?Im not and say what you really think | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?Ok so I asked multiple people including ChatGPT, who said that that response was perfect, another homie said it didn’t mean anything and I was overthinking, the other one saying that’s how you play the game and now Reddit saying I fumbled and that it was emotional. But the real question is how can she tell? There was no emoji and it was the quickest I responded, she has no idea if I was joking or not | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?Again you’re being vague bro. What frame? I can’t read your mind | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:47 AM |
| 0 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?No there was interest. Eye contact, awareness in class, long hand/pinky touching even working in class and when I pulled back. When she saw me she smiled and even made a gc and asked others for my number indirectly in the gc. But I always hear that if you friendzone a girl, it creates curiosity in her mind and it makes you seem less easy. Like I said in the other comments, if I kept chasing, I would’ve looked like a clown especially since the exam is tomorrow and me asking her to hang out within… | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?Yeah, idk maybe I’m just tired of slow/no responses. They go nowhere and they genuinely don’t gaf about me or else this post wouldn’t exist. But I recognized low effort and I just tried to match it. Didn’t know this was a fumble but if I kept chasing I would’ve looked more like a clown | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?But if she does accept it, will it make it known there still tension or? Cause I talk to her in class where everyone can hear us but texting was suppose to be the foundation to talking one on one | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?The script that I’m the one chasing. Clearly it shows I’m putting more interest but ignoring it and asking about notes is off putting to me.generally idc but at least say sum before it or else i won’t help but think she doesn’t care lol | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?Wouldn’t that make me look worse tho😭? I can like her all I want but girls run from that shit. Idk imma see her in class tomorrow but most likely won’t talk to her | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?Also yeah but it makes sense on my part for me to assume she’s playing games. I don’t think she owes me a text message either but we all know women who are really invested wouldn’t make you wait long | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?But isn’t that double texting her tho? | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?You mean double text? | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:32 AM |
| 0 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?I was told that’s the best way to approach it because I flip the script | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?Don’t be vague. Speak your mind | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?Also how would I apologize? | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:18 AM |
| 0 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?Sorry, maybe I’m not use to it but it’s just weird communication on both parts. I’ve had women play the same game on me and be dry texting me and find out “yeah they’re not interested” I feel the exact same vibe here | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:17 AM |
| -1 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?I don’t want to lead and stuff but it’s hard knowing who’s low effort and who’s actually trying to | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:16 AM |
| 0 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?I know but the delay in messaging is throwing me off. It’s cool to take your time texting but I can’t say or do what I want over text if she’s not engaging. At that point it feels like I’m talking to a brick wall | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:16 AM |
| 5 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?Idk. I just don’t see a healthy interest communicating like that. It’s kind of a weird effort. I always hear, if she really wanted you, she would show it but I feel like this is really low effort and I’m taking a bait | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?Or maybe she curved me first? | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?But after two days of no texting and she didn’t even respond to my last text? Like what kind of invitation was that? I would look like a fool asking her out again | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:11 AM |
| 3 | Did I fumble this or was she just never that into me?Yeah but it took her 2 days to respond. Clearly she’s not that interested | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:08 AM |
| 1 | My new experimentHow long did it take you to see the benefits? And what are some of the benefits you experienced if you don’t mind telling me? | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Did I miss my shot because her coworker was there?I said that while leaving 😭. Regardless, you think I can still go back and score? | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Did I miss my shot because her coworker was there?So there was no time for a convo | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Did I miss my shot because her coworker was there?I think the problem was the fact that a whole family came in right after and I had to deliver the food. | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Did I miss my shot because her coworker was there?You think if I came back another day, I would still succeed? | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Did I miss my shot because her coworker was there?But what does she have to gain from that? She’s just the server | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Did I miss my shot because her coworker was there?Nah I was just door dashing | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Did I miss my shot because her coworker was there?But this was the second interaction. It was very similar to first one too but no food was mentioned | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Did I miss my shot because her coworker was there?I had food to deliver, there were more customers and her coworker was there | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Did I miss my shot because her coworker was there?I walked away before she did that | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Did I miss my shot because her coworker was there?Because I was already walking away! | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Did I miss my shot because her coworker was there?I was door dashing so of course I can’t just stand there and chat it up and I’m sorry but I can’t see that I made her uncomfortable in no way shape or form. That’s a reach in my book | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Does letting go of the chase actually attract what you want?Yeah so that’s what I was trying to go for in the question. Being nonchalant was the better choice because why you are still “chasing” you naturally let go mentally wise. If the opportunity is there then yeah take the chance but you’re not actually seeking for the outcome. | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Does letting go of the chase actually attract what you want?I was tho. But I wasn’t chasing one woman tho but I was chasing the need to succeed with women | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Can stretching help me stop hesitating with physical touch?Would it be possible to change it during the session so I can see it’s not so scary? | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Can stretching help me stop hesitating with physical touch?Yes. I recently had a bad moment with someone I thought I had a chance with and felt hesitation not just because how I was thinking but also because my body was not use to it | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Can stretching help me stop hesitating with physical touch?Nah fr lol. I’m getting more use to it in dating situations but outside of that is where I mess up, so time to fix it ig | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Can stretching help me stop hesitating with physical touch?I have always been weary about touching even though it’s something that I want but my body sometimes can get tensed up from it and start rejecting it subconsciously. It’s both an emotional and physical thing so by doing long sessions, one with a professional and one with my friend,I could train my brain to get over it | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Can stretching help me stop hesitating with physical touch?Nah you’re good I understand lol. My last crush that I had a moment with was ruined because I over thought us touching and realize that I’m not used to it and that I need to get comfortable | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Can stretching help me stop hesitating with physical touch?What do you mean? If I want to get better I would need to work on it. Why would me being cooked be an option? | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Can stretching help me stop hesitating with physical touch?Ok, I see what you’re saying on the emotional side but physical touch is still rare to me and even catches me off guard without me realizing it | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Can stretching help me stop hesitating with physical touch?Right but even in professional settings i still get weirdly tensed up. So if someone is touching me, could I still train my body to not flinch as much? | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone ever created an alter ego and completely changed their approach or the way people treated you?What are some good steps I can do to do inner work? | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl in my class about studying-now I don’t knew where we stand.Also I couldn’t get up and follow her since I would’ve look weird regarding the fact that I didn’t finish my lab | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl in my class about studying-now I don’t knew where we stand.I read it but it was years ago. I’ll see if I can look at it again | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl in my class about studying-now I don’t knew where we stand.Yeah but I already lowkey did ask her out | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl in my class about studying-now I don’t knew where we stand.Update. She just helped me in class with my lab partner but it was kind of intimate. When she left I quickly just said “imma text you later” was this a good move in my part? | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl in my class about studying-now I don’t knew where we stand.Yeah but I already asked her out and she gave a lukewarm response but the tension is there. Should I text her first? She’s like right beside me right now too but idk | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 07:18 PM |
| 11 | Shot my shot at a lifeguard,Took an L. Do I look bad now?Yeah, it doesn’t hurt as bad cause I’m suppose to enjoy the journey and not the destination but I do feel a little embarrassed about it | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Shot my shot at a lifeguard,Took an L. Do I look bad now?Was it really that bad? | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Took even more L’s. How do I cope?What questions should I ask myself? | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Took even more L’s. How do I cope?Getting played, inconsistent energy and flaking | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Took even more L’s. How do I cope?Even with girls I know inside the group are playing these exact games like why??? | /r/seduction | 25/02/25 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Took even more L’s. How do I cope?I’m looking for either one, I’m not too picky. I don’t play the number games either, however this is getting exhausting and I wanna know how I can make it clear that I don’t wanna play mind games and I’m serious whether it’s hooking up or dating. | /r/seduction | 25/02/25 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Took even more L’s. How do I cope?I get them in the beginning stage but down the line I usually lose them. I asked ChatGPT and it said they love attention or whatnot. I’m not the best at texting and would rather call and I’m ngl I’m not the best at playing social/dating games. It’s too hard and egotistical | /r/seduction | 25/02/25 06:24 PM |
| 0 | Do I have to flirt every time?Because I wouldn’t mind having fun with her either. She’s just not like a priority interest or anything like that. She still looks good tho | /r/seduction | 25/02/25 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Do I have to flirt every time?Is it fine if I don’t in the conversation though? Not like I’m never gonna do it but I was just focused on the convo and what she was saying. Never saw her that way either | /r/seduction | 25/02/25 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Do I have to flirt every time?Eh idk maybe, maybe not | /r/seduction | 25/02/25 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Do I have to flirt every time?But she gets a bunch of customers why bring me in to it? | /r/seduction | 25/02/25 05:31 AM |
| 1 | HELP!!! I am obsessed with womenYeah I just feel so behind especially since I’m in college | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 07:33 AM |
| -1 | HELP!!! I am obsessed with womenI think it’s cause I never really got any girls when I was younger so everything is still a new experience too me. I guess I obsess over something I barley experience | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 07:24 AM |
| 1 | How do I bounce back?Yeah that’s a good solution but I would have to be 100 percent comfortable in my self. Im working towards that tho | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 03:49 AM |
| 1 | How do I bounce back?Like a reputation that I don’t know what I’m doing with girls, that I do stupid decisions and I have no game and I consider myself handsome but with that comes expectations that I know what to do in which I really don’t | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Did you get so good that you only look for real challenges now?How did you get good? | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 01:09 AM |
| 1 | What keeps you going after all the L’s?How did you break it and what were the L’s you took during the dry spell? | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 01:08 AM |
| 1 | How do I bounce back?Yeah and it’s not like I did anything bad but I guess In terms of dating I prob come off as repulsive | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 05:50 PM |
| 1 | How many fumbles do you have before you get laid?Any. Only cause they can all lead to getting laid | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 08:06 AM |
| 3 | I’m tired of taking LsSuch a really interesting perspective. I do listen to fd from time to time. I will def check this out | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 11:10 PM |
| 1 | I’m tired of taking LsAre you on the spectrum? I’m genuinely curious. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 08:00 PM |
| 1 | I’m tired of taking LsWhat is in your opinion the best way to learn this? | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 06:42 PM |
| -2 | I’m tired of taking LsYeah but they love trying to have a convo over text. I guess should tell it how it is next time | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 06:12 PM |
| -1 | I’m tired of taking LsI think I do better in real life but when it comes to texting that’s where I fumble the most | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 06:04 PM |
| 2 | I’m tired of taking LsModels and AOS by Robert green. Also tons of advice from here and YouTube and experience as well. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 06:03 PM |
| 4 | I’m tired of taking LsI study the fundamentals. I have a whole list of right things to do. I guess it’s my pacing and the ability to connect or even want to connect that messes it up. It just seems like I’m too retarded to get it all down 🤦🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️ | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Sharing personal accomplishments/projectsIdk dude. It just seems like the wrong impression can turn girls off easily even if it is a personal project | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 05:04 AM |
| 1 | How normal is it to fumble?Are coaches affordable and how do I find one where they have a better understanding of gen-z culture? | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 07:08 PM |
| 1 | How normal is it to fumble?Yeah, comparison is the thief of joy but If I was in Marshalls shoes I wouldn't be too upset lol | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 07:07 PM |
| 2 | How normal is it to fumble?True but I never saw it as a glorified hobby but you lowkey hit the nail with one | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 07:05 PM |
| 2 | How normal is it to fumble?That's so true! Thinking in the sense that we are robots and everything doesn't move in a linear path helps give myself grace for messing up. At the end of the day, we are humans and our emotions and desires are not always stable. I say that because the way we act and approach women is based on those things. But sometimes I get upset about how "perfect" my next moves must be to be successful with women. It doesn't make me resent them, not at all but it makes me want to separate from them due to … | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 07:05 PM |
| 1 | How normal is it to fumble?I guess a good example would be going on a date, getting to know each other and her accepting your request to be in her life, then you miss a rule or a step and she is uninterested. Maybe you texted her wrong or worded something that didn't make any sense. As I am typing this out I realize how stupid it all sounds | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 06:59 PM |
| 1 | How normal is it to fumble?True! | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 06:58 PM |
| 1 | How normal is it to fumble?Yeah! I feel like thats one thing I have def improved on but at the end of the day we are we humans and sometimes we cant help it ig | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 06:58 PM |
| 1 | How normal is it to fumble?That's honestly a great mindset. I think it is harder when you know that you can be possibly seen or talked about in an unattractive manner since women do run the social world but their word is not law and doesn't determine who you are at all. | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How normal is it to fumble?True but I guess Im trying to figure out if fumbling a lot more than succeeding is abnormal | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 06:55 PM |
| 2 | How normal is it to fumble?True! This mindset of getting better regardless of circumstances does help | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 06:54 PM |
| 3 | I don't fear rejection at all, I fear scaring womenYeah, but I feel like it’s useless worrying about that since it can be out of our control. Even if we try to do everything right it can always go south. I feel like just playing it cool is the best response to something like that | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Is this why men are giving up on their life and resorting to hookers or even worse taking their own lives?I dm you | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Itemized List Of Techniques To Practice.This is nice!!! I’m getting a list of stuff to work on on my own and I might share it too but this is something I would definitely add to it | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 03:03 AM |
| 1 | What should I expectAlso clt means charlotte my bad lol | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 06:57 PM |
| 1 | What should I expectI mean we’re meeting up with our friends to go cologne shopping so I’m not sure about alone time. Plus I’m not really feeling her as much as I use too but at the same time, this is an opportunity I always dreamed off so idk. | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Is too much fun a turn off?Nah I was just having fun with my friend and they seemed to be dancing too. I guess I just let internet theories get too deep into my head. I have this idea that people who let loose make other people who don’t feel either a.admiration b.unease c. Attracted d.nothing | /r/seduction | 09/12/24 04:32 AM |
| 2 | How to not be seen as a little brotherIt’s interesting you said that because the dude who ended up getting her was doing vogue poses in front of everybody in class (acting class). He is very masculine and seemed comfortable in his skin. I guess because he was more fun. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Do I have to be physical every date?We’re college students | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to be physical every date?So it’s not too late? | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to be physical every date?Ok, would you say I’m doing fine rn? | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to be physical every date?I wouldn’t mind smashing tho but It’s not my main priority with her. More of me trying to establish something emotionally | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to be physical every date?No im more interested in getting to know her and taking it to the next step. But I don’t know if I need to be physical interactive with her every time we meet for like coffee or something | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Do I have to be physical every date?So if it’s just a casual date, then hugs are fine? And if I didn’t hug her I can hug her next time? | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Do I have to be physical every date?I was finna say, she probably didn’t wanna hug in public or some idk | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 04:50 AM |
| 4 | Do I have to be physical every date?So if I escalate on our next date I should be fine right? | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 04:36 AM |
| 1 | How to get over awkward moments with girlsAppreciate the story. Yeah, I do want to talk to her at some point but don’t want to be seen as some weird guy 😂. Overcoming anxiety is a journey | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 01:12 AM |
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