What is your best technique when it comes to texting?

SnooHesitations4922 · 2025-01-20T09:20:43+00:00

Minimize texting to the point where you don't need a technique.

Women are not the cause of modern dating struggles...the invention of the cell phone is because it deceived people into adopting unnatural communication patterns. Nothing will tank your s.m.v. faster than the device in your pocket for many reasons.

Women's attraction increases through absence, you can text all the right things at all the right intervals and the woman would still get turned off for over-communicating when you aren't physically near her

ApprehensiveEmploy21 · 2025-01-20T12:04:39+00:00

texting is for logistics. 99% of attraction happens irl.

nighthunterrrr · 2025-01-20T15:09:35+00:00

avoid texting as much as possible

projectmale · 2025-01-20T17:21:04+00:00

Texting is for children. I talk.

Flat_Elevator_7479 · 2025-01-20T06:47:04+00:00

You need to bounce over what she is saying, you messages needs to first have a link between her messages and give her a door to bounce in return cuz if she has to think to much about what to answer, you lost it.

You need to have some technique. For example (idk if it sounds good in English cuz I’m French) but I always try to insert theses type of sentences : — She said oh really me too , «we already have so much in commun »

— If she asks a simple question but not too common ( how are you doesn’t count for example ) « You going too fast for me , I like to take my time » That’s usually what girls says btw not us as man

— If she doesn’t respond for 1/2 days to « A good thing with you is that you answer immediately , we can like this have a real conversation »

— What do yiu for living ? Oh this and that « I’m disappointed , she said why? , cuz I thought a girl like you will be this and that ( heart breaker/ totally spies / secret agent »

— I don’t remember when I got to insert this one below but I know that a good laugh rate ( don’t put them in the same messages )

« Who sent you here ? Satan ? Or worst my ex » — The special how to ask her to go out ? ( like this it’s come from her / her idea to go ) « what restaurant / film / bar is cool in my city ? - Oh maybe this and that. Alright let’s go there »

Idk I have probably more pre used phrases that helps to flirt by text but It’s the only that come from to my head

EmilyHHenderson · 2025-01-20T06:17:36+00:00

i’ll look over ur texts

Apples_into_Snapple · 2025-01-20T13:53:43+00:00

There’s an old saying in text game that goes like “You’ll accomplish more less”. Meaning that you’ll get more through less texting. If she sends one text box, you also only send one. If she sends a paragraph or som, you don’t send a paragraph back, you reply with a couple of sentences letting her know you got the idea. Most importantly, if things are positive escalate for a date or ask if you can call her.

Phones are still phones and work as a telecommunications device still. If things are looking positive, ask if you can call her and the sound of your voice will better convey your personality and your frame. There is only so much you can get across with words in texting. Calling her will accomplish more.

Jironasaurus · 2025-01-20T10:12:06+00:00

Send your texts over. I'm happy to help take a look.

Aslakthedark · 2025-01-20T17:42:27+00:00

Text her when she's relaxed and most likely to have time in her hands. I do most of my texting at evenings when i know they are not busy. And even then keep it brief.

NikonDexter · 2025-01-22T07:02:43+00:00

Texting? How old are you?

Intelligent-Roll-763 · 2025-01-22T19:21:55+00:00

Hi. reach out in private so I can help with your texting . I used to struggle but now it's pretty straightforward for me .

Chiiiicckkeeennn · 2025-01-20T06:33:54+00:00

Be yourself

burncushlikewood · 2025-01-20T06:40:06+00:00

Texting is an extension of your speech, it's writing, so if you want to get better at texting work on your speech, how to do that other than reading and writing....I have no idea but I'll link a video on general conversational tips https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y?si=y6BSpFEw9AOuMAXC

EetinAintCheetin · 2025-01-20T14:14:51+00:00

Text as little as humanly possible. All texting should be about her coming over to hook up, not about connecting, building rapport, etc.

Title	What is your best technique when it comes to texting?
Author	decal1210
Upvotes	40
Comments	23
Date	January 20, 2025 5:58 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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