HELP!!! I am obsessed with women

seduction-ModTeam · 2025-02-09T13:37:10+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

everydayguy_ · 2025-02-09T07:19:45+00:00

You sound young. Maybe you’re not but sounds like it. I wasted my youth prioritising women/sex. Looking back at it, my obsession wasn’t even really about sex. It was about trying to obtain self worth.

Prioritise yourself. Your hobbies, your career, whatever. Do things that make you feel like a man and make you feel happy about who you are. Then you’ll be more attractive and better quality women will be interested in you.

4scentsin1day · 2025-02-09T07:20:19+00:00

You’re all good brother. Our whole purpose of “being obsessed with women” is to reproduce. It’s 100% normal

There are blokes out there with low Testosterone, Depression, plethora of other problems that won’t even bat an eye at the idea of “seduction” I know of men who are so low in confidence and self worth that they do not even bother thinking about women what so ever.

Don’t stress G

Elegant-Ad-1137 · 2025-02-09T07:26:21+00:00

nothing wrong with thinking about woman a lot that’s normal but putting them as your number one priority isn’t… find out what you love to do and build a career and status out of it… use that energy towards yourself instead!!!

rich_god · 2025-02-09T08:33:15+00:00

It’s normal because there is a lack of erotic connections in your life. If you have no money and don’t know how you’re going to pay the rent, it’s normal to obsess over money.

Once you have a stable relationship or you are fulfilled in term of intimacy, erotic connection and romantic love, your obsession should decrease. If not, it’s called sex addiction and it’s another thing.

Lenovo_Driver · 2025-02-09T07:21:10+00:00

What exactly are you obsessing over?

They’re just people.

FlexViper · 2025-02-09T10:15:03+00:00

Write down the imperfections of your crush and their flaws. Then compare to her other qualities. Is my own ways of not worshipping them like an idol.

For example she's pretty but dumb as fuck so attraction went from hundred to near fifty so you won't obsessed over her and next thing you know she's interested. Don't get blinded by crush because in your head you're building her up to be a perfect girlfriend which in reality is far from perfect.

Learn how to hack your brain because even girls who are celebrities or idol in Japan hates their own fans don't treat her like a celebrity or an idol unless you want to be treated like a fan

posh_wank · 2025-02-09T07:05:58+00:00

Lol it feels like i wrote this post

tonyferguson2021 · 2025-02-09T09:14:01+00:00

Help with what?

Red_Cat69 · 2025-02-09T12:35:21+00:00

Obsession is never good. But why would you even care what's 'masculine'?

delicious_a_vocado · 2025-02-09T10:32:24+00:00

I have the same with sex. I constantly think about sex.

funkysupe · 2025-02-09T09:01:17+00:00

I understand that you like women… What Guy doesn’t? But it is a problem if you put them first in your life… Women have a sense for this if you don’t have a passion and goal in life that supersedes women you will not get women, at least not easily. so find something that’s a passion of yours that is not women and chase that, and start looking at women as a great nice to have, and you’ll be much happier.

Wing_Inevitable · 2025-02-09T12:53:39+00:00

HELP!!! I am obsessed with women

Sounds normal.

Like that is the whole point you are on this earth.

The problem is idk whether this is my masculine drive to think of women this much

This. Look you are probably a kid. Still have hormones pumping you up. It is normal - I have gotten erections from a hole in a tree.

You should probably fuck some of them.

i also take learning seduction a lot more seriously than my actual school work

Now here is a question - when will you use the Pythagorean theorem IRL and when will you use seduction.

This is called the “Dick school fail” (just made the name up) - when your dick getting wet takes precedent over school work.

I would probably recommend focusing a bit on yourself. But that won’t stop - IT WILL be with you all the way to 50 (when nothing matters anymore) - just get used to it. Distract yourself with other shit like hobbies.

i think i treat women too much like my god.

Fuck em and “Post nut clarity” will kick in or get a “nice” gf and have your perception of women (crushes) ruined forever.

Title	HELP!!! I am obsessed with women
Author	decal1210
Upvotes	15
Comments	18
Date	February 9, 2025 7:01 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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