Took even more L’s. How do I cope?

AssistTemporary8422 · 2025-02-25T18:22:37+00:00

Typically a problem with your looks, verbals, emotional energy, or texting. Hard to know without more details. To be fair cold approach is difficult so see your success as doing better than you did before and moving things further.

-MrsInterrupted- · 2025-02-25T18:29:59+00:00

Are you looking for hookups or a deeper connection? Even if you’re looking for something more casual, I don’t think it’s necessary to get too caught up in games. Women do like attention, we also like to feel special so if they get the impression you’re trying to play the numbers rather than have a genuine interest in her, she might back off. I’m sure you have more to offer a woman than you even realize yet, what makes you special do you think?💜

Valravn6666 · 2025-02-26T16:42:13+00:00

That’s the nature of the game man. You’re gonna take more L’s than W’s with this method. Cold approach is undeniably the most inefficient way to start generating volume because the sheer amount of effort you must put into your conversations, only to receive several useless numbers, just isn’t worth the grind. Abysmal ROI. My advice would be to stop playing this game entirely and instead rely on social circles and dating apps.

Mc_Dickles · 2025-02-26T01:34:50+00:00

Take a good hard look at yourself and ask why shit doesn't work out, cuz you're not giving us any details. Because even a girl not looking for anything serious is down for some fun.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2025-02-25T20:18:40+00:00

Remember at the end of the day that they’re strangers

dobbs1997 · 2025-02-25T23:28:30+00:00

what do you consider to be an “L”

Dismal_Grape_8761 · 2025-02-26T16:42:28+00:00

Go back to actual social events and get good at talking with people, even memorize routines or shit like this Cold approach without extensive knowledge in social interactions (like being a former sales person etc) is useless

Entire_Bee_7648 · 2025-02-27T04:42:25+00:00

Don't cope, learn

BuyHighValueWomanNow · 2025-02-28T20:30:35+00:00

Do field reports.

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-03-02T17:43:20+00:00

Take the L and keep taking action. Learn from your mistakes. Try not to dig yourself into a mental hole. What else can you do?

Title	Took even more L’s. How do I cope?
Author	decal1210
Upvotes	2
Comments	23
Date	February 25, 2025 6:19 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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