Should i make a move?

megasathvik · 2020-04-12T09:43:08+00:00

Check for any interest from her side. Its difficult to say now, if she likes you too romantically, then go for it in your Europe trip. Else wait.

EternalJourney · 2020-04-12T11:04:08+00:00

Don't fall into the trap to misinterpret her wanting to go to Europe with you as sexual interest. It could also mean that you are deepass into the friendzone. Meet her after quarantine, make a move (escalate, escalate, escalate) and see where this leads. It's the easiest way to find out and 100% more effective than pondering.

We here can't assess your situation enough, since we're lacking all the contextual variables.

mr_Tobbor · 2020-04-12T09:12:06+00:00

Keep fantasaising hot fucks with her in all positions (eg anal). That is something you now have in your hands. Real sex may happen after meeting her. After corona masturbation era. Every guy's room full with cum at this masturbation period.

Hiera75 · 2020-04-12T09:56:24+00:00

I my opinion you should try to see her after the confinement. Do a date or something. If you don't know her too much to get to know each other (you really dont want to travel with someone that you don't like but you have no idea you do, I did it and the trip sucked very much). However I am not against the facetime except if you know how to flirt that could be cool just don't get into the friend vibes because she might need distraction from her boredom. After the dates and once you have kissed her, bed her etc... once you know there is attraction, and sexually attraction, then you can say to her ok you can come with me to Europe. Hope it helps. If it turns out that she is attracted the trip could be awesome. Btw where are you going to ?

theEvilShrimpBurger · 2020-04-12T10:27:24+00:00

She's waiting for you to make a move.If you want to get to know her better, ask her if you can ft or call her because you want to hear her beautiful voice and get to know her better. If you wait too long she'll friendzone you.

quinnmcd · 2020-04-12T14:59:24+00:00

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2020-04-13T05:27:43+00:00

If you're attracted, you should always make a move. But only one, don't desperately pursue the same woman who has already rejected you. If she isn't into you when you make your move, move on.

You're not looking for a friend, you're looking for a gf/lay.

Typical_Tea · 2020-04-12T08:18:57+00:00

go for it

FakeTrending · 2020-04-12T08:21:42+00:00

Do not Facetime with her but do meet with her in Europe or before. C'mon dude, if a girl is inviting herself to your vacation, she is DTF

lori1069 · 2020-04-12T08:35:06+00:00

Let me guess big o you blocked me again lmfao

lori1069 · 2020-04-12T08:45:28+00:00

Oh block me on the post but can answer threw a private messaging

hughonvicodin · 2020-04-12T10:20:56+00:00

Try to escalate sexually a bit. Make it step by step. Make a sexual flirt.. if she takes it positively.. good.. else take a step back and make a less bold flirt. This way you'll know her interest in you. Other than that, Just keep continuing with what you're doing.. sharing memes/videos/media whatever. You can start playing online games (say, UNO) with her too to continue the interest in the long run.

Title	Should i make a move?
Author	Idfktbh999
Upvotes	11
Comments	29
Date	April 12, 2020 8:18 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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