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[–]Kylemoa13 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I think you know what to do here. There's really no need for this post but I look forward to the update. You dont need us to tell you what the next move is.
Good luck
[–]LoneWolf1404 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
' I don‘t want to be too offensive because I know that part of why she likes me is because I actually respect her and not just grope her like an asshole.'
Go to r/niceguys. Read see posts over there. Realize that what you said in that quote was creepy as fuck and that you currently have the same mentality like those creeps. Then when she comes you cuddle while you're watching netflix. At some point you turn that shit off, look at her, make a joke a then shove that tongue up her throat and never ever say some retarded nice guy shit like that.
No, dude, she won't call the police if you do that. And if she does, she's the creep, not you.
Sounds like this girl has been hoping that you'd make a move for ages and you're all busy acting like a neckbeard.
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[–]LoneWolf1404 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know, but it's hard to understand how that is one of the best situations you can find yourself in, if you've never been all the way there before.
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[–]LoneWolf1404 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Can you please not be making a grand plan and just go with it?
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[–]LoneWolf1404 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
I know man, we've all been there. Bear in mind that if you stay scared, she's gonna feel bad and she won't feel and she's gonna reject you.
How old are you?
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[–]LoneWolf1404 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Well she's lying to her mom so she can spend more time with you. I mean how much more does this girl have to do for you to take action. She's kinda obvious in my opinion so just go for it.
Convince yourself that she is into you. You're gonna act with much more confidence that way.
Let us know how it went.
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[–]LoneWolf1404 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
This is telling me that you're hinting at a relationship which is red flags for her. Dude, avoid to topic. Pretty much every girls says she doesn't want a relationship because if she is to commit, she needs to see for herself that it's worth it, not be convinced. In other words, show her a good time, make it sexual and I promise she's gonna ask you for a relationship herself, you won't even need to bring it up, she will.
So she's coming to you, but she said she doesn't want a relationship. What she's basically saying is 'buddy, if you won't make a move when I get there, if you keep acting sketchy and give me this relationship vibe, you're gonna end up in the friendzone'.
When she gets there be fun, be flirty and kiss her. Don't worry about the kiss, first kisses are usually awkward. And an awkward one is better than nothing at all. Just do it.
Good luck and have fun. Let us know how it went.
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[–]LoneWolf14041 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Don't be nervous, enjoy yourself my man. Good luck and have fun!
[–]LiFTClarity 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Something I’ve learned recently is to kiss the girl simply based on the fact that you want to. If there’s chemistry and good vibes, which based on your post I’d say there is, it’ll go over well. Fortune favors the bold
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