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The irony is killing me. They reek of insecurity. No need to write these down and keep repeating them if you truly believe in them. There's also no need to say them to others. It's called validation and I'm pretty sure I have dozens of insecure hoes with daddy issues posting at least one of these exact lines a day in their insta stories. Don't be a basic hoe yourself. You won't feel the need to post these anywhere if you truly believe you're like that.
/r/seduction02/11/19 10:00 PM
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When I was under 18 I would go to buy cigs and I would rarely ever have someone as me for my ID. Then on the very first day I got my first adult ID when I turned 18, I went to a shop to casually buy some cigs and they asked me for my ID. I couldn't believe it. Now I'm 22, I got a beard, I'm pretty massive and I still get people asking for my ID, especially when I'm going to casinos.
/r/seduction27/10/19 01:31 AM
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At this point being afraid of forcing stuff is your last issue. Also, props to the girl for actually waiting for you, means that she really likes you. If she's this patient, then you don't have to be worried. You need to do 3 things: get her somewhere where it's just the two of you and where sex can happen, aka your or her place start making out do not be worried, it will all go by itself Kiss, start to undress her slowly, go for some oral, use protection and you're good to go. Keep in mind that…
/r/seduction27/10/19 01:27 AM
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Yeah nice one. Thing is, if you still want her, you kinda closed the door. She might become a bit desperate, but at that point she's just an infatuated thot which I doubt you want.
/r/seduction09/09/19 04:20 AM
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You don't subtly flirt and you don't compliment her for no reason. You just flirt. I've always been a natural flirt but this guy is just on a whole new level and watching him is both funny and helpful. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wrY_H4mVCYg Try to figure him out yourself and then do what he does. What I mean by that is that you shouldn't use his same exact flirts, because I doubt you'll have the right setup too often. Watch after when and how he's doing it. Enjoy!
/r/seduction09/09/19 03:08 AM
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That cuts both ways. It's a particular human trait - we want what we can't have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/19 12:03 AM
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Tall white guy here. I can totally relate to some of this stuff, though. However, this, in many ways, is a glorified fake it til' you make it approach. Also some of this stuff is a bit ridiculous, my dude, like the fake Rolex or wearing certain shoes to gain height. I'm sorry, but those statements reek of insecurities. I'm doing better than ever with women, in the past year I've a couple of Tinder dates, had a relationship attempt, a ons and now a girlfriend for 4 months and this comes at a time…
/r/seduction04/09/19 12:59 AM
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Yes but what you need to understand is that you should focus on building meaningful friendships with men and women. Sexual partners will come as a bonus. If you prioritize sex, people will feel that you have an interest and you're gonna come across as creepy. Focus on having a great time with cool people. Pussy will come along, I promise, just don't focus on it.
/r/seduction03/09/19 12:30 AM
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The very first step you need to make is to stop keeping people at a distance. Become close friends with someone. I've known certain people for so many years, with some I go as far back as almost 15 and I'm 22 myself. I've met some really shitty people, that I've kicked out of my life. Haven't even considered closing myself because I know that for every really cool and loyal person that you want in your life, you will come across some shitty people. But trust me - the trade-off pays dividends big…
/r/seduction02/09/19 11:43 PM
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It depends on aspects of your life that I do not know. Have you got a social circle? Are you working? Are you in school? Have you got a friend group? Let me know and we'll work something out.
/r/seduction02/09/19 10:16 PM
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Develop your social intelligence. What I mean by that is - start interacting more with people and women in particular
/r/seduction02/09/19 09:15 PM
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I always come off as an asshole and they give me a lot of shit. However, whenever I joke with them or ask for compliance I get the right since, which means that they're giving me shit on purpose due to my frame. Just maintain it, but start flirting. That incel rhetoric won't help you either OP. You can be an asshole, as I said, but be sweet sometimes as well. They'll change their behavior when you show them that side of you and you won't find them so annoying after that.
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:23 AM
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Accept it and say something like 'Oh I'm glad that you mentioned it, I was beginning to think that you had a crush on me.' Meet her, make her laugh, flirt, give her a good time and it will all work by itself. Sounds like she's wandering a bit so don't you dare care about other guys, it's all about you.
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:19 AM
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You sound needy af OP. Neither story views, nor that message mean anything. Maybe you came off as a bit creepy. Just make sure you're calm and flirty when you meet face to face. Make her feel good in person and nothing else will matter.
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:13 AM
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Sounds like you're a bit afraid to take initiative OP. You need to lead towards kissing, she won't do it herself. The same thing that got her talking to you non-stop and going out with you, is the same thing that will get her fucking you. Keep joking, flirting and providing her with a good experience. I'll ignore you're last line, you're going into r/niceguys territory with that.
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:10 AM
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Please tell me how you invested hundreds of dollars into clothes and cologne which instantly turned you into a pussy magnet. On top of that, I don't see how anyone with a 2-digit IQ could imply that the opposite to what I said is staying unattractive and never asking anyone out. Once you're down counting the number of flakes and ghosts in your phone, please tell us how it's done.
/r/seduction23/07/19 01:29 AM
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Not really the subreddit for this, but you sound a bit insecure. I really don't get it why it bothers you. She's looking for validation, not some other dick. If you keep acting like this though, she might get annoyed and start posting these for more than just validation. It's in your hands, you'll decide how it goes from here on.
/r/seduction23/07/19 12:16 AM
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Oneitis = neediness Once you've removed her from the pedestal and see her as any other girl once again, you can re-engage, and by the sound of it, you might be successful when you do. Just not right now because you're too needy though. Which in turn means: you're gonna come off as kinda awkward and you're gonna make her feel uncomfortable and turn her off you're gonna be even more into her and make yourself feel bad Learn to not care and you're gonna be able to get more girls than you could imag…
/r/seduction23/07/19 12:13 AM
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This coupled with a comment of his. Definitely a troll.
/r/seduction23/07/19 12:08 AM
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Erase all that. be natural Stop acting like you need strategies. You're gonna come off as unnatural and/or a creep.
/r/seduction23/07/19 12:06 AM
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Don't be nervous, enjoy yourself my man. Good luck and have fun!
/r/seduction02/07/19 12:49 AM
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This is telling me that you're hinting at a relationship which is red flags for her. Dude, avoid to topic. Pretty much every girls says she doesn't want a relationship because if she is to commit, she needs to see for herself that it's worth it, not be convinced. In other words, show her a good time, make it sexual and I promise she's gonna ask you for a relationship herself, you won't even need to bring it up, she will. So she's coming to you, but she said she doesn't want a relationship. What …
/r/seduction28/06/19 08:05 PM
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Can someone tell me what's up? Sounds funny
/r/seduction28/06/19 12:53 AM
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I created a Tinder profile for my girl. I added the main picture then it took me like 5 minutes to add another 4 or 5 pics. In those 5 minutes she already made 100+ likes, a bunch of them being superlikes. BONUS: I switched from women to men on mine (so I posed as being gay). Made 100+ like in like 4 hours. I consider that to be the dark side of Tinder. I'm not really a homophobe, but I swear those guys were weird. Many of them were the average nice guy, but hitting on men. Lesson: men are thirs…
/r/seduction28/06/19 12:51 AM
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Well she's lying to her mom so she can spend more time with you. I mean how much more does this girl have to do for you to take action. She's kinda obvious in my opinion so just go for it. Convince yourself that she is into you. You're gonna act with much more confidence that way. Let us know how it went.
/r/seduction23/06/19 01:07 PM
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I know man, we've all been there. Bear in mind that if you stay scared, she's gonna feel bad and she won't feel and she's gonna reject you. How old are you?
/r/seduction23/06/19 01:02 PM
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Can you please not be making a grand plan and just go with it?
/r/seduction23/06/19 10:10 AM
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I know, but it's hard to understand how that is one of the best situations you can find yourself in, if you've never been all the way there before.
/r/seduction23/06/19 05:01 AM
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' I don‘t want to be too offensive because I know that part of why she likes me is because I actually respect her and not just grope her like an asshole.' Go to r/niceguys. Read see posts over there. Realize that what you said in that quote was creepy as fuck and that you currently have the same mentality like those creeps. Then when she comes you cuddle while you're watching netflix. At some point you turn that shit off, look at her, make a joke a then shove that tongue up her throat and never …
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:02 AM
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Since it's your first time, you probably acted awkward in person and then over text. Don't worry about rejection. I know it sounds like nonsense right now but believe me, if you learn to not care about rejection, you won't even notice it. Sounds like she was interested but you blew it a little. Assume it's your fault so you can improve and leave her. At this point you probably don't know how to revamp her interest, so it's better to move on. Still, if you get to see her in person, be nice, make …
/r/seduction23/06/19 02:57 AM
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Your view on value is completely wrong. You don't gain value through material stuff. Instead, what gives you value are your personality and the type of relationship you've formed with the girl. If you have a fun personality and make sure that you have a man-woman relationship with the girl, your value as a sexual being will increase and you will be able to pursue a sexual relationship of an type with the girl.
/r/seduction23/06/19 02:51 AM
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Any compliment is good as long as it's genuine. If you're doing it for bonus points, well, there's no bonus points for that. But it won't do any harm as build up towards and end product.
/r/seduction14/06/19 12:55 AM
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Went with current gf to a club (we were just friends back then but I could tell that she liked me). She got a approached by a dude in the club and they exchanged social media accounts. The next day she kept telling me how sweet that guy was and how she wanted to meet him. Couldn't care less, kept doing my stuff. He eventually talked her out of liking him, he asked her out but she rejected him. We've just celebrated out first month together and she's already crazy in love with me. Who cares if it…
/r/seduction09/06/19 02:26 AM
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you ended it abruptly yourself and I think she's a bit offended herself. If you wanna call it out yourself, hit her up with something fun like 'damn oompa loompas keep making a mess'. If not, hit her up talking about something else but keep it light and fun. Whatever you do, wait a couple more days if it's been a while. If it's a matter of hours, resume the conversation like I told you to do in my first suggestion. Ghosting doesn't really look like this.
/r/seduction09/06/19 02:12 AM
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Well you don't have a definite date, so there's nothing to confirm since there's no actual date. Give her a few days of silence, reply to one of her snaps / stories and ask her out. Make a definite date. That means day, place, time.
/r/seduction23/04/19 11:15 PM
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Don't ask her out on a group date for your first date. Go about your business, post a story doing something fun with your friends. Also clubbing on a Sunday? That's kinda strange but ok. If I were you, I wouldn't ask for a date at the weekend at all. Most public places are loud and crowded and it's harder to find an intimate environment. I always make the first date on a working day. One of the advantages of being in college and not working I guess, but that's just me. Still, you said you alread…
/r/seduction23/04/19 04:07 AM
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Don't wanna sound like a douche but you lost your virginity, yet you struggle with asking a girl for her instagram? Like, how did you lose your virginity? Was it some fat chick who pinned you down or what?
/r/seduction23/04/19 04:01 AM
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'Glad I met you. I'll be in your area again next month. Maybe we'll do something together, I'll let you know' or something along those lines.
/r/seduction23/04/19 04:00 AM
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No strategy, just women's nature, they actually do it instinctively. Learn to work around this feature of theirs and you can actually pull off comebacks on exes. Step 1: start doing again what got them attracted in the first place.
/r/seduction23/04/19 03:56 AM
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There is a level of interest but she won't make a commitment. Let her spam your DMs. The truth is that if she really values you, she will keep messaging you. If she calls you out on staying NC, just say you've been busy. Do a little chit chat then quit responding. Let her ask you out or at least hint at going out. Unless she does so, you shouldn't do much. Also work on your emotional strength and kill the neediness brother. You're already doing better so keep up the good work. The fun part is th…
/r/seduction23/04/19 03:54 AM
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'I lied about my age but why is this bitch asking me about my age? Fucking insulting'. r/niceguys anyone? Also 18 year olds literally dream about getting that 34 year old dick because guys their age suck. Your whole approach is just a complete disaster.
/r/seduction23/04/19 03:45 AM
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'agreed that it'll be a date..... But it's still not officially confirmed, I'll ask again on the day of or before to confirm' this just stinks of lack of confidence and she probably picked up on it. Quit texting her, quit snapping, that's gay beta orbiter bullshit. Also stop focusing on labels. It's fucking Tinder and you're wondering whether you're dating or going out as friends? Yet again - it's fucking Tinder. Also, why do you need a label for your meeting anyway? Are you gonna have her sign …
/r/seduction23/04/19 03:43 AM
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Oh yeah girl friends will always complain about players to you but still date them, not you. Still, I suppose that she sometimes rejects players, doesn't she?
/r/seduction05/03/19 01:51 AM
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Oh you did it over text? Impressive
/r/seduction04/03/19 07:04 PM
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I can totally relate to that, just making sure. And yes, rejection accounts for many factors. However I was curious about the situation in which giving player vibes is the main issue.
/r/seduction04/03/19 06:51 PM
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How did you end up dating her? How much did you have to work on building her comfort?
/r/seduction04/03/19 06:50 PM
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Thanks for the link. I'll definitely check it out.
/r/seduction04/03/19 06:48 PM
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No thanks I don't want to end up being a loser spamming some seduction page over the internet, because that's the only thing you've been doing for a long time. I really enjoy the attention I've been getting from girls and the opportunities that I have created for myself using the mindset I described. Also not only I'm not a phony PUA, I'm neither phony, nor a PUA and never intended to be any of them. As I have already stated multiple times, you fucking retard, I too am speaking from experience a…
/r/seduction13/02/19 09:27 PM
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Holy fuck you actually checked my past posts xD. Glad you did though because if you would've payed close attention you would've seen where I started from and where I am now. Also who said anything about many many exes? None of those girls are exes, in fact I only talked about two of them, one of which I mentioned here, two posts above. Also the very fact that you think that having good game means not messing up ever, pretty much confirms what I said about you before: you're one of those morons w…
/r/seduction13/02/19 08:15 PM
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No, this post is not for me, this post is for new guys who are better off not doing what this guy is saying because they won't know how to persist and will end up chasing. I like it how you've asked me to further detail my claims and then you've been trying to qualify me instead of saying yourself why you think my approach is wrong. Because if there's one surefire way to make yourself look like an absolute moron during a conversation, that would be attacking the other person and making it person…
/r/seduction13/02/19 05:44 PM
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Currently talking to 3 girls and trying to perform a comeback with a 4th that I messed up with a while ago because I was worried that I might come across as chasing and she thought I was playing her and went cold. Then I became confused 'but, but... I wasn't chasing why is she gone?'. Read those books and not only, applied what I learned, some stuff worked, some stuff didn't, Now I've developed my own method and it's great. You listen to reply, not to understand. It's your choice whether you acc…
/r/seduction13/02/19 05:16 AM
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Yet again it all comes down to mindset. Needy and chasing go together. You are chasing when you are needy. pursuit + neediness = chasing pursuit + desire = persistence Desire is sexy, neediness is not. Persistence is sexy, neediness is not. Desire is when you're attitude is like 'I want you, I think you're great, but I don't need you. My life will be great even without you'. Neediness is when you're like 'I really want you, you're the only one, my life is shit without you'. Think about it this w…
/r/seduction13/02/19 04:52 AM
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The main issue with the ball in her court is that you're almost telling her 'i want you to chase me' when she's already giving clear signals that she won't because she said maybe to your proposal so it's silly and it will lose you girls that you might actually be able to go out with.. I'd say that this girl will let her guard down if you persist. I would answer with 'Oh I see how it goes. You need to check your schedule, you busy girl. What next? Will I have to speak to your agent for an appoint…
/r/seduction13/02/19 04:44 AM
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Thanks for stopping by. These techniques are mostly meant to help nice guys change their mentality and learn how to approach women. They do need to learn these techniques and try them out because it will help them become naturally good with women. Many however keep playing these games and come across as disingenuous. I myself started checking such communities because I was worried I was a nice guy and my approach sucked. I started applying these techniques and not much changed. That is how I rea…
/r/seduction13/02/19 04:36 AM
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Be more specific. You might simply worry that you come across as needy yet you're not and it's just in your head. It happens quite a lot too so go ahead and tell us some situations where you think you cam across as needy. What you did/said, how the girl reacted etc.
/r/seduction13/02/19 04:28 AM
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Flirt and qualify them. Preselection will help. If you worry about being pervy, you're down a wrong path. Approach them as you approach any other girl.
/r/seduction13/02/19 04:27 AM
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You can initiate contact more than they do and still not chase. Chasing and neediness are mindsets. There is no action that in its nature is needy, rather the way you do it. You can pound a girl with texts and if they're all funny, light hearted and indicate clearly that you have a take it or leave it attitude, then you're not chasing, You're not needy or chasing and she's gonna know it.
/r/seduction13/02/19 04:24 AM
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Oh I see. Unfortunately I always seem to trigger them into doing such dumb shit and I got used to it. Plus it's not like I'm constantly talking to her. I'm pinging her ever once in a while, like once every 1-3 weeks. Never a bad a idea to leave doors open, especially since she's social circle and we do get to see each other. I'm talking to other girls as well though.
/r/seduction20/01/19 09:43 PM
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I'm not really sure what you mean.
/r/seduction20/01/19 09:19 PM
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I know she's talking to others and I don't mind. She used to tell me stuff that showed she was intrigued about the fact that I didn't care. Anyway what exactly makes you think that?
/r/seduction20/01/19 06:43 PM
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Yeah, that's what I'm also trying to outline. It's more of an abundance issue, rather than the impossibility to recover a girl that you messed up with. I've found out that Dan Bacon's approach on getting an ex back is pretty is spot on in such situations, whether that would be a girlfriend, ex-lover, ex-crush etc that you made a bad impression upon. And it works wonders on women. It doesn't actually make a lot of sense to me, but it is something I've been doing naturally for a long time and some…
/r/seduction22/12/18 04:10 AM
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Yes man, that's what I mean. As you said "i'm leaving, but by the way if you actually want me in the end im still there" If someone friendzones you, you say 'I am not interested in friendship, I think you're awesome and I see you as a potential romantic partner, but give me a call if you change your mind' Or if someone ghosts / flakes etc. you say something like 'I'm not used to chasing, I would like to see you so let me know when you figure out your schedule' or something along those lines. You…
/r/seduction09/12/18 02:05 AM
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Instead of talking about the past you could've acted like nothing happened. You would've had much better chances if you were warm, flirt with her a bit and then ask her out. Also judging by your op I don't see any signs of neediness on your part, but hers. Maybe this was your issue: https://www.girlschase.com/content/tactics-tuesdays-how-turn-around-girl-auto-rejection However if you kept blowing up her phone and kept bringing up the LTR, then yes, it was neediness. Also did she try to friendzon…
/r/seduction07/12/18 02:02 AM
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Did you ever hear back from her?
/r/seduction06/12/18 07:29 PM
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Perhaps I was not specific enough. Multiple PUAs and dating coaches say that whenever a girl acts flaky or blows you off, you should send her a text, the message being 'I'm backing off, the ball is in your court now'. You're obviously not gonna say that literally, but the idea behind whatever you say should be that you're essentially telling her that if she changes her mind, she will be the one who initiates contact. In case it's not clear, if you ask her out and she says she is busy or she does…
/r/seduction06/12/18 06:29 PM
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What are you talking about? If you can't be specific / helpful, there's no need to be mean.
/r/seduction06/12/18 06:19 PM
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Great insight. As far as the girl I mentioned goes, she's been flirting with me as of late but she does it occasionally. I'm usually aloof so I feel like she's doing it in an attempt to build rapport with me. And yeah I'm pretty sure that she felt rejected at certain times because there were periods when she went cold. But still, do you think that it is true that a woman needs to feel in a way superior for her in order to flirt? Are you saying that normal girls will flirt then feel rejected if y…
/r/seduction31/10/18 10:29 AM
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Wow so you actually told her that she's insecure. You totally made her feel like shit and she auto-rejectes. You also came off as a bit needy. That's a pretty big fuck up. Did something similar with a girl on Tinder who seemed to be really into me. At some point I called her a stalker but I was just flirting. She was insecure herself and she became butthurt and we stopped talking. Waited a couple of weeks and I re-engaged. I finally got her phone number and she agreed on a date. I texted her a w…
/r/seduction31/10/18 10:20 AM
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As far as energy goes, I actually had a chat with the first chick and I could tell that she was so into me. I knew that because of how she acted in person. She would send me stuff, she would flirt, she asked me to keep her a sit next to me at an event we were going to attend. And all that after I hit her up with a 'what's up' and she just told me what she was doing without asking anything back. Most guys would've assumed that she wasn't interested, but if you know better and know how to persist,…
/r/seduction31/10/18 01:18 AM
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'I know you're taking my number just to be nice and that you won't text me'. That's a red light. She's insecure as fuck. Not your fault, though if you really wanted her, you should have just texted her the other day, assuming that you weren't busy. Also calling might have creeped her out a bit. I don't understand why PUAs insist on calling. I get it, you're ballsy, but people will usually stay with you on the phone when they're comfortable with you. Texting is enough when you're trying to get th…
/r/seduction31/10/18 01:05 AM
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How long did it take you to act? How well did you get to know her? If you kept blowing up her phone and hanging out as friends, she got all she wanted without having to give much in return. How did you ask her out? If you talked about how much you liked her and how unique she was and all that bullshit then you turned her off. Taking too long isn't always bad, certainly not if you keep her in limbo. If you become a fixture in her life, without getting together, that's when you get friend-zoned.
/r/seduction31/10/18 12:53 AM
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I got this chick that used to view every damn story I posted. We kinda sent each other IOIs for a while, but the interaction never moved forward. I actually started acting quite manipulative myself and acted very aloof. She probably thought I didn't really like her. Anyway, after I treated her pretty badly she stopped checking my stories. Every time I would do something that would get her attraction back to a high level, she would start checking my stories again, send me snaps etc. Every time I …
/r/seduction31/10/18 12:45 AM
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Have you been texting her regularly? If you see her once a week and you're blowing up her phone in the rest of the time, then you're her pen pal. If you don't text each other at all and only meet her once a week, then you're not in the friend zone since that's not how It works. You enter the friemd zone when you interact with her 1-on-1 too much on and offline, in a platonic way. You're probably in a nothing zone right now. You're just an acquaintance. Next time you see her just flirt. Flirting …
/r/seduction16/10/18 06:59 AM
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Idk not that into her right now, she's still making me curious though.
/r/seduction09/10/18 11:35 PM
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What makes you say that?
/r/seduction09/10/18 10:34 PM
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Could come off as needy though it sounds like this chick is already crazy about you so she will write it off, even though she won't like it. It's a matter of preference. I would text her on the day the date is set, a few hours before you're supposed to meet. Don't pressure yourself on this issue, though. You're in a dream position right now so it's not like you can do any wrong for the time being. You seem to be freaking out a bit. That might actually hurt. Chill out, you're supposed to have fun…
/r/seduction08/10/18 04:53 PM
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I already gave you my best tip. Figure out what makes you attractive to girls you don't like or don't like that much. There must be such girls in your life. If you've been raised in such a way, you most definitely are extra nice to girls you like, which is a turn off. If you want to test this go to a girl you know she likes you and act like the average nice guy. You'll turn her off. So yet again, figure out what other women find attractive about you. When you find a girl you like, be sure to sup…
/r/seduction08/10/18 01:45 PM
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I can totally relate. Also been raised by a single mom who turned me into a white knight. Don't worry, almost every guy in our situation has this problem. If you're a guy people already look up to, chances are that they don't perceive you as being feminine, it's only in your head. You don't have to be a James Bond or The Rock to attract women. Try to be them and you won't attract women because you're not genuine. I myself am some sort of a male diva and girls like it. Now don't you think that I'…
/r/seduction08/10/18 10:08 AM
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Thanks for your answer again, good stuff!
/r/seduction06/10/18 04:28 PM
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Well if she's got a boyfriend how are you still assuming that she's interested? She's just flirting then. I flirt with girls with boyfriends all the time, and yes, sometimes I can see that they enjoy it and that they like me. However I'm always aware that this will lead nowhere since they're taken. What I lack is an emotional bond with them. They're already emotionally tied to someone else. Women with boyfriends will flirt with other guys and will feel attraction to those guys but a ridiculously…
/r/seduction06/10/18 04:20 PM
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That was a ballsy flirt, even though, from what I understand, she didn't answer. Doesn't mean that she isn't interested, it's a flirt over text and this could happen even though she's interested. Then, based on what your friend said, you sent her this: Me: Hey, I shouldn't have engaged you like that. I've always respected you as a person. That last message was inconsiderate of your relationship and our friendship. I'm sorry. This is insanely weak. Whenever you mess it up and you will do it a lot…
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:25 PM
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Don't listen to them, it was a good reply. The beauty of flirting is that it's never quite clear what you mean so it makes her curious. What you'll most definitely gonna notice is her seeking your approval from now on. However, don't overdo it. Don't do this over and over again because at some point she'll be like 'well he genuinely thinks I'm ugly'. What's gonna happen is that she's gonna self-reject and you're gonna have a very hard time recovering her. If you're interested in her, ask her out…
/r/seduction06/10/18 01:27 PM
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Thank you for your elaborate answer. Social proof, at its core, is simply showing that you're capable of navigating social situations. That's the meaning with which I used the term 'social proof'. I was more referring to simply being seen interacting with other girls, not necessarily in a sexual way. In my opinion, being seen with other women is social proof because, using your definition, you're proving that you can navigate through social situations involving women. This leads to other people …
/r/seduction05/10/18 03:49 PM
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And it can actually be true if you do it right. It's so wonderful when you manage to turn around a girl who, for whatever reason, rejected you / lost interest / distanced herself / friend zoned you etc. at first.
/r/seduction18/09/18 02:10 AM
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Plus it's generally not a good idea to ask when she's available Are you a moron?
/r/seduction16/09/18 12:39 PM
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I'm actually using labels attributed to individuals who display certain types of behaviors so what's your point?
/r/seduction15/09/18 03:31 PM
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Then perhaps you should go further in depth as to why asking for a woman's schedule is not a good idea. I'm also hoping that it's gonna be another reason other than 'it makes you look needy' since that would be one of the stupidest claims I've heard in a while. And yes trying to impose your schedule on someone without caring about theirs is quite controlling. And that's the alternative that you've been suggesting in your comments. If it's not, then yet again, stop arguing with me and coming up w…
/r/seduction15/09/18 04:05 AM
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No, I got that from you saying that asking for her schedule isn't generally a good idea. So what's the alternative? You suggesting a time not knowing and/or caring about her schedule and hoping that she goes along with it? And if she doesn't, you pull back and that's about it. It would be too much of a favor on her part to change her schedule so that it suits yours and a lot of women would rather end the interaction there. There's a difference between leading a woman and attempting to control he…
/r/seduction14/09/18 11:46 AM
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The fact that culture doesn't play a part for instance. It's actually a crucial part in dealing with women. I'm from Eastern Europe and quite a lot of things that he's preaching don't quite work here. His basics are on spot though and he's the go to person if you're just getting started
/r/seduction14/09/18 11:30 AM
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The beauty of asking for her schedule is that not only thatbid does no harm but she might give you options to choose from. Asking for her schedule is perfectly fine. Asking about the place and timing is not. You're going too much into the extreme by trying to seem this macho who doesn't care about her schedule and who actually thinks is the one that can design her schedule according to his own will. Slow down, you're not there yet. Also saying 'I would love to see you' is needy only if you are o…
/r/seduction13/09/18 09:42 PM
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What the...
/r/seduction13/09/18 09:35 PM
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Can't agree with the good old coach on anything, he's keeping it simple and real though.
/r/seduction13/09/18 09:31 PM
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My take on it is that she still likes you because she's genuinely telling you 'dude, you're turning me off, stop'. Don't text her, get busy, maybe even meet other women and get back to her when you're back at your best self. You can totally rekindle stuff if you distance yourself a bit after messing up, then re-engage once you've sorted that needy behavior out and got it out of the way.
/r/seduction13/09/18 02:21 AM
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Yes sir! Used to watch his stuff a while ago, that last one stuck with me. The initial text that I suggested isn't one of his though.
/r/seduction13/09/18 02:17 AM
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I love it. Would love to see how it works on shy / structured / hard to get women. This one was definitely into you from the beginning. Not to take anything away from you, I think your texting game is flawless, but you had that one thing going your way.
/r/seduction13/09/18 02:14 AM
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'What's up, stranger? How you been?' Chit chat a little 'I would love to see you, when are you free to get together?'
/r/seduction13/09/18 12:41 AM
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Girls on the periphery of your social circle are the best. That's crush territory. A girl who doesn't know you, can't have a crush on you. Likewise, a girl who knows you too well can't have a crush on you either since she's decided by now where you stand. The girl who knows you a bit, has enough reasons to be wondering about you and this is what builds intrigue in her mind so I genuinely don't know how you manage to struggle with the best situation you can find yourself in. If it's one particula…
/r/seduction13/09/18 12:40 AM
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Why do I feel like that I've read this exact same comment a while ago, somewhere else?
/r/seduction05/09/18 04:52 AM
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You get into friend zone in 2 cases: She's not attracted to you and either wants to let you down easily, or genuinely wants you as friend. She's attracted to you but you become a fixture in her life before getting together. Since you gave yourself up so easily, she doesn't want to risk losing you by going sexual. For us sex is what matters the most. Women want to create an emotional connection and they want someone they can rely on. If you become her rock without making sure that you're going se…
/r/seduction05/09/18 04:50 AM
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Did you even read the whole thing? It was a role play...
/r/seduction04/09/18 12:05 PM
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Not like I'm committed or suffering from oneitis or anything. I don't really care I just shared it since it was kinda strange. Why are you thinking that I'm not getting anything?
/r/seduction04/09/18 12:59 AM
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I was thinking the same. Kinda weird how she seemed so interested in seeing what type of people I'm hanging out with then going silent. Maybe she got triggered that I called her a stalker and she's trying to act cool and shit. xD
/r/seduction02/09/18 10:42 AM
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Can't really remember because you deleted it. Did you say something like 'don't worry you're fine' when she friend zoned you? Well you never ever agree with being just friend if you want to be more. If you've been flirting for a long time and she was responding to it by flirting back and being touchy with you, you simply say 'stop being silly, you know we're not friends so cut the bullshit'. If you've been platonic for a long time, which seems to be your case;, you're gonna be straight and tell …
/r/seduction01/09/18 11:21 PM
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Well I have no clue how it sounds in your language. Usually saying something like 'I've been thinking more about you' sounds needy. If she's responding could be a good sign though. Also don't ask things like 'wanna chat?' That's nice guy behavior. You want to prove yourself as the best thing that can happen to her so you have to assume that she does want to talk to you. Don't text too much. Say something like 'Haven't seen you in a long time but I would definitely like to. What's your schedule l…
/r/seduction01/09/18 05:37 PM
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Go for someting shorter like I said in the previous message. You can copy paste that one. Short and straight to the point. Also if you say 'let's talk it out' it sounds like you want to keep talking about how it was a mistake. You're putting yourself in an inferior position, it sounds needy and you're in nice guy territory. Whereas if your mindset is like 'well that was unfortunate but let's make it worth it though' you're far more relaxed and optimistic. She doesn't give a shit about what happe…
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:26 PM
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You actually missed a great opportunity there. I mean she called you back. I accidentally called people, been accidentally called myself and it's a bit cringy but it happens. You shouldn't have sent another message reinforcing what you already said. You're too worried about coming up as creepy when you aren't in the first place but then you feel like you have to do more to convince people that you're not creepy and that's when you actually become creepy. For instance just last night I started ch…
/r/seduction01/09/18 02:27 PM
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Yet again, don't forget that the vast majority of men nowadays don't know how to handle their women. They over complicate things and go into the feminine. I highly suggest you read about feminine and masculine energy. You can watch Coach Corey Wayne's content for that matter. As long as you're in your masculine, your girl will never ever even think about getting together with another man. Sure you might end up with a hoe, in which case there's nothing you can do, but few women are like that. You…
/r/seduction01/09/18 11:28 AM
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Don't text after the first date. Go silent. If she doesn't text you in a week, you text her and ask her out on a second date.
/r/seduction01/09/18 02:43 AM
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Why are you searching a cheat shit on something that is easy in the first place? As far as mindsets go they have one thing in common: abundance mindset and presenting yourself as a scarce product As far as fundamentals go: don't work too hard on your looks, just be as clean as you possibly can and make sure you apply the same principles that people apply in sales. Don't give up your powers easily, be confident, don't allow yourself to be intimidated by women's looks. Don't be a pleaser, lead the…
/r/seduction01/09/18 02:40 AM
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Preach.
/r/seduction01/09/18 02:33 AM
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Used to have a similar mindset. You have to search for abundance. Get Tinder, start meeting new women. You will stop getting hung up on that one special girl. Also if you want another chance with this former fuck buddy, think about it this way 'Well she's with someone else, that guy is probably fucking up a lot.' If you still see each other, flirt with her, tell her how happy you are, mention other girls. She's gonna be like 'wow I used to give blowjobs to this guy who's really awesome and now I…
/r/seduction01/09/18 02:28 AM
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So he would get attached to them as well?
/r/seduction01/09/18 02:14 AM
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A month is way too soon and I wouldn't go anyway. Remember, you're busy. If she asks you why you wouldn't go visit her, you're telling her that you're busy. Don't leave it in the air though. Be more specific. You said you're an athlete. Say that you've started training harder or whatever. It communicates her that she's by no means a priority and she might want to become one. If you happen to meet those other girls in the meantime, make sure you mention another girl and I suggest you genuinely st…
/r/seduction31/08/18 09:09 PM
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Classic friend zone case. Stop bullshitting yourself, you don't want to be friends with her. You wouldn't be making this post if you did. Your other friends seemed to leave quite conveniently. You two were alone, she was all over you. You should have kissed her at least. Though, since she was alone with you at your house, I guess she wouldn't mind you banging her It sounds like she really liked you, gave you one last chance to make a move and you failed. So she definitely knows that you're shy b…
/r/seduction31/08/18 04:12 PM
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If people keep saying to her stuff like 'you should form a couple' or 'do you like him' and so on it gets annoying for her. If she does like you, you have to move even faster because if you don't do anything and people keep talking about you 2 as an item, she will eventually say 'fuck it' and she will either friendzone you or self-reject and be like 'I only see him as a friend' or 'I don't like him' respectively. So by all means stop talking to other girls about her. It's gonna ruin whatever cha…
/r/seduction31/08/18 11:35 AM
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Thanks. I don't try it since I don't like cold approaching. Doesn't quite work in my country and I like to get to know the person a little before asking for a date. However, it's a page taken out of kids' book. When you were at the playground as a kid, you probably walked up to a kid a went like 'Hey, what's your name? What's your age? Wanna play?' and then you went ahead and played for as long as both of you were there. Then you might meet each other again and gradually become friends, or you m…
/r/seduction31/08/18 03:04 AM
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You have no reason to turn down a chick if you're just seeing someone else. If they are friends though and the first chick is testing you out, you got yourself a freak.
/r/seduction31/08/18 01:28 AM
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Start hugging other girls the same way. If she says anything, tell her in a calm manner that she does the same with other guys and you thought it's ok. Reach an agreement that both of you stop doing this and never touch on the subject ever again. I'd say you're being a bitch though. At the end of the day what you have with her and other guys don't is an emotional bond. If she senses that you're freaking out, aka you're weak, she's gonna start reconsidering being with you any longer.
/r/seduction31/08/18 01:25 AM
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Up-voted for Corey <3
/r/seduction31/08/18 01:22 AM
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If you don't know her you can walk up and say 'Hi, I thought I'd come over and talk to you. What's your name?' This is a pretty good test because if she's interested she's gonna answer with something like 'Hi, I'm Emma. What's your name?' If she doesn't ask you back what's your name it means that she's not interested, or has quite a low level of interest. If you're a novice, I suggest you drop it since even though you might make her be more interested in you, your game is not at that level quite…
/r/seduction31/08/18 01:19 AM
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Hm so let me get it right. She lost her interest, re-gained it, basically asked you out and you friendzoned her? If that was the case, she kinda lost it and it sounds like she went in a state of mind called self-rejection. I can link you to some stuff if you want to read about it. I'm in a kinda similar situation with a girl (definitely not the first but the most recent one). Moved too slow, she had a crush on me for a few months, we don't really know each other (haven't gone in deep conversatio…
/r/seduction31/08/18 12:59 AM
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Some PUAs go further in depth as to why they don't try to re-attract a girl once she seems to lose interest and their mindset is interesting, I'll give them that. Among others, I follow girlschase.com (do recommend it if you want in-depth articles on dating and female psychology, since some of the writers have majors in psychology and stuff like that). The main writer there has several articles on this exact matter. There are 2 main reasons as to why he doesn't recommend attempting to re-gain a …
/r/seduction30/08/18 09:51 PM
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So how did it end? Did you guys form a couple? Hooked up?
/r/seduction30/08/18 09:40 PM
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Preselection is definitely a good way to regain a girl's interest, although not the only one. I was looking for actual cases in which people managed to turn things around though.
/r/seduction30/08/18 08:48 PM
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Not a good sign. You should've said that the offer was just for her. I also assume that you're talking to her friends about her. Not a good idea, she probably knows and it makes you look very weak. ​ Make sure you're charming and her friends will like you. Gonna raise your value in her eyes. Flirt with every girl at the table. If you're going out in the evening, see if you can move the interaction in a place like a club. If she's shy, you can dance with her there and maybe go for a kiss, as she'…
/r/seduction30/08/18 08:43 PM
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One of the best IOIs a girl can send. It's her way of saying 'touching is ok'. You can do things like grabbing by her waist and pulling her closer to you, while you're flirting. She's gonna lose it.
/r/seduction30/08/18 08:33 PM
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