So this is it?

steffbenji · 2019-07-22T18:57:19+00:00

You forgot making a schedule for going out consistently.

Schattenmoench · 2019-07-22T19:40:30+00:00

I think that’s very simplified but yea, for the start 100%.

I’m going thru a singles clubbing phase rn after coming out of back to back multiple year relationships and I can confirm these 3 are the most important to get something going, what happens when ur in a stable relationship (if that’s ur goal) is a bit different because then he/she’s already chosen you and it’s more about deepening the bond and getting to know each other better.

For example, 3 has never been a problem for me because I love sport and keep myself healthy and socialize with the "right people". Who they are depends on what you’re like dude, I happen to have a social group that are higher up on the food chain work wise, but are borderline ravers on the weekends. U just gotta find the right people there but that’s not thaat important, u don’t need friends to pull.

1 is hard, caus obviously you have to show interest, but not too much, and what too much is depends on the girl, which makes it even trickier. My 2yr ex gf loved me voicing my affection for her from the start, but a girl I met at the club a month ago (asked her straight out for her number, and she told me later she loved that, so that’s 2) showed me a lot of affection, and I, thinking that she was looking for something more long term, did likewise, only for her to say in a matter of weeks that she’d lost interest because I’d got too lovey dovey 🤷‍♂️.

So yea, they’re important, 3 not as much. Scrub up nice. be direct but not forceful. even if it’s not really you, hold those feelings back a little until you’re sure she wants something more than a fling. And an extra. Put urself out there! That is a point on its own, because if u don’t ask u won’t get none. Dance along side her, show her ur interested. If she hasn’t moved away or told u to bugger off, after a while ask her if she wants a drink, or to chat, or to dance together. Don’t be afraid to go away and come back to her later. And if she’s not keen, don’t keep trying, a lot of girls like the attention but aren’t actually looking for a hookup at that time, so just say ok and move away. look for someone else who catches ur eye. I have had girls come up to me and initiate, but not often, and I never saw any of them after that night.

Hope this helps a bit. Feel free to dm for clarification.

Murfdigidy · 2019-07-22T20:45:43+00:00

I'd say you're missing a ton of seduction techniques. Your list is for more the foundation of what helps you get started in seduction. Mainly without your list you can't even get started in seduction, but what you listed is just the start of being able to seduce. there's a whole slew of Seduction techniques you can implement that will help you get girls AKA Push Pull, body language, eye contact, fashion, teasing etc

LoneWolf1404 · 2019-07-23T00:06:20+00:00

Erase all that.

be natural

Stop acting like you need strategies. You're gonna come off as unnatural and/or a creep.

WeakEmu8 · 2019-07-22T19:30:09+00:00

I mean, "chunked-up" a bit more (looked at more abstractly) those are the rules for life in general.

We can never control the outcome of anything, so learn to play the game, and I mean play, as in have fun with the process. The outcomes will come. Because, after all, all we have is the the process (living), interrupted by outcomes/results.

FairAnalyst · 2019-07-22T23:37:19+00:00

Yea, those are great foundations.

Like a lot of things really boil down to simple concepts, like if you want a good fit body. Its literally eat a good diet to bulk, lift heavy, cut, and lift heavy. And repeat till you're as big as you want to be.

I'm not sure how fitness people manage to stay in biz repeating the same shit over and over but they do. But apparently its a hard concept to grasp because people ask the same questions about it over and over.

PU does actually drill down to some very basic concepts. People start off thinking its way harder then it actually is. I know I did.

WIA20XX · 2019-07-23T00:13:42+00:00

To ask a chick out? Yes.

To seduce, no

erZoption · 2019-07-22T19:19:32+00:00

And money, yes that’s it. The same way only women need is beauty

Title	So this is it?
Author	xxxpandoraxxx
Upvotes	12
Comments	28
Date	July 22, 2019 6:56 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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