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[–]CompetitionFair7686 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
She only sees you as a friend dude. move on
[–]rhymingmonk 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Why do you think that? I thought we were doing good. I probably need more experience.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
I know women and this isn’t the behaviour of a girl who is into you. Too platonic.
[–]rhymingmonk 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
I see. What are the romantic/sexual signs then?
[–]CompetitionFair7686 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
When you openly tell her you find her sexy followed by caressing her hands, and she lets you do that and starts blushing because of that thing you have said.
[–]rhymingmonk 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Yea but that’s like ten steps ahead, how should you know it from the beginning? We’ve only talked a handful of times, probably no more than 2 hours in total.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Not particularly, it’s not 10 steps ahead. Literally the first time you go out with her alone you should have already done that…Instead you made the mistake of being platonic and acting like her friend.
Talking about friend topics like ex boyfriend, past relationships which you shouldn’t talk with a girl you want to date as that only puts you deeper in the friendzone.
It’s quite clear to me that you don’t understand women and aren’t very experienced. There is no sexual tension at all due to the fact that you play it too safe, and these are all symptoms that she only sees you as a friend.
but hey, i know you want to look for hope so just go ahead and ask her, and then you can see that i was right
[–]rhymingmonk 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
No, makes sense. Thank you. I messaged her anyway tho. I teased her during work but when we were alone I was more platonic.
[–]rhymingmonk 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Then how should I proceed next time. What should I talk about? How do you create sexual tension? Any tips?
[–]CompetitionFair7686 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
By telling her you find her hot/sexy, that her smile makes you crazy, that she makes your heart accelerate when she smiles at you, that you can’t take your eyes off of her, looking at her body up and down, caressing her hands and her wrist intimately…
Sexual tension is created when you act like she is a woman you desire sexually, not by talking about her ex boyfriends, or your childhood.
[–]rhymingmonk 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Can you do both lol? I really like to figure people out.
[–]CompetitionFair76861 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
The problem is that the behavior towards a girl you want to date or fuck with cannot be the same as the behavior you would have with your sister.
talking about childhood, ex boyfriends, etc builds a friendly connection. That’s fine if you just want ti be friends, but it creates the wrong vibe. The vibe that she can trust you to open up and talk about her feelings, and her problems,etc which is the path to the friendzone.
You need to break that rapport, you need to create sexual tension, make her feel desired and wanted, which is a whole different vibe. A vibe you cannot possibly have with your sister or your mum because it’s a sexual vibe.
You need to be more direct dude, more sexual… Look at how black people flirt. You need to stop being Pg13 and start acting more like Pg18
[–]rhymingmonk1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
yeah, I finally understand. Thanks.
[–]LatterRow -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I dont think telling a girl “you are sexy” is the way to tell if she is into you or not, but what do I know
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah… You clearly don’t know.
[–]spiderSlayerr 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You guys shoulda smoked cigs with alcohol. That was the real problem. Cooler guys smoke cigs that’s why she saw him as a friend only
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