Should I pay a prostitute?

money666 · 2015-01-11T21:36:17+00:00

Then get a license... Stop being lazy dude. If you know something is wrong fucking fix it. You are over thinking this whole situation.

B0b0gden · 2015-01-11T22:31:59+00:00

Hey man. I really know what you are going through... I was a virgin till 20 and I also thought about paying a prostitute. Don't do it man it won't help you in the long run. You won't be more confident when meet girls you actually want to sleep with. You are a smart kid, work on yourself think about why you can't get laid. Get out of your confort zone, everytime you fail you are getting one step closer to what you actually want. And when you get her. You don't have just sex, you learned how to approach, talk and seduce which isn't easy as you know. Think about it. Would you rather get a driving licence or pay everytime a taxi?

ChefBigdirtyred · 2015-01-12T00:45:07+00:00

Well you shouldn't NOT pay her

2015-01-11T23:44:01+00:00

Nah man just get your license, clean yourself up, get some new clothes, start working out. Theres literally 3.54 billion women on the planet. Just chill and make moves. I recommend finding a killer job too, those help

http://www.wolframalpha.com/input/?i=number+of+women

girafewithanerection · 2015-01-11T23:44:48+00:00

Virgin till I was 21, well I'm still 21. I lost it like two weeks ago. I spent a very long time thinking I would never have sex and that if I was 25 and had not lost it yet I would just pay a hooker or go on craigslist or something. I realized I needed to change about a year and a half ago. Started going to the gym, learned guitar, started doing things I never thought I would do. My friends used to joke I would end up like the guy from the 40 year old virgin. I got lucky and a friend set me up with a girl he knew, there is no shame in asking for help from you're friends. Sex is one of those things in life that isn't just gonna happen you have to work for it.

Herden · 2015-01-12T00:19:55+00:00

I lost my virginity at 25, just be patient but put yourself out there. If you are waiting for someone to find you then you will probably wait for ever. Start conversations, go to places where people go, try different things.

And you don't have to be good with girls, you just have to be patient, trust yourself and do something. If its hard, then start small and work your way up.

iliketurtlesdurr · 2015-01-11T22:23:19+00:00

Less possibility of infection with a legit prostitute thanbwith a random girl.

jungleralph · 2015-01-12T03:23:42+00:00

No. I think that every guy on here will tell you straight up that loosing your V-card isn't going to fix your life. You'll have a few days of happiness and feeling proud of yourself and then it will fade as you return to your old habits. You need to learn how to live a more fulfilling life. Read Mark Manson's Models. Seriously. Fucking do it. Don't make excuses. If you can't afford it, pirate it. Take charge of your happiness.

Squand · 2015-01-11T22:00:48+00:00

Locupleto · 2015-01-12T01:03:42+00:00

It should be legal in the US like it is in most parts of the world.

IMO prostitutes are awesome.

Gardimus · 2015-01-12T02:23:58+00:00

Be aware, that when ever I play the game "I never" I like to say "I never had sex with a prostitute" and then see who drinks.

Idontlikekarmawhores · 2015-01-12T03:48:48+00:00

Do it ! Found out for yourself if sex is all that great or not.

Servare · 2015-01-12T07:58:04+00:00

I don't recommend a prostitute, but if you're not looking for a relationship,(this is where I begin to sound like a dirt bag) I would just find an "easy" girl at a party or club and go for it that way. Before I lost my virginity, I was really awkward and timid, but after a little r/seduction research and losing my virginity, I have gotten the motivation and confidence to reinvent myself and improve not only my game, but my outlook on life.

marcelowit · 2015-01-12T10:45:45+00:00

STD's are not that much the problem, since you can takes measures to avoid them or even heal them, emotional scar are the real danger.

Just wait a bit and work on yourself, everybody was in your place at some point, I know i was.

MFShowtime · 2015-01-12T13:16:00+00:00

dude the post sex with a prostitute is not worth it. I will tell you from experience, it may seem like a completly logical and bareable idea now. But when that street walker starts telling you to hurry up because your actually starting to get into it, what your doing will hit you like a brick wall and it will dawn over you for the rest of your life, trust me sex is easy, girls want it just as bad as us, all you have to do is make your objectives known.

gexxx007 · 2015-01-12T21:33:23+00:00

Just fuck a fat chick, she'll thank you and possible buy you lunch too.

youre-my-boy-blue · 2015-01-11T22:57:43+00:00

I did it and regretted it, but I don't think that means it'd be the same for you. I've heard from guys who did it and had a great experience.

You'll probably get a lot of advice one way or another but at the end of the day it's your call and you have to listen to your gut, not the internet.

Fist_Adventures · 2015-01-12T05:26:06+00:00

If you didn't it would be stealing, no?

crazyhit · 2015-01-11T22:30:59+00:00

use a fucking condom wtf

Title	Should I pay a prostitute?
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Upvotes	4
Comments	21
Date	January 11, 2015 9:29 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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