I'm 25 years old, had a number of LTRs, and after returning to my college town my night game is abysmal. Girls, in the moment, are into me and flirting, even asking me out, and then when it comes time for a date I don't hear.

I feel it's because in the South, where men are more reserved, my outgoing / aggressive nature is too "bold" for them compared to the New York lifestyle I grew up with.

So, should I tone down how friendly/outgoing I am? Or be me, since that's who I am, and it's a good filter for those who I won't be compatible with?