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[–]longting131 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Ask her to join you for drinks thursday evening
[–]BillyMac814 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Do you think I should say a specific day or do the whole “what’s your availability” deal so I don’t make it out like my schedule is wide open when she ends up not being able to on Thursday?
[–]longting131 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Say a specific day, always lead the interaction. If she can’t do Thursday have one backup day that you also ‘happen to be free’ on.
[–]LingeringGnome 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
always be specific and lead.
[–]Jermaul_m_w 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I agree with this one brother. I’m in sales, and what I’ve learned is sales is SO much alike in terms of maintaining that fine line of interest without coming off as too pushy with both women AND sales. Debatable person I’m using for a quote, but Grant Cardone says to lose the deal on your own terms as opposed to their terms. You’d kick yourself if you didn’t say anything and she lost interest. If you’ve got the urge to ask her out then I say go for it! She may not be the one, but eventually you’ll stumble upon a woman who would love nothing more for you to take the initiative and ask her out since she could be shy ☺️
[–]ptrakk 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be specific, and use your own discernment
[–]LingeringGnome 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Sunday comes around she texts me later in the evening to say hi.
When a woman reaches out to me, it means she wants to fuck right then. It's likely that was your case, too. When someone reaches out to someone, it indicates that's a PEAK "they're thinking about you moment", which would indicate physical desire or at the very least a strong curiousity.
I talked with her for 10 minutes or so and told her I had plans with a friend and that I had to go for tonight.
Eh. Just invite a woman over next time when she does that if you truly want her.
The bull elk doesn't worry too much about bro time. Career? Different story.
[–]BillyMac814 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I doubt she was hoping I’d invite her over Sunday, she had her kids and said she was getting ready for bed because she works early. I was heading to another girls house, not to hang out with an actual friend
[–]BigBeardDaddyK 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd stop texting her so much and get her out on a date. You're going to kill attraction texting back and forth so much. Use the phone for setting dates get to know her in person.
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