Should i text her?Im so deppressed.Help :(

surf-dude · 2017-01-30T22:24:56+00:00

Nope, you should not text her. She turned you down. Get over it, there are 3 billion more women on this planet.

No wait, actually you should message her. I was in your position once, when I did send her a message. it made me realize how creepy I was behaving. Just keep on working on yourself, make yourself better every single day, you ll get there.

TheXXL · 2017-01-31T06:16:45+00:00

So i saw her dancing with her friends and she gave me many looks.

Cool.

So i reached out my hand and she took it.

Great start.

We actually danced awkwardly

What do you mean?

and i reached to her ear and asked her name. She told it to me and asked mine.

Going well...

I told mine and i tried to kiss her and she turned her face.

... Until this. As much as I think you were very bold, you probably didn't warm her up. No big deal, normally you just keep on doing Kino and warming her up more, since turning her head only means "not yet".

Then she kept on dancing with me !I was confused lol.

You didn't do anything inherently wrong, she gave you another chance and you could have done something with the that.

Anyway she went to smoke and i followed like an idiot.

Good, you understand what you did wrong. Next time don't be a puppy and keep it cool.

But then her friends told me to fuck off.

Understandable, since you always need to "seduce" them too. Only if they also like you, they won't interfere, and actually help you.

Later i wanted to approach her again and maybe say sorry but she didnt wanna talk.

Say sorry for what? For following her like a puppy? What do you think this would have done for you? You sabotaged yourself and this was over already. Move on.

Im actually sad cause she is a bae.

What?

And i found her profile on facebook. We have no mutual friends. Do you think i should send her a message or will i sound too needy?

Since you are already stalking her, you should understand one thing: you are needy! Move on!

I dont know there is something about this girl that attracts me so much. HELP!!

Can it be that you don't have any other girl in your life? Is she maybe the only one in a long time showing interest in you? Otherwise I could not explain why you are so fucking needy. Again... move on.

subsub12345 · 2017-01-30T22:26:19+00:00

na thats sort of desperate, move on

random_access_cache · 2017-01-30T22:24:52+00:00

Toughy. I'd say message her something like "Hi, it's Blueeyesboi from the other night. We didn't get a good chance to talk bla bla bla..."

It would sure suck to get that -seen 16:27- without a response but you are not going to ever see her otherwise so go for it. If you are like me you can unplug your computer and shut off your phone for a few hours after sending that message.

BinaryBitz101 · 2017-01-31T01:57:14+00:00

Listen up my brotha Send the message, make it good. However You need to move on. There are many many many many many other women out there. If She don't want you??? She wack If she does nothing move on. But you have nothing to lose. All to gain.

TheProperStrawberry · 2017-01-31T05:02:49+00:00

Stalk her page until she inevitably puts out an message about her going out somewhere then insert yourself back into her life, do NOT message her on Facebook and when you talk to her you should be moving and shaking "hey small world huh? do you remember me? this is crazy what are you doing here? Keep it light and playful then " I have to go somewhere but we should hang out sometime, you should give me your number" then fucking leave, (you do not want her associating you with her Facebook post and busting your ass for the creepy guy that you are) text her later "hey this is blank this my number so you can lock me in your phone" it's possibly the most overt thing you could ever do but if you can't stand the thought of not getting her it's the play, it's worked for me before but if it doesn't work move on homie.

BinaryBitz101 · 2017-01-31T19:20:04+00:00

Smart man

BinaryBitz101 · 2017-01-31T20:51:14+00:00

Oh really she saw it? Well I have had that happen to me many times. You'll be fine

MindsEvolve · 2017-01-31T23:33:29+00:00

This probably isn't the best opportunity. Not for closing, nor for practice. If you want to throw a hail mary, sure, why not. But if I were you, I'd focus on building a big pipeline of women to start getting more dates on the calendar. Then, you can see if you even remember this girl anymore.

PM me if you want help on building your pipeline of dates. I can learn a little bit more about you and try to see if we can come up with a good strategy together.

Title	Should i text her?Im so deppressed.Help :(
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Date	January 30, 2017 10:06 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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