Hey folks, I have been out of the game for around three years, went through a common law divorce, and allowed a few months time to get that out of my system, now I want to get back out there.

I've been reading on here to just go up to women and start talking, but that absolutely terrifies me. My friends have tried to set me up with their friends, but I can't seem to figure out how I'm messing it up.

I'm 5'10", 28, muscular build from my career, but I do not work out due to injuries over the years.

Any ideas on how to get out there again? It all seems to move so much faster than I remember, and going to bars to meet women seems counter productive.