Hey seddit , i was just wondering if smoking is a bad idea when i'm out with a girl grabbing a few drinks.I'm 16, i was out with a few girls in the past and yes, i smoked. My luck was that, all the girls i've asked out for a drink they smoke too, so then i know that we're on the same page. But when a girl does not smoke and u date her, and being the anxious guy, u pop a cigarette in your mouth and start smoking...does it bother her?it annoys her?she is going to see you as less confident,concievable guy? When a girl smokes and i smoke too, i feel an energy like we have something in common, but if she doesent smoke im wondering if she becomes disinterested. I've never seen a smoking topic on this seddit so i am eagered to hear you on this. Tips & advices are appreciated