So I came across a post talking about the m3 model...What's yours?

WIA20XX · 2018-06-26T16:21:35+00:00

I used to drive an E46. I like the E92's, but I'm not in my 20's anymore.

ThrowawayPUA · 2018-06-26T17:52:23+00:00

As far as a direct lineage, M3 evolved into the Emotional Progression model, which progressed into the Triad. The Triad is pretty good if for no other reason than systematizing logistics.

jimmynonose · 2018-06-26T18:14:26+00:00

I've kind of given up on 'models' and 'rules'

I have been reading both Gunwitch and Vin DiCarlo recently, and it's amazing how every single 'rule' of game is disagreed by all the top PUA's. It's just not worth worrying about.

I used to be talking too a girl and thinking ''OK, i'm still in attraction. I need to start qualifying the girl first. Then if she qualifies herself i'm allowed to show intent but not before. If she gives me an IOD, i'll give her one back and then tell her some more attraction material bla bla bla'' and it could get quite confusing.

I'd see other successful guys doing everything completely 'wrong' and still getting results. Wrong according to the M3 model at least, but 'right' according to their particular guru. Maybe they'd show intent as they were told this builds attraction so always do it first. Or they qualified the girl without getting any IOI's etc etc. Or they'd open with a compliment whereas mystery might open with a neg and never a compliment. Or they'd always open the target in a group whereas mystery would open the friend.

And now after reading Vin Dicarlo who advises that you DON'T start with 'attraction' but in 'comfort' (which goes against one of the most important rules of the M3 model) it's clear that it's all just nonsense tbh!

All that matters is that you appear confident. That's the 'game' side out of the way. That's mainly achieved with body language and the way you speak and stuff.

That doesn't mean that you can get all the girls, though. (''just be confident, bro!!'')

I know it's not nice to hear, but honestly, most important thing is that she thinks you are good looking. THAT is when 'game' matters. If she thinks you are Decent(ish)/acceptable looking, you need 'game' (appear fun and cool and confident) in order to seal the deal. If she thinks you are drop dead gorgeous, then game is just a bonus, but you don't need it. If she thinks you are ugly, then no 'game' will work on her. She won't want to sleep with you.

But all of the rules about how and when to show intent, when to do this or that, open direct or indirect etc etc, none of it matters. There's enough infields out there now of many people doing every single possible thing very differently whilst all getting good, consistent results, to show that this is the case

Title	So I came across a post talking about the m3 model...What's yours?
Author	JustJuci
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	June 26, 2018 4:06 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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