Okay, so guys I've realized that I don't exactly fit the mold for a good value giver. Sure I've come a long way, I'm more charismatic, friendly, good at engaging people, but when it comes down to sitting with a new girl or new person, I guys tend to have STORIES to tell. To me this seems like the very best way to provide value to a conversation, I know because I end up entertained as well, but me, I SUCK at it. I don't tend to remember all the interesting things that have happened in my life. My brain just doesn't operate that way. Anyone else like me? Cuz I'm hitting a mental block and I'm not sure how to work around it.