So in the past when I went sober for a long period of time Ive found I was able to pull, on two dates i went on the girl got one alcoholic and each time i managed to be charming enough to get back to hers. However its a mixed bag a second date i went on with a girl i slept with on a first date just ended awkwardly, so i am undecided if i am better at pulling sober or with a drink on a date. I find usually i am more charming sober, most sober dates ive gone on never end in disaster and usuallyget a second wheras when drinking on a date for some reason it either goes really well and we go home together or just gets a bit awkward. I feel my sober dates even if we dont go home together set me up well for a second date, but dates where i drink i find more fun and if it goes welll im more likely to get laid. apologies if this is convoluted but i feel i need to master how to decide if i should go out for a drink or not when meeting a date.

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On nights out i find i pull better when im pretty much sober, having one or two drinks i am able to hold a conversation better on nights out as when i drink clubbing normally i get way too drunk. but yeah undecided about drinking on dates