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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Your replies make sense. I am probably overthinking it again, especially with the daygame stuff.
Of course no one's gonna start snogging in the grocery store, haha. It's just that the daygame stuff you see on Youtube is pretty much "going up to random women in the street". And you are right that it's a lot more natural to greet people in a rural setting.
Btw, "Warm approach" is exactly the term I was looking for! The pick-up stuff on Youtube is all about cold approaches, which is probably because it looks more impressive, and it's probably easier to set up and film. Since there's so many interesting material on cold approaches, I was searching for material on how warm approaches are different, but I wasn't finding much. Thanks for the clarification.
[–]smoothmax 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Social circle game is exactly like daygame and night game except it's much more long term and far more subtle. The approaches, flirting, future seeding, kino, and escalation are on the really, really down low.
The reason is that women will not flirt with, date or sleep with guys in their social circle, classmates, co-workers, etc. if there is going to be ANY gossip, slut shaming, finger pointing or anything like that. If you game obviously, awkwardly or like a creepy guy they're going to friendzone you before you can say, "I saw you from over there and I thought you look cute." At best. At worst they will tell all their friends that you're an asshole, quit the class or change jobs because of you.
You have the same frame as you have for all types of game plus you add "I am completely discreet in every interaction with women."
Imagine you're having an affair with a woman whose husband or father could ruin you socially if you were indiscreet. That's pretty much how you game in a social circle.
[–]bournit -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Are there any guys that specialize in this sort of thing?
Of course : everybody that's not learning game.
What we call social circle game is not really "game". Game is about having girls out of your league, in whatever sense : not only super hot models as some say, but also girls you could never meet trought your social circle.
In my opinion "social circle" game is basically the standard game path of girls : get social, become the hottest/best of the group, use your power inside this little tribe to have the best male. You can simply apply the same for all the guys that are trying to become PR, managers, CEO, rockstars just to fuck girls.
And the why there's no really one pua working on this stuff is simple : social circle game, as all the things coming from female paradigm, does not involve sufficient number of trials to have a statistical basis that serves as a reference. And also requires A LOT of time in actually not doing pickup, but doing everything else (look for instance how girls have to deal a lot more than us with social dynamics of the group, taking all their friends quiet and calm just to prevent the rebellion and the distruction of the group that furnishes to the hottest girl the best males).
Today puas talk about game techniques because, thanks to man nature and his natural predisposition to infinite sexual arousal, they've tried those thousand of times.
I'm sorry I can't help you with books or whatever source about social circle game, but I see you fully understood really good concepts as non neediness and so on. And I think you're really lucky, not ally he guys are able to do this. So, once you have those incredible ideas with you, why not just move to a bigger city and put this stuff into numbers ?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Well, I hear your opinion.
I know one PUA that purportedly gives "lessons" in this social circle thing, dudes called RSD Luke or something. Heard of him? Any opinions?
Also, for the sake of the argument, let's assume that I can't just "move to the big city" since I've important business here. Number one rule of game is realizing that there's more important things in life than fucking women.
I don't need to bang Instagram models here, I'd like some tips on how to get the best women that are available ("get" in the sense of: je physocally ultimate with and fins someone to establish a connection with).
Edit: also, if social circle game isn't real game, then who invented the term in the first place, and why do people keep name dropping it without anyone going into more detail?
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