Hi everyone, I wanted opinions on a system that I've set up for myself in order to maximize success with women. It consists of 10 major rules.

1) First, and most importantly, never ever try to analyze your interactions with girls to determine what they logically think. This is flawed because women don't act on logic and you'll literally drive yourself insane.

2) never emotionally attach a girl you have not slept with. You don't want to come across as someone only interested in sex, however I believe that being head over heals for a girl who's intentions you don't know fucks with your mental health.

3)When a girl plays games with you or when shes giving you mixed messages, this usually means she likes you but isn't entirely secure. A lot of guys think this means shes just messing with or using them, but girls naturally do this sometimes without realizing to see what men are truly like. Its not something to take offense to, but rather its a good sign. It means she thinks your attractive and could see something happening with you. When was the last time a girl who you know had zero attraction with you played these games with you? I cant remember either. However its important that when these games are played you don't let it alter your initial behavior. Just brush it off in the smoothest way possible and if it gets to a point where it truly bothers you, calmly (don't get angry) mention how you feel to her.

4) This is what I call a 2 strike rule. If a girl doesn't respond to your text or flakes on a date without offering an alternative, u give the benefit of the doubt but if the same thing happens again you bounce.

5) Don't expect women to act and think like you. Lots of guys make assumptions about women based on how they view dating and take a lot of stuff personally that shouldn't be. Just basically don't assume anything. Women are vastly different from men and more people need to realize that

6) Refer to rule 5 but apply it to rejection. Never assume that women reject men for the same reasons men reject women. Lots of men take rejection personally because to us we see it as a simple lack of attraction, while for girls it could be a million reasons.

7) always try to make a move(any physical escalation) by the second or third date. It doesn't need to be sex but you need to show your intentions to avoid being seen as a friend.

8) only text to build attraction by flirting and setting up plans in person. Avoid getting into long, drawn out convos over text or small talk.

9) Unless its something way over the top, say whats on your mind even if you think it might put her off slightly. Girls who like you will overlook this and any girl (any person too) respects someone who doesn't compromise their thoughts and feelings. don't cater to her feelings or be overly agreeable.

10) be kind and be yourself. I don't buy into the "girls like assholes" theory. I think that when they say that, they simply mean they don't want a guy who seemingly has no spine (see rule 9). Ask questions about their lives, respect them, and be authentic and you're golden.

What do you guys think of this advice. Any disagreements, anything to add? etc.