Hi everyone,

The theme of this post is about me going out with my friend in new york. I live in manhattan and he lives in queens. Anyways for people who go to some of the more high class clubs / bars in nyc, you'll see that a lot of girls view living in manhattan as a "status symbol" and people from other boroughs must be poor (news flash upper class new york girls are status driven).

Anyways he figured out a brilliant way to get around this and I think this can be applied to all aspects of seduction. One girl asked where he lived and he said "oh so yeah i live in queens, but tbh i really wanna get a place in manhattan". The girl kinda seemed to gradually become disinterested afterwards.

What he said messed up his game by doing 2 things. Making him seem ashamed of where he lived, therefore insecure by default. And also showing signs of trying to live up to standards that hadn't been officially set in said conversation.

Then he talks to another girl and same question "Where do you live?" This time he said I live in queens, its pretty great because I save about 700 a month in rent and spend it taking some pretty cool vacations". The girls eyes lit up and he was then talking to her for the rest of the night showing her some pictures he took and he eventually took her home with him.

This is an incredibly important lesson because what he did was he accomplished the exact same thing (answering the question of where he lived) but had completely different results by giving off a completely different vibe. I truly believe this is the most important aspect of seduction. If you answer questions and talk to women in a way that you're either intriguing them (via teasing / flirting) and coming across as a guy who knows what he wants in life, you can absolutely kill it.