Overview: This is my technique that I have developed for myself doing solo night game for about six months, its worked really well for me in basically every club environment so here it is, enjoy!.
Pre flight checks
- Get in state!!! Without being in state gaming is just about useless, so however you get in state do it.
When you arrive
As you walk in (and on your walk to the club) make sure you are smiling with your head up, people assume and make a lot of judgments on a person on face value in the first few seconds of seeing them. These judgments aren't usually concrete but helps if they are good ones.
(Optional/Situational) While waiting in line strike up a conversation with the people around you, I would recommend other guys and then bring in girls to the conversation, this is to avoid coming off as needy straight up especially if you are new, but if you can pull it off go for it, but the main objective is to warm up and build abit of social proof.
Body language, but this should be good if you are in state but worth double checking.
Once your are inside
This is the first major step and is meant to build social proof, and show you are a fun person to be around.
To do this talk to people! Start talking to the groups with just guys and ones with guys and girls in them (DO NOT go up to all girl groups at this point unless you know what you are doing and can make them laugh) with the objective of making them laugh while asserting yourself as the alpha of the group. Do this to a few groups until you find one that lights up right away, this can happen straight away or take abit.
Once you have a group that really lights up, you have to start building it by getting other people into the group. By doing this you seriously start to get noticed, the more girls you can get in the group the better (explain later) by other guys are fine just keep the ratio good.
While throwing energy at the group and getting everyone to have a good time start pushing people out of their comfort zone, especially the more shy or boring people. I find this really helps everyone by giving the group abit of a laugh (just make sure its not at someone's expense) and if for example its getting one of the guys to atleast talk to a girl hes obviously been looking at he will get hyped even if it fail, by doing this step it will further assert you as the alpha due to showing how you influence and control the people in the group.
TO THE FLOOR!
Take the group to the dance floor, again shows you control the group and are the alpha(bigger audience this time though) but mainly allows you to physically throw energy at the group by dancing with the girls (don’t do anything too flirty yet, just light hearted dancing) and pushing everyone out of their comfort zone. I like to get to the club earlier so that I can pull this off with less people on the dance floor so that you stand out like crazy, dancing on an almost empty floor and just having fun has incredible impact on how much people in the club remember you, how many see you and how they remember you for later.
STOP
Once this point is reached the technique can go two ways depending on the circumstances, whos in your group, how well the group is going and ect. If there are lots of girls in the group (pull more in from the dance floor if you want to make this happen) you are going to want to hold the group together as often without you it will wither and die, but mainly so you can make every girl in the groups jealous to the point they hit on you, or if the group is just guys, small or not great you want to use the status you have built so far to go to other groups.
Good group
The good group means you have a good ratio of guys to girls and are in control, from this point I like to basically create jealousy amongst the girls of the group to the point that they will start flirting and hitting on you, then its easy. I use a mix up of my own take on mystery method and the following techniques below to achieve this.
While on the dance floor I will start dancing with them all and obviously flirting with them, not hitting on them FLIRTING (there is a difference learn it!) which gets every girl asking "why isnt he doing it too me?".
I start bringing other girls into the group, this can be like flipping a switch for jealousy as you have basically just brought in competition into the group and you are the prize.
Bad group
If the group hasn’t gone so well use the status you have gained to get into other groups, you will find its a lot easier to get into as you will already be somewhat more attractive simply due to the social status you now have in the club. After that its back basic game tactics but you now have almost every group in the club to pick from.
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