youngpua Archive

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1	I'm at a particular sticking point I could use advice about Yeah, when you first talked about the drawback of natural game I thought, well I don't think natural game is not trying. When I think natural game I think just not forcing anything and being more authentic... like Richard's vibe sort of. I'm not a mod. I can endorse things. Stealth Attraction from him taught me a lot.	/r/seduction	24/02/15 02:41 AM
1	I'm at a particular sticking point I could use advice about lol. Since were at movie home dates, I love to put on The Room. I don't know if you're familiar but it's this movie so shitty it's hilarious. Not on Netflix though. I once put on a good movie (Skyfall), and had a make out paused with "hold on what did she say?". Rather I have the attention haha.	/r/seduction	24/02/15 02:05 AM
1	I'm at a particular sticking point I could use advice about Wait, sorry. I didn't quite understand your issue before.. now I do. I think the other date ideas just might be a bit too much. Perhaps a coffee date, in a relatively urban area. You can talk casually and drink there, then bounce other places, maybe wander around a mall, on a whim see a movie.	/r/seduction	24/02/15 01:57 AM
1	I'm at a particular sticking point I could use advice about Woah!... Netflix is the best date possible. Unless in your mind you actually think you'd watch a movie sitting up looking at the screen, not touching each other.	/r/seduction	24/02/15 01:46 AM
1	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game nothing turns a girl on like being desired.	/r/seduction	24/02/15 12:02 AM
4	Don't let women know that you are learning from the PUA community. I find I can tell them and it doesn't lower my value whatsoever. Maybe I have a different view of the community and my learning from it than you do.	/r/seduction	23/02/15 11:05 PM
2	What mindset should i get into to talk to a random stranger, get to know her? You can be direct and just tell her you look nice so I had to come talk to you. Or something along those lines.	/r/seduction	23/02/15 11:01 PM
1	Solo night game pickup technique [DRAFT, poor editing] Not saying this isn't insightful or won't help some people.. But it's just not something for me , me not being extroverted in the way this strategy requires.	/r/seduction	23/02/15 10:49 PM
1	Solo night game pickup technique [DRAFT, poor editing] This is too much to me, and would have me concerned with things I don't care about, lol.. But everyone has their own style.	/r/seduction	23/02/15 10:47 PM
1	Quick tip for what NOT to do at a loud college party or club Yeah with the same girl. We needed time to recharge dude. Lol	/r/seduction	23/02/15 10:21 PM
1	Quick tip for what NOT to do at a loud college party or club lol. I had a same night lay on a cruise from florida. Later I yelled along to the lyric. "I think I done fucked too many women from the 305". and shes like "Youve fucked one, one, just chill."	/r/seduction	23/02/15 05:01 PM
1	how to game at a bar or club type thing without being creepy? Ill tell you my minds place and my vibe on nights where girls are most receptive to me: When you see a girl you like, try to think minimally. Try to blank your mind, and focus on her in a sexual way. Goal is to have mind so filled with pure lust, there's no thoughts that can make you nervous. Do not get mad after a rejection. Girls will see it on your face. So never hold it against the girl. Even if there's a huge bitch, don't let her phase you. When you think girls, thoughts should ALWAYS be po…	/r/seduction	23/02/15 04:19 PM
1	I'm having a surgery this Tuesday. How do I keep girls interested during my recovery? Lol. Just shut up. Pop your Vicodin, do your couple of hits. Then go to bed.	/r/seduction	22/02/15 03:23 AM
2	A quick tip for people struggling to find their flirting style: Flirt how you want to fuck. This is a really good tip. I actually already do it too.	/r/seduction	22/02/15 03:21 AM
1	Quick tip for what NOT to do at a loud college party or club Sometimes it's comical. I've randomly yelled out a line I like, to a good laugh, "sorry I was just feeling that". But yeah I know what you mean that's just pointless.	/r/seduction	22/02/15 03:18 AM
1	The Difference Between Flattery and Appreciation yeah. as with everything it should be socially calibrated too.	/r/seduction	20/02/15 11:27 PM
3	I'm a mid-twenties male, how can I learn the seductive game basics and turn my lonely life around? It's hard, be ready for that. You have to become a better man, and a more attractive man. You can't have an ego about it. If you don't get laid, you are not at your full potential, and you're doing something wrong, and you need to evaluate yourself and work on yourself. You should read and learn a a lot. But primarily learn by getting experience, and learn to take everything you read with a grain of salt. There are right things to do in various scenarios. However, there really is no right way or…	/r/seduction	20/02/15 04:41 PM
1	Even if I get over my AA, I still lack the ability to hold a conversation and be funny. How can I improve myself? Practice becoming: funny, observational, curious, and emotional.	/r/seduction	20/02/15 04:28 PM
7	The Difference Between Flattery and Appreciation Great point, this is why I can't stand guys on here who will tell you to stop complimenting her, be less interested, show her you are the prize, and whatever other bullshit. They just don't understand the content of your post really. They don't understand that when a compliment fails, it's not because it's a compliment, or because your "lowering your value" ... When complimenting fails is when it's insincere. Complimenting fails when it comes from logic to try to flatter.	/r/seduction	20/02/15 04:10 PM
1	Losing My Virginity Is Not What I Thought It Would Be. What would make sex less "too normal"?	/r/seduction	20/02/15 04:05 PM
1	Need an outside perspective on what I am doing girl at office...she's so great My perspective is that at the end of a good (tension, and playful) interaction.. I'd be shocked if she said no to a coffee date.	/r/seduction	20/02/15 02:11 PM
1	I failed to escalate/lead the girl? Help/Advice To be able to show affection is very masculine I think. No girl is going to see you in a bad light for hugging, even kissing your girl in front of them. You like her right? She questioned that, which is why she called you a pussy. Can you explain your conservative upbringing and sensitivities more?	/r/seduction	20/02/15 02:01 PM
5	What to do when she kisses you on the cheek? Dude, it's right there for the taking. Just kiss her. if she rejects it, Kiss her on the cheek, then ask her to kiss yours. Then go back to talking, make sexual eye contact while you do, and try to kiss again later.	/r/seduction	20/02/15 01:54 PM
2	Need some tips for a fellow beginner. I use A combination of making sure my state when I'm alone is positive and solid, experience to get more comfortable, and a few pre approach routines.	/r/seduction	20/02/15 06:55 AM
1	Manipulative or Genuine? Take qualities of nice guys women like, AND take the qualities asshole douchebags have that women like.	/r/seduction	20/02/15 06:48 AM
2	Location in which you most frequently seal the deal? My couch.	/r/seduction	20/02/15 06:45 AM
2	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game Well you said acting happy like you meant acting happy to a fault. And you think what I'm talking about would be wrong and forced. Forced and happy to a fault=goofy, and needy too.	/r/seduction	19/02/15 01:00 PM
1	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game I don't mean goofy, I just mean feeling positive.	/r/seduction	19/02/15 12:56 PM
1	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game It is natural. As a straight male, I find it very natural to enjoy being around a hot girl.	/r/seduction	19/02/15 12:49 PM
2	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game Here's the reality, most guys starting here have those negative feelings due to fear of a hot woman, but they also need to embrace a hit woman, and that conflict causes awkwardness. To sum up my post: The less you fear and give in to the pressure of a hit girls presence, the more free you are to look normal, be cool, be yourself, and try to seduce her. You actually disagree with that point?	/r/seduction	19/02/15 12:40 PM
0	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game Haters gonna hate... and ainers gonna ain't.	/r/seduction	19/02/15 12:36 PM
-3	Picking up younger/older women I'm 18, oldest I've done is 25. I think you need to be a bit more consistent emotionally, not be needy, not be too gamey. But then again a lack of these is not good for pulling girls as young as me too. It's just that girls slightly older can sniff it out better.	/r/seduction	19/02/15 12:34 PM
8	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game Side note from here, treat approaches like Curry would treat a jump shot. With that fearlessness. Want the points more than your afraid to miss. He could miss ten in a row, and still pull up contested, because he remembers his makes only. It helps me to look at cold approaches the same.	/r/seduction	19/02/15 12:27 PM
1	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game Im not saying constantly think about body language in the moment. I'm pointing out your self conscious due to the negative feelings and mindsets I listed, and encouraged you to consciously work on eliminating this over over time. And Im not gonna ignore how hot she is. Because one, I'm straight and a I don't want to, and two, the feelings of a hot girl make me funny, flirty, and confident to escalate. That's my reaction to it. My post is about developing a mindset that leads to you reacting the …	/r/seduction	19/02/15 12:22 PM
1	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game I've created a monster.	/r/seduction	19/02/15 12:12 PM
0	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game The point is there's a lack of negative feelings not associated with the Internet picture, that may be associated with a real life interaction, due to a sort of pressure felt in real life. The less you let those negative feelings and pressure effect you.. The more successful you can be. So how, as you imply, does consciously trying to avoid the negative feelings and mindsets I listed not work? I'm all ears. You piece of shit cunt.	/r/seduction	19/02/15 12:11 PM
1	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game Honestly I've probably gone for more like that than what I posted. But she would get second looks anywhere dude still.	/r/seduction	19/02/15 03:58 AM
0	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game YEAH FUCK WOMEN. YES FUCK THEM! FUCK THEM GOD YESSSS! (Gives your mom a towel to wipe her tits clean. )	/r/seduction	19/02/15 03:45 AM
2	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game Actually I can field report and talk about the last girl I met in a class here. But it'll be over the next 24 hours I'm kind of busy.	/r/seduction	19/02/15 03:23 AM
4	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game you got downvoted.. but hey.. I think it's good to assert standards and know what you want.	/r/seduction	19/02/15 03:11 AM
2	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game I have a good amount of these class messages... So I'll write a guide and give it to you tomorrow.	/r/seduction	19/02/15 03:09 AM
8	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game And it may be uncomfortable at first, but you have to keep applying yourself.	/r/seduction	19/02/15 01:28 AM
2	GF left me for another guy, help me make her regret it... Yeah do what you need to do. Imagine it the other way around. If a 10 was an all men are evil type, one who is obsessed with this fact and (offensively ) calls herself a "feminist". Even if she's a 10 I'll bet you won't wanna fuck her. Ik you're not that bad, but you see the point.	/r/seduction	19/02/15 01:12 AM
2	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game GOD BLESS YOU AND GOD BLESS WHATEVER COUNTRY YOU HAIL FROM	/r/seduction	19/02/15 01:06 AM
3	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game Good god no. Message me lol. I'll tell you about pulling girls in classrooms. If this isn't just a troll.	/r/seduction	19/02/15 01:04 AM
3	GF left me for another guy, help me make her regret it... First off. Not saying you do... but Make sure you have no underlying resentment towards women. Realize that your ex is a bad apple, and the humans are no where near perfect. Don't have the underlying assumption the the bad ways of your ex are the ways of many women. Now a good place to let out that chip on your shoulder aggression is in the weight room. It's probably the one place that the use of "chip on shoulder" anger is pro active instead of reactive. Your anger will get you better with girl…	/r/seduction	19/02/15 01:01 AM
1	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game No clue	/r/seduction	19/02/15 12:47 AM
17	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game EYE CONTACT IOIing	/r/seduction	18/02/15 10:52 PM
7	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game Lol. brother man... I'm black. I'm imagining a white guy awkwardly saying brother man to me. lol. "What up homie.. brother man?"	/r/seduction	18/02/15 10:50 PM
7	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game Yeah I know I caught myself too... IDK how to change a title though.	/r/seduction	18/02/15 10:48 PM
3	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game She's the top all time in r/prettygirls ...Even there she's honestly in a league of her own.	/r/seduction	18/02/15 10:47 PM
1	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game True talking to people is gonna be necessary to get more comfortable. I also tried going out and imagining girls in a sexual way. Like if i see an ass in front of me, imagine it up in the air on my bed naked. I just forced these thoughts. And now I'm more comfortable with my minds natural sexual feelings.	/r/seduction	18/02/15 10:41 PM
2	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game /r/cider	/r/seduction	18/02/15 09:49 PM
5	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game Well of course. I wanna say something Ill say it. And not motivated by if its the right thing to say, or I have to say this. its motivated by, I think this is funny/interesting/deep so I wanna say it.	/r/seduction	18/02/15 08:34 PM
3	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game plus people love to talk about themselves.	/r/seduction	18/02/15 08:23 PM
5	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game lol. Ill do the same thing. Instead of "yeah?" I'll go "mhmm". and Ill do it in a way thats very dominant in sexual. Very clear that, yes Im listening, but Id rather be kissing you right now.	/r/seduction	18/02/15 08:11 PM
21	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game I meditate a bit each day. I think when you quiet your brain, you're more prone to do and say what you feel. which makes for good conversation.	/r/seduction	18/02/15 08:07 PM
2	How to ask out a girl with romantic intentions? Cosign. It's established long before you suggest going out sometime. In fact, let's say I use the phrase, "lets just hang out sometime". That's a very vague, friend-zone sounding kind of thing. But if there was flirting, tension, and IOI's before... it'll be very damn clear and obvious that "hanging out" is a date.	/r/seduction	18/02/15 05:52 PM
2	Thoughts and Life after Oneitis I wish you luck and hope you start to develop a more consistently positive, and confident state of mind. I think you'd appreciate this article about internal validation: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/pieces-mind/201407/self-validation Learning to harness this is I think key in making confidence a genuine, permanent thing, not just something justified by a couple positive experiences, and very fragile to negative ones.	/r/seduction	18/02/15 04:50 PM
1	If she talks about sex with you, does she want sex? I'm sorry I've never had it come as a joke. Can you describe that? and what you did that came off as creepy or weird to her?	/r/seduction	18/02/15 01:26 AM
1	If she talks about sex with you, does she want sex? In my experience. Absolutely. You have to learn how to maneuver the subject to what turns her on. Which requires a bit of opening up about what turns you on.	/r/seduction	18/02/15 01:13 AM
7	Looking from her eyes to her lips. FR my last kiss close:I'm on the edge of a dancefloor. Looking around at what the club has to offer that night. It's early, only about 11. Not many people there but I see a guy just sitting laid back i the corner. I go up to him. Joke about how dead it is. We just chat a bit. I learn he had come with his GF, and two of his friends. He introduces me to them. One of the friends is an exceptionally cute blonde girl (if I have to use the scale a 9). I make great eye contact, and stand closer to her …	/r/seduction	18/02/15 01:06 AM
8	Looking from her eyes to her lips. In a way yes. But...I don't go about getting a kiss close thinking "getting her to think about kissing me". that's just not how it is. It's more "build up as much sexual tension as possible" and if that's done, then I can kiss her whenever I want. Making intense (not creepy) eye contact is the number one means of building up such tension for me. Along with yes, the occasional look at her lips, yes maybe. Also standing close to her in her personal space. giving a deep mhm's and pauses to the conv…	/r/seduction	18/02/15 12:28 AM
2	Why do so many girls want a guy over 6'? Just take advantage of it man.. lol. It gives you a stronger, more manly presence.	/r/seduction	18/02/15 12:17 AM
1	FR: Unknowingly went to the club on Boys night Ok.. So the OP doesn't have a fear of expressing his sexual desire, or of flirting,. I think that's the biggest take away from this. Not to have fear of showing your sexual interest, and just escalate.	/r/seduction	17/02/15 05:02 PM
1	16YO in a very odd situation, asking for advice. I don't think it's a nob question.. I thinks it's a "I don't spend a ton of time in coffee shops" question lol. Ok so, every second before you buy your drink, is an opportunity for an opinion opener involving the options . However be careful to quickly transition from talk about coffee to revealing that you do have some interest in this girl. You could also be direct at any time " I had to come say hi to you..."	/r/seduction	17/02/15 04:58 PM
1	What social hobbies do you have that regularly get you to meet new people? DJing. But that's not something you can get into for the club girls. It's a new job. But Yoga is one.	/r/seduction	17/02/15 02:00 PM
1	Things you should and shouldn't do on the first date. Do: * make moves and be a leader * act like she's already your girlfriend * make things fun, light hearted, and sexual Don't: * try to impress her * pretend to be something you're not * buy her a drink if the purpose is to woo her more	/r/seduction	17/02/15 01:33 PM
2	How to "date" as an introvert/homebody? I think you can be an introvert and get girls.. but you inherently can't be a homebody. You have to go on dates, you have to go find girls.	/r/seduction	17/02/15 03:00 AM
1	Best way to ask out an RA, boss, supervisor, etc... This would create a huge conflict of interest, and that could cost them their credibility, and in many situations a job. My mother works for a law firm and she's explained many situations of a boss becoming sexual with an employee. None of them end in "And everyone lived happily ever after and kept their current jobs. "	/r/seduction	17/02/15 01:42 AM
1	Having some issues identifying things to do on a first date. You could browse a couple stores, see if there's anything you like. But honestly, I would try to get her back to my house after coffee. Wouldn't she look much better laying with her hair spread out on your couch biting her lip... than she does sitting on a Starbucks chair spilling something by mistake? I mean, you can absolutely try to make it happen. And she's on your side of making it happen. If she's on a date with you, she wants you to succeed just as much as you do. Knowing girls, she might…	/r/seduction	16/02/15 09:42 PM
7	Help escalating beyond making out What I do is, I'm adventurous so it's never exactly the same I'm spontaneous but...I'm always a step ahead of her in terms of having clothes off. So I'm the first one to have something taken off, and I'm the first one to be fully naked. I'll tell her to play with or suck my cock as I continue to fondle her, kiss her all over etc, eventually leading to me fingering her. Once we're both completely turned on, I just move her into the position I want her in, physically and dominantly put her on her …	/r/seduction	16/02/15 09:10 PM
1	[deleted by user] This described scenario is what the opinion opener was born for. " Which one do you think my apartment should smell like, like if you walked into a house after a date which scent would be the best?"... " you think I'm feminine enough to breath lavender 24/7?, is that the kind of guy you'd want.." or however it goes I just came up with that little play now, but, you get the idea.	/r/seduction	16/02/15 07:13 PM
1	16YO in a very odd situation, asking for advice. That's unique.. if I was you, I would get some of your school work done in a starbucks or in a mall. Instead of home during the day, hang out there and do homework (or procrastinate and lurk on seddit lol). There's bound to be multiple girls your age crossing your path per week.	/r/seduction	16/02/15 05:49 PM
8	What do you do when your job kills your game? You get up "early" and do a bit of day game. Also trust me for that shift, it's way better for you to be up six hours before work and go to bed shortly after. Like the other way around will fuck you up in a matter of weeks.	/r/seduction	16/02/15 05:33 PM
1	[deleted by user] I'll wait until I've managed to create a high point in the interaction. Where it feels like it's just us, and there's a fun, somewhat sexy vibe between us (in night game a very sexy vibe). The reason this is when I ask for the number is because I'd like to see her again so much, that I'm confident in saying I want to, I feel I NEED to. So shortly after this first little mutual feeling of attraction and connection, I'll say "We should go out sometime." Possibly with an 'I think' before, possibly …	/r/seduction	16/02/15 05:23 PM
1	A Break from Seddit To sum it up... The difference is this Sexual attraction= being yourself and wanting to fuck a sexy woman Objectification= Trying and being what you can in the moment to get to your goal of intercourse.	/r/seduction	16/02/15 05:03 PM
1	A Break from Seddit To me the difference between being sexual and sleazy, the difference between being lustful and creepy, the difference between being dominant and objectifying... is the difference between trying, and wanting. For a girl who feels creeped, on, manipulated, slutty. The most apparent thing in her mind is that someone is TRYING to get into her. He's using what tactics he can. And the effort from him doesn't feel right. She's not caught up to the same page yet at all, she's not feeling any connection …	/r/seduction	16/02/15 05:00 PM
6	My very first success and the most importing thing I learned so far See you've realized that all the techniques we come up with aren't really building any attraction. Attraction is a sexual and emotional connection. All the techniques are just good platforms for you to create moments of emotional connection on, so sometimes you don't need them. I call it auto pilot.	/r/seduction	16/02/15 04:50 PM
5	Eliminating "Shit Tests". In my mind there are two types of shit tests. Basic and advanced. I treat basic shit tests like buy me a drink (which You get way less of over time) Like they were something said randomly by a child. I ignore and escalate like it never happened. Now there are more serious shit tests.. The ones where she knows she wants to sleep with you. "How many girls have you been with?" Sort of thing. These are actually her comfort and vulnerability on display. Not just her screening out guys that aren't str…	/r/seduction	15/02/15 07:46 PM
2	How to overcome fear of failure?- Worked on innergame, became late bloomer, stuck in a rutt You have to want success more than you're afraid of failure.	/r/seduction	15/02/15 07:36 PM
1	Seddit, how do I game this girl that I only see when she's with her parents? It can't be as "impactful" as running into her alone for obvious reasons... But I think a good goal/vibe to have would be her thinking "this is pretty tame, but only because he's in a church. He's confident in what he wants (me) but he's smart socially and is held back by this environment. " ...rather than a vibe of " he doesn't know what he's doing, man up and let me know you want me."	/r/seduction	15/02/15 04:51 PM
0	HOW DO I STEP UP MY PICK UP GAME How the fuck is a post asking how to be better with women down voted by the majority of people who see it.. On seddit. -_-... It s a post about becoming better with girls...	/r/seduction	15/02/15 04:45 PM
1	An intermediate question... Throw her an IOI to gauge how she thinks you are, if you get a positive response, you can dance with her. You can also judge the response on what kind of a yes it was. Like, you'll know if you can be sexual right away by the way she looks back, or if it should be a more casual dance to start. Either way be fearlessly confident when you do start dancing. If you can't IOI her though... Then talk at an opportune time like weirdo chick suggested.	/r/seduction	15/02/15 04:42 PM
1	Seddit, how do I game this girl that I only see when she's with her parents? the amount of people in church doesn't actually make it awkward, no one really cares that much when you approach a girl. Even if they do you've got to be able to stand that. don't let that phase you trying to go for a girl you want. You're going to have to be as attractive as possible just being yourself, not use attraction building techniques. So appearance and body language need to be taken care of as best as possible. She probably notices how you are on those things already. Look best you can…	/r/seduction	15/02/15 04:33 PM
1	The Biggest Mistake Newbies Make: STOP COMPLIMENTING HER PHYSICAL APPEARANCE. My body language, without even touching her, is going to make very fucking clear I find her attractive.	/r/seduction	15/02/15 04:13 PM
2	The Biggest Mistake Newbies Make: STOP COMPLIMENTING HER PHYSICAL APPEARANCE. Compliments on her physical appearance are a great thing. If done confidently and come out as an in the moment thing. It really verbally establishes your intent.	/r/seduction	15/02/15 04:18 AM
3	Has anyone noticed a link between horse riding and slutiness? I'm serious. Girls who done horse riding seem to be really slutty. I don't get it. Anyone else notice this? LOL	/r/seduction	15/02/15 03:36 AM
1	Retaining unexpected eye contact? Indicator of interest. A purposeful or unconscious sign via body language or gestures, that someone likes what they see.	/r/seduction	14/02/15 11:45 PM
1	how to get a woman into bed Well, you need her friends to not be too defensive. Introduce yourself to them at the first chance you get. Talk to the friends as a group for a little bit. Don't be afraid of non-aggressive kino during this, feel free to touch legs or arm around your girl or what not. Chill and talk with her and her friends like that for a little bit, and it will be much easier to isolate. They won't cock block you as much if they've gotten to know a glimpse of you and they see your a good guy.	/r/seduction	14/02/15 07:05 PM
1	Next level game -- marry a super rich woman Well then let's look at this viewpoint and perspective. We know for sure they didn't al meet each other off of street or nightclub cold approaches. They're people who know people and are at places. So the approach was probably warm. Politicians probably don't use much "game" (not saying they're great naturals, they're just normal people. So the attraction had to come from qualities about them that the women picked up on. What might those personality qualities be for a congressman?	/r/seduction	14/02/15 06:37 PM
1	Next level game -- marry a super rich woman Is game really all about not relying on looks? actual thought/question I'm having now.	/r/seduction	14/02/15 06:31 PM
1	Next level game -- marry a super rich woman That's lame to me. I want game so tight I can marry a beautiful woman of the highest value too, but I value differently than a politician, I guess. I want value in the person.	/r/seduction	14/02/15 06:29 PM
1	Next level game -- marry a super rich woman Money doesn't actually mean that much directly. Attractive qualities including having your shit together, and having drive and ambition in life, are required to be successful. Therefor having some wealth implies some attractive qualities usually. That being said, a guy with more money is in no way better than me, or is entitled to the hottest women more than me. And getting a girl with more money doesn't mean your on another level of game. I'm sure she's a great woman, and it took great game to …	/r/seduction	14/02/15 06:21 PM
1	WILL APPRECIATE SOME OPINIONS At this point (pre sexual activity).. you don't have a huge amount of leverage in the situation. And a lack of leverage is when emotional investment becomes creepy/clingy in the eyes of a girl. So i would pull back and invest very little emotionally. Leave her be for a week maybe, go about your game and life, then try to re initiate text contact. For me the best texts after the little bit of time off are really, not trying at all. It's me just saying something interesting or funny in my life or …	/r/seduction	14/02/15 03:36 PM
1	how is this first message I like it. Recalls the good meeting you had, it's humorous, not needy, a little bit of a sexual undertone... Good luck on your date.	/r/seduction	14/02/15 03:29 PM
2	Has anyone any advice on accessories? get what looks aesthetically pleasing and cool to you Make sure it fits into your unique image/style Avoid what I call costume syndrome. Looking like your dressing up to be some image you're not. Wear things that stand out, but not stand out more than you. It should still be you wearing the accessories. Not the accessories being modeled by some man.	/r/seduction	14/02/15 03:24 PM
5	Retaining unexpected eye contact? I would suggest: don't be afraid of a cute girl. Love seeing one, blank your mind of everything else. Admire her beauty, to the point where your more impressed than nervous. As a straight man you have the ability to reach a state of mind where little matters besides "fuck she's hot". Allow yourself to be flooded with desire, and appreciate her beauty. To the point where it's your main focus. Check your own body language also. A strong presence is the goal. Stand tall and strong. Also breath slow…	/r/seduction	14/02/15 01:16 AM
2	A powerful maneuver that's been working well for me - delaying escalation I sometimes delay escalating too. One thing is to sort of ignore her IOI's, but at the same time keep a deal of sexual tension tot he interaction. It's tough to describe via text, but it's very obvious ik she likes me, Ik I can do what I want, but I'm no doing it. I'm having fun and relishing in then sexual tension of the moment.	/r/seduction	14/02/15 01:04 AM
1	Does overconfident/self depreciating humor work with girls? It's the right kind of humor if it's the kind that makes you laugh. The key thing of it really is, that your purpose amusing yourself, not that your trying to say the right thing for others. When jokes are not as attractive, is when they're an outcome dependent thing. Its similar to compliments. If a compliment comes form a place of outcome dependence, looked at as a technique to appease her, it's obvious. Where as if it's genuine and in the moment, and you feel something about her is attractive…	/r/seduction	14/02/15 12:53 AM
1	This is not a means to an end! I think i feel you. I sometimes feel the community asks itself "what's the thing to do to get attractive girls?" (mechanical approach you speak of) However I think a better mindset is "How can I make myself a more attractive man to women?"	/r/seduction	13/02/15 07:48 PM
2	{Question} How to text? I would probably try to build some attraction next time we talked in person, suggest we go out sometime then, be told yes hopefully, and if I am...Then I'd just use texting to have a little bit of humor and fun, but focus on being direct with getting the date set up.	/r/seduction	13/02/15 07:39 PM
2	A Guide For the N00bs Going Out to the Clubs For the First Time Good guide to make things less nerve wrecking during your first few times. My first few times might have had a little more success had i known all this then. Another thing I might tell someone is, feed off the energy of dozens of hot girls trying their best to look sexy as possible, don’t fear it. Let it motivate you to approach. Also, you can make yourself different with just your body language. be more relaxed when sitting down. And when standing or walking stand up straight, tall and confiden…	/r/seduction	13/02/15 07:33 PM
11	My First Cold Approach 99% of them don't	/r/seduction	13/02/15 04:38 AM
7	Have a sexy presence? That's interesting... I think about being sexy walking around, butnnever thought of sexyness while sitting alone. I mean I'm conscious of my body language if I am of course. Sort of an "I own the place" vibe. Relaxed like I'm in my own home with friends.	/r/seduction	13/02/15 02:05 AM
6	I fall in love with girls from just talking to them I would let it happen. Let the desire overflow me to the point where I'm not thinking about the possibility of failure too much.	/r/seduction	13/02/15 02:01 AM
47	My First Cold Approach It's a great realization how girls have no interest in making you feel bad because you want them, isn't it?	/r/seduction	12/02/15 09:06 PM
6	Any Valentine related openers? Read candy hearts one at a time to her... " ...You look really nice so I'm doing this till we have a connection here, so be patient."	/r/seduction	12/02/15 09:05 PM
1	What is confidence? You can only be confident if you're the judge of yourself. Not allowing society or hot girls be the judge of you. You should react and accept feedback from both of those things. But do not let them be the deciders of how great a guy you are. It has to be you that in the end evaluates and decides that.	/r/seduction	12/02/15 02:27 AM
12	How to get a guy/girl to ask you out And in an ironic twist, there's no show of higher value than that.	/r/seduction	11/02/15 09:36 PM
21	How to get a guy/girl to ask you out Learn to be authentic Thank you. There's some shit a lot of "PUA's" and people on here recommend doing that's really fake, makes me cringe. Mostly in the form of doing something to "demonstrate" an "attractive" trait. Like high value, or social proof. You'll have a much better time with women when your authentic. Don't try to sell yourself as being attractive. Work under the belief that you are attractive as you are.	/r/seduction	11/02/15 09:34 PM
1	how to talk to classmates? My tips based on my successes in the classroom: Be honest, no gamey shit, or overly scripted things. Don't try to show that you have high value or social proof or anything of that nature. Operate with the belief that you are your amazing self, and that in itself is attractive. While it's a classroom, and the sexual energy vibe is going to be very low... it needs to exist still. So don't hide the fact that you desire her. Don't be afraid to compliment her, "you look nice today". If she looks nice…	/r/seduction	11/02/15 09:22 PM
1	Something I've observed about height 6'3 is clearly the master race.	/r/seduction	11/02/15 04:06 PM
4	Gf of 2 years broke up. Need tips/help on getting back into pickup Make sure you still truly love women. You've seen they arn't perfect creatures. But if you resent an ex like I have, or if you feel crushed by her... you have no shot again. You've got to accept what happened, deal with the emotions that come with that acceptance, and move on realizing you are still a good man after it, maybe even a better one. As for the lack of your old swag, instill in your mind that a girl isn't the judge of how great a guy you are, you are. And let that underlying knowledge…	/r/seduction	11/02/15 01:52 AM
2	I'm pretty shitty at this. REALLY shitty at this. Some advice, please? Girls, actually like to be approached. Believe it or not it flatters them, and they would love to be swept off their feet, so much better than they're mundane day. Even if I get rejected, it's not rude, because just being wanted is a good thing to her. So approaching makes their day less boring.. can you think of a time where your more bored than throughout a high school day. Especially in the middle of a dry class. I think it's because of this that I've had great reception when talking to class…	/r/seduction	11/02/15 01:44 AM
7	Would seducing introverts be different to seducing extroverts? I think every girl needs a deep connection, and every girl needs to be touched. Don't think outgoing girls don't need to be connected with. That being said, you have to give introverted girls respect via space. what I do is I sort of calibrate how I present that I'm attracted to her by how inta/extraverted she is. For example: for an extraverted girl, my number close is without me even thinking about it going to be "let's go out sometime." where as with a more shy girl I'll say "I'd like to go o…	/r/seduction	11/02/15 01:35 AM
1	An example of a conversation I had last weekend, What should I have said? From my experience, I stopped getting questions like that when I started to show some intent from the go. If you show intent and a bit of sexual tension from the go, she'll know why your asking her questions.	/r/seduction	10/02/15 01:33 PM
0	It's never too late Hey everyone who's reading this. The OP has written some really good stuff about where your mindset needs to be in order to do what it takes to get laid. I purchased his book primal seduction a while ago and it's packed with great insights, that because I've internalized, have helped my results a lot. He's hated by some here on Reddit. Probably because he looks at pickuo in a bit different of a way from everyone, and in a way that says 'I'm right your wrong'' and that rubs people the wrong way. …	/r/seduction	10/02/15 01:21 PM
1	How to wake up and get in the fuckin zone? I admittedly don't do these things as consistently as I should, but ona good morning I: Don't jack off. Get a workout in. Eat a healthy breakfast. Meditate a bit. And Put real effort into grooming/fashion. (Like Im about to be on a date).	/r/seduction	10/02/15 01:07 PM
2	The question.... proper response	/r/seduction	10/02/15 12:59 AM
1	Observations about a date last night with an ultra "feminist" Anyways, moral of the story is, youre human garbage.	/r/seduction	10/02/15 12:56 AM
1	Observations about a date last night with an ultra "feminist" In a way, it is a trend. But the underlying premise is women deserving better treatment. So it's a trend I can get behind. Who gives a fuck about you paying, your leading this. Pay for the drinks. OK, yes, not shaving is weird. I think it's a stance on not being told how to be. But it's not a patriarchy thing, its just less pubic hair is more attracitve. But whatever.. You have to lead and escalate because of the fear women have, of being used, or feeling kind of like a slut (this is there becau…	/r/seduction	10/02/15 12:54 AM
2	How do you not put a girl on a pedestal? I'd be afraid of trying to be cocky-funny when you don't have that flowing out of you naturally. It would just be fake. Like, you don't have to consciously demonstrate that you don't see her above you. That'll be demonstrated naturally if you believe your worthy of her. Without forcing any techniques out of yourself.	/r/seduction	10/02/15 12:35 AM
7	How do you not put a girl on a pedestal? You've got to look to yourself for your own validation. have an underlying confidence in yourself that gives you permission to feel good and think your a great guy. A lack of confidence in yourself means you're going to look to others to give you permission to feel good about yourself. That leads to you trying to impress her, and worrying perpetually about wether or not she's decided your worthy of her. You've got to know deep down that your a great, attractive guy and you are worthy of a nice g…	/r/seduction	10/02/15 12:27 AM
1	Having troubles with relationships, keep falling in the friendzone. Thank you	/r/seduction	09/02/15 08:00 PM
5	Having troubles with relationships, keep falling in the friendzone. The next time your with a girl and you feel attraction to her, don't disguise it, let it flow out of you via you body language and eye contact and voice. If you like something about her, give her a real compliment about it. Don't hide your feelings of desire, and it will be very clear that you are interested in being more than friends. It's riskier than dry boring conversation, for sure. But you've got to take risks, and put yourself out there.	/r/seduction	09/02/15 05:36 AM
1	Starting my journey, my mindset. I have my own fitness program inspired by a couple things at body building.com, that's working well for me right now. Thanks though, where I am today is better than where I was before, my own advice isn't discardable.	/r/seduction	31/01/15 07:21 PM
1	Starting my journey, my mindset. I'm a heterosexual male... so your first point doesn't click in my head.	/r/seduction	31/01/15 07:17 PM
1	Starting my journey, my mindset. Oh, I'm definetly not saying I'm not going to cold approach women, I want to be good at that, and IK the biggest part of getting better with that is just doing it.	/r/seduction	31/01/15 02:24 AM
4	My conversation material is dull and uninteresting. I have my best conversations when I'm: observational - I make comments about things, or the enviorment, or her. Curious - I let my interest in her lead me to wonder about her, so decent questions or assumptions come out. Self amusing - I let go of taking things too seriously, and allow myself to make myself laugh. This is what being funny is. Horny - Not saying randomly talk about sex. I'm saying, let how turned on you are by her influence you. Let it motivate you to go in your head,"She's h…	/r/seduction	30/01/15 08:11 PM
1	It's sort of dead, so I'm going to amp up the online dating effort... I'd like tips. Thank you. I've kind of realized how shallow it is very quickly, so an attractive picture is y priority with it right now. What are some messages that have worked for you? Not that I'm going to copy and paste what works for others, but so I can get an idea of what sort of abrupt/funny/teasing you mean.	/r/seduction	30/01/15 07:40 PM
2	Transitioning out of school related texting. I've done the following: A funny meme. Telling her I think I caught her checking me out in class. Inquiring about how long she's has her crush on the teacher. A pic of my ripped body with a ;).. then a follow up text saying sorry, that was for my mom. ... There's a lot more things I've done but those stand out the most. I know these examples are ridiculous lol, but I personally like to entertain myself when I text. The point is, there's a spontaneity, they get a reaction, it's humorous, allows f…	/r/seduction	30/01/15 02:58 AM
1	How to get the number of a girl you already know? lol Can I have pointers on picking up grandmothers?	/r/seduction	30/01/15 02:39 AM