Hey long time lurker here. I'm a 19 year old virgin. Over the last 3 weeks I've had my first two real experiences with chicks. However, both times when I've brought girls back to my place. I've been unable to escalate beyond fingering them and getting their tops/bra off (though the last time I think I could have closed if my roommate hadn't cockblocked haha). I know this is a stupid question, but how should I escalate farther from this point? With both of these chicks they were really into me but I think I just went to slowly to keep up the momentum/keep interest. It seems like there's a lot of info on seddit about getting girls, but not a lot of info on what to do once you're there haha

I'd be really grateful for any advice you guys would have for me.