Greetings, r/Seduction. I have come to you to offer some advice, regarding acquiring a girl in general.

An Introduction to The Shitlord addressing you all

Imagine this, you're edgy, very self unaware, have been putting every girl who's ever given you attention on a pedestal and your self-esteem is at an all time low.

You've contracted oneitis and have just spent 2 years of your life chasing after a girl who has from the start shown little to no interest.

Yes, that was me 4 years ago, a whiteknight, or as some would say, the "Nice Guy"<sup>TM.</sup> It's been a long way from where I've started.

Through 2 years of constant preserverance and lessons have I improved significantly, and as an extension to that, my game with girls

But today, we will not talk about that journey, but we will instead be going through a few pointers which have helped me and may help you with grils

1.GETTING GIRLS SHOULD NOT BECOME THE MAIN FOCUS OF YOUR LIFE

There's this term that gets thrown around a lot in this subreddit, known as inner game. This is a complete reiteration that getting girls should be a side quest to the main goal of improving who you are. You should not be working out, eating well and constantly pushing yourself just for girls

Firstly, I personally find it to be weird when a guy devotes his entire life and that much effort to getting ass, as if you let getting ass get in the way of life, you have bigger issues to worry about besides getting girls' numbers.

Secondly, what happens when your desire and lust for ass dies out? What then? Do you revert to your old self? Do you stop working out, stop improving, stop trying to become a better man? No That is the last thing you want.

Yes, getting ass is part of the whole inner game and self improvement thing but it should not be the main focus. Besides, it'll be easier if you improve yourself just for you, because motivation from a source like girls and ass wavers and you don't want that.

2.HAVING KNOWLEDGE AND THEORY DOESN'T MEAN SHIT.

You've spent money on reknown PUA's guidebooks and spent even more time researching Game, learning what to say, what to do, maybe some of you even memorise catchphrases and stuff to say to girls. All of this would be useful and if you find it helps, go ahead and do all that.

BUT, if you are merely absorbing all that knowledge like a sponge, and never going out to apply that knowledge and theory, you might as well just not do anything at all.

Firstly, what you're doing when you do this is akin to a pencil having been used to the point where it's blunt, it's pointless. You're not only wasting time, but also money if you don't go out there and apply that knowledge

Secondly, going out there and actually talking and interacting with girls is going to be a worthy experience since you'll be getting first hand experience on how to do well in conversations, instead of someone else's experience. You'll learn how to do you, and do you well.

3.STOP GIVING A FUCK

Seriously, stop. You need to realise that most people don't even notice, let alone think of you besides for a small amount of time. By allocating your fucks to all these people who dont matter, you're wasting precious resources. What do I mean by this? You have a selected few individuals in your life who actually matter, who actually love you and you actually care about. These are the people you want to allocate fucks to<sup>though not literally</sup>.

Firstly Next time you do anything at all, be it giving a speech, making a huge decision, approaching a girl, stop caring about what random asshats think about you. If you know what you're doing is right, and if the people you love would support what you're doing, then fucking do it. Don't bother with the general public's opinions.

Secondly This applies to approaching girls in wherever. She is not a princess, nor is she a goddess or someone you should pedestalize. Stop holding back your thoughts and trying to be as PC as possible. Yes, be polite but don't be someone else. If she doesn't like you for who you are, then don't bother with her. This also means if you get rejected, don't get tilted, she's just another girl, and you'll soon be forgotten and she'll soon be gone from your mind.

Thirdly Not giving a fuck doesn't mean indifference, it means being okay with being different. Theres a huge difference between accepting things for what they are and moving on, and being indifferent. Do not give fucks, don't be indifferent.

Lastly Lifting this off directly from Mark Mason's *Art Of Not Giving Fucks To not give a fuck, you must first give a fuck about some things. Basically, this means who you are has to be established firmly and even if you do fuck up, you have people to back you up, hence you won't give a fuck about others. It's complex but take time to process it.

CONCLUSION

So we've finally come to the end of our post. Now, all of these stem from personal experiences and so can take them with a pinch of salt. I hope I've given advice that may prove to be useful in both your life and your Game.

TL;DR

1.FOCUS ON IMPROVING YOURSELF FOR YOURSELF, NOT JUST FOR GIRLS

2.GET OUT THERE AND DO SOMETHING INSTEAD OF JUST AMASSING KNOWLEDGE

3.STOP CARING ABOUT THE PEOPLE WHO DON'T MATTER, OR THEIR OPINIONS