So Ive been dabbling in this seduction stuff for about 9 months. Been through a few different paradigms and tried many different strategies but I saw something seemingly obvious in action last night. Ive found that when im out, I have a hard time relating to most girls and the conversation usually fades and dies or if I do manage to keep it going, I feel this strong... "reaching" feeling. Im into motorcycles. Ive seen this girl riding around town on a gorgeous ducati. Last night I saw it parked outside the bar so all I had to do was find the girl with a helmet and ask about the bike. From there, it was super easy... no "reaching", no insecurity, just beer, bikes and a game of pool (that I lost horribly) and when I gave her my phone, it was just a no brainer. What ive learned here is that im really not lacking anything in the approaching or conversation department, I just need to find a way to relate to different types of people. RSD preaches "no one is cut from a different cloth" and I do agree with that statement but damn if it isnt hard not to feel like I am sometimes... tl;dr Just thinking out loud. Move along