So, I'm a 23-year old white male virgin. I have a feeling that I will be losing my virginity to a girl I like very much quite soon, and I want to be good. Here are my questions:

  1. Have you ever seen anything in porn that actually works? Some of the things I see seem to make sense (fingering techniques, eating out, etc.) but some seem like the woman is really faking, and I don't want that to happen to me.

  2. How should I initiate it (assuming she doesn't)? I have really no experience in this area and I don't want to fuck it up.

  3. How long should I honestly expect to last?

  4. Should I tell her that I'm a virgin beforehand? Or is that a bad idea?

If you want to see them, I have a few pics of me posted on gonewild. Maybe it'd help you give me better advice, I don't know. Anything is appreciated!