Been lurking seddit for a while and have been improving myself thanks to the many great posts here.

One thing I don't understand, though, is that I read some great FR's about getting many dates and F-closes, but how do you do that and not have the girl expecting a relationship out of it? Doesn't it get messy after an F-close and the girl wants a relationship but you don't? Do you remain friends with any F-closes?

What if I want to date around and lay enough to find the right girl for an LTR. Won't I come off as a total dog or player?