I used to be a Mr nice Guy: not much luck with women. Then I used to be a jerk, a real jerk: I got laid a lot. I am no longer Mr Nice Guy, and I am no longer a Jerk; every day I strive to be the Confident Modern Male thanks to what I have learned and I am still learning from the Seduction/PUA community.

See more about my story here: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/uptk3/the_3_phases_of_seduction_according_to_yours_truly/

Still, once in a while the other personalities come out, at times the Mr Nice Guy, at time the Jerk; and I can recognize them only after I have said or done something.

I have this female friend for quite a while, and we have sex on a somewhat regular basis, it's not a committed relationship, but.. I am very possessive of her, I know that now.

So about 4 or 5 weeks ago we are out with friends on a large group and I see her showing IOI with another guy. I don't blame her, the guy is a great guy, and a good friend of mine, he's practically me, just younger and more extrovert. I don't know why but I didn't take it well. And that evening I tolde her so after we were in bed together. For a week or so everything was fine, then after a week or so I notice the same thing, I play it cool until the following day when she and I were talking and I realized that she did something wrong (she had volunteer to do something for me, business related) and all in a sudden the jerk came out of me, I raised my voice a little, expressed my disappointment and I kind of blew it out of proportion a bit too much (I know why), and from there on I acted cold towards her, not being very responsive both in person or text/email, never taking her calls and so.. this for a couple of weeks.

She's turned very dependent of me, she's very beta to make it clear, and all of her efforts are geared towards re-gaining my friendship and the other guy is nowhere in her mind. As a group we were al out on Saturday and she though I was going to take her home, but I didn't. Everyone in the group keeps asking her what's wrong and she just brush it off as stressed at work and stuff..., last night she didn't come out with the group and said she was going to stay at home because she didn't feel well and she had to wake up this morning.

I texted her at midnight What are you up to? Wanna come over and hang out a bit? A classic booty call, and within 30 minutes she was there, happy and healthy, all dressed up in her catholic school girl outfit (she went to a catholic high school... she still has the outfit... we've played like that before, and she knows it's my favorite). We did some wild stuff, really really wil (hint: I made her cal me Mr. Grey).

On one hand I am happy that I turned the situation around, I really like her, and while she's extremely wild in the bedroom, she's very quiet and soft spoken in public, and witha killer body.

What leaves me sad is the fact that women do respond to jerky behavior. I don't know why, never have, never will; I just know that it does work.

TL;DR: Not proud, but being a jerk rescued a FWB relationship.