It's important to remember that a lot of people are afraid of doing things by themselves. If you're like me and you go out solo at night you're constantly looking around and seeing nothing but couples or friend groups and it can feel daunting at first. But it's important to get past the feeling of "man I'm such a loser, no one else here is by themselves."

Maybe people think you just couldn't find anyone to go out with that night so you just said fuck it and went yourself. Maybe they think your friends ditched you. Or maybe they think you just enjoy going out solo more than in groups. Whatever it is; a good amount of people will be impressed and consider it brave what you're doing because there's no way in hell they would do it.

This is the way a lot of people are these days: Most people are afraid of what others will think if they decided to go out alone, or if they decided to approach that cute girl in the produce section of the grocery store, so they just don't do it.

They settle.

They settle for only going out if one of their friends is down to go out as well. If not then they won't because they're afraid.

They settle for a girl they're actually unhappy with because it'd be too much work to muster up the courage to talk to the many girls they find attractive.

The majority of people out there settle. So instead of thinking that everyone will think you're a weirdo for going out solo / approaching that girl: instead think that they have a voice in the back of their heads saying "Man that dude has balls. Kudos to him."

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Just something I thought that hopefully will give y'all some motivation out there. I'm still a beginner to all this and need help thinking this way too. Let me know what y'all think.