A lot of the times when I see a girl at the bar look at me and do the 3 second rule I will walk up to them introduce myself and they will get this look like oh no not another guy..last weekend I saw a girl stare at me I walked up to her and introduced myself I said Im not from around here where are some other good bars at and she pretty much passed me off to her friend and then I walked away because she wasnt feeling it, How do I get her interested right off the bat?