I recognize my problem and that's in bars, clubs, day game, I don't know how to start a conversation out of the blue. if there's a cause to start chatting with them, like someone bumping into me or whatever, I could talk to them for a while.

It seems kind of rude to me to just butt into a group chatting amongst themselves. but otherwise, I don't know how to start talking to the group of girls or guys or everyone.

anyone have any ideas on how to break this, books or vids too?