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August 11, 2010

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Title	Status
Author	rmpl
Upvotes	1
Comments	1
Date	August 11, 2010 11:48 PM UTC (16 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/d055v/status/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/status.1311290 https://theredarchive.com/post/1311290

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[–]rmpl[S] 0 points1 point2 points 16 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Couple of thoughts:

Some of the high-status behaviors can cross the line from alpha to asshole. It may get you status, power and girls, but at the end of the day you're still an asshole. For me anyway the goal is to be high status but without just walking all over people.

Also, an interesting contradiction - some people are aware of high-status behaviors and try to imitate or force them, for example making a big deal out of taking up a lot of space.

This leads to curious dynamics, where some people (the more beta, afraid of playing) just accept the imitation, while those that recognize the act see it as status-lowering, because the imitator is trying too hard.

I'm never too sure of the best way to deal with this, because out-aggressiving an imitator can lead to nasty situations. There must be better way of dealing with this, without getting aggro, but maintaining ones own status.

Anyone got tips for dealing with desperate pretenders?