tldr at the bottom!

You really want to seduce women? or people, as a matter of fact?

Then you need to polish your conversation game.

So what is a conversation?

it's an exchange of thoughts and ideas between two or more people.

This is literally all anyone has to get good at. Doesn't matter how tall, thin, ugly, or beautiful you are.

An engaging conversation is ALWAYS an engaging conversation.

And most importantly, it tackles many birds with one stone.

You become confident at developing an important skill. You develop listening skills.

LISTENING.

This is what people mean by "smooth talker."

It's a skill you can meaningfully practice everyday and scientifically analyse to get results.

For instance, I can choose to ask the same open ended question to 100 different people, and receive my data. How effective was that single question in unleashing the throes of conversation?

How did I deliver my question? Delivery of ideas, questions and thoughts are more crucial than their actual substance.

This is what pink floyd meant by "your lips move, but I can't hear what your saying."

Speak with your soul. Don't just rattle off a pre packaged ensemble, because then you won't have anything of value to say.

What is an open ended question? well simply a question that invites more than just "yes" or "no" replies.

Open ended questions are your bread and butter! don't slack on those.

Don't say "do you have any hobbies" say "what do you like to do in your spare time?"

And always count the small victories. You'll eventually catch the big fish.

To build proper rapport you need to make people feel comfortable around you and to do that you must ask questions that help them to divulge information about themselves. So begin with less private questions like their name where they're from what they do for a living

then learn to probe slightly deeper. This part is extremely subjective because it's all situational. Just have fun and throw yourself into the conversation.

a great exercise is to sit in front of a mirror and pretend to seduce yourself. Open yourself. ask yourself questions. Learn when it feels most appropriate and tactful to say certain things.

The most important thing is that once you get the conversation wheels turning, as long as you listen critically you should be able to derive every other question or comment from the conversation itself.

tldr: Become extremely conscious of the questions you're asking and what exactly the effects are listen carefully and trust your intuition Engaging conversation may not get you in her pants but it might get you in her heart, in her mind.

Pro tip: Try to listen more than you speak in the conversation. Silence is useful. Try to just feel everything and be in the moment.

TRY.