Hey seddit! I've been following for a few months, and I've been reading on the subject in general for a few months longer. The benefits to my life of working on this stuff are too many to waste time discussing right now.

I'm always trying to improve, and I am very confident these days. When I go to a bar and start talking to a girl, by the time I ask her for her number, if I even have to, she acts like she's surprised that I don't have it already. I'm also getting very good at meeting girls during my usual activities during the day.

When I get to know girls I'm interested in, I can get them to laugh, I'm confident they're attracted to me, etc. The problem is that I just can't seem to get them to go somewhere with me, just the two of us, or meet me somewhere. I'll admit, I'm having so much fun right now I don't always even try to get a date. Regardless, I've tried the "I'm doing something fun, you should come" approach, and a few others, but my flake rate is astronomical. I have had a few dates recently. They've all gone great, which makes me a little annoyed because I know if a girl I'm interested in would just be reliable I could rock her world.

I've read the how to go from number to first date guide, and quite a bit of other material. Does anyone have any advice, resources or exercises to get through this plateau? Thanks in advance.