Hey Guys, long time lurker, first submission to this sub. I am having trouble with my game... A case of oneitis I am getting over, and my own confidence level.

I am starting to get the basics down, eye contact and positivity. I would say I am fairly attractive and intelligent, I just get nervous talking to women, and cannot flirt.... It's like I'm on a pedestal almost. A pretty girl will flirt with me, and I'll smile and respond but it's like I've forgotten the stage in-between dating and just met....

Then I crash and burn and my confidence gets shattered for a bit and I hide and convince myself I'm an idiot.

Defuk Guys, how do I not care about everyone around me when I am in a crowd or approaching a group?