I’m a Scottish 20 year old male virgin, educated, with a good body who swims like a boss. Virgin status is mostly down to me being picky and finding British girls hard to loosen up. I’m often and over-analytical dude and have had and still have a hard time with porn/masturbation but have gone 5 weeks before without either. I know that being around people and staying active is my best bet to stop and summer camp environment seems perfect and is notorious for sex - although I did not pick it for this reason(!) - it would just be a big bonus. I’ve pulled about 8 girls and been close with a few but struggle with closing and think this is mainly down to decreased motivation from being sexually drained from porn and lack of confidence purely based on lack of experience. Shifting, what people don’t like to admit is an addiction, to having sex with girls (hopefully lots of them for good practise) would I think be a great step for me personally. I’m actually a very sexual, adventurous and I like to think considerate guy who just hasn’t put himself in the right conditions who has avoided hooking up, so I want to get it right. My experience with an American girl was very positive as she was very forward and that complimented my current circumstances. The goal I conclude from this is to explore sex at camp with different girls (tell me if you think otherwise). Firstly getting over the virginity part which I feel will be the hardest. I do feel it would be very unlikely for me to leave still a virgin however.

Does anyone have any experience working as a camp counsellor and have tips regarding girls in this environment?

What should I watch out for as a guy about to probably engage in multiple sexual encounters, other than the obvious? [thanks for lmk dad]

How can I get over my virginity stumble block easily and not regrets it?

How should I play the game at camp? I’m there for 2 months so should it be the long game or should I aim for as many as possible? That may sound too ambitious but this would be after the previous .

Overall I’m pretty excited — I’ve got to change!