Sup guys. I've been working on my self lately and my confidence, and have been on 4 dates so far this month. Stoked!

Although, I'm beginning to notice a trend.. Taking these girls out for a first date and grabbing a drink, and even a second date for lunch with a couple of them, has been nice. But I'm struggling to move to that next level, to get back to their place (or mine) and advance... I feel like I'm missing something, a step in the process perhaps. I feel like going to a party or something with some drinks could help vibe better and end up getting with them.

Any thoughts? cheers