So I've just ordered "Models" and "No More Mr Nice Guy" to try and change my outlook on things. I've realized that it's not so much trying to get better with women that will help you but trying to improve your life overall which will make a difference. I don't know if I will make an approach the next time I'm out as I get major AA and my inner game is a self destructive circle. I've started by going to the gym again, pursuing my interests and am concentrating on being able to "love myself", before focusing on meeting women.