I always had good external confidence but lacked internal confidence a lot making it hard for me to talk much. But as I grew better at game whenever am in the zone I can always find something to comment notice or tease about the girl. Now I thought I was in a perfect place verbally, but today after I joined my friend talking to a two set, I was talking non stop, of course I did allow them to speak or cut me off when appropriate but as soon as they are done there were barely any moments of silence I always had a reply or something fun to add.

As we left the interaction, my friend who is a crazy good natural most girls I know are attracted to him, he doesn't do game, his life is game. His personality makes everyone love him males and females. And he just so happens to be my wingman. Now he told me I talk too much. Which was crazy to me I thought i was carrying that interaction since he was silent most of the time and everyone was just bored looking at their phones. He said I needed to back off a little keep myself a mystery don't show the girls everything about you they get quickly bored of you and you won't have anything exciting left to share.

Now that was view-changing, I didnt realize that was even possible yet it made sense. As a beginner all i was told to do was learn to talk non stop about any topic because I struggled to talk. But that also creates a question of when is it appropriate to talk then, he himself said he could talk forever if he wanted to but decides not to entertain the girls in a way he wasn't showing interest and I thought at the time that he was having a bad day.

What are your opinions and experiences surely am not the only one who faced this problem and how did you solve it.