I’ve always had a problem with finding the right level or the right style of teasing.

I’m either the nice guy who won’t say a bad word against anyone or I’m the strange weird guy for saying the wrong thing.

What is the correct way to tease & be playful? How do you be that lovable ass-hole? What aspects of the woman should you pick to be playful with & tease?

I understand this is an art form & skill in itself but I have trouble understanding it.