Quick tip anytime you're in that situation of chatting or following up with someone you're flirting with. First, always use calling over texting whenever you can. Video even better. Yeah who even does that these days??

If you're stuck with texting a prospective date and you feel that dopamine loop starting to creep in, use a texting app that allows for message scheduling or delay. I've found it really helps kill any urges to be overly responsive with those women who start out super keen but then flake after a while. You can still write out your reply straight away or at your own pace to save any overthinking, but scheduling gives your primal brain a break between messages and their responses.

Worked wonders for me and find dates I'm keen on stay engaged much longer than when running my own response times. Often they get even more responsive. Amazing what simple pauses between replies can do. Obviously still use your brain to match her tone and general vibe. Have fun out there