I travel a lot, and occasionally I'll meet a woman very much into me and me into her. We'll live maybe 30-45 minutes apart while I'm in the city (for a month or however long) before I leave. It'll be clear she's into me when we first met- plus the texting that validates it (for ex. me saying what I desire about her, and her me).

Now, when the attraction between you two is clearly defined but you live ~30-45 min. away and she isn't picking a day to hangout soon, would it be wise to continue texting and build rapport (through Snapchat) or to hold off and "go dark" for a day? This typically happens to me with shy girls, too.

What would you recommend? Do I amp up the defined desire (I want to do XYZ to you), maintain it (continue texting occasionally expressing desire, and going with the conversational flow), or "go dark" (vaguely respond to texts once per day, and push for the meet-up).

Again, these girls tend to be shy, and not speak the best English (in this case I'm living in a French city where this happening). I notice it happening over and over where the attraction is clear (I KNOW these girls like me and they know I like them) and we've also developed a deep connection quickly. However, they are just hesitant to meet up.

Could anyone shed light on perhaps what's happening here, and what my course of action should be for this current situation as well as the others which always happen?

Thanks:)