Texting after a first date?

Far-End470 · 2025-03-15T01:05:08+00:00

Pretty much keep texting to handling the logistics of the next meeting.

I’m married and I still hold to the rule.

Aryan_Prasad · 2025-03-15T06:10:08+00:00

Friend, don't think too hard about it because sometimes you miss opportunities by overthinking things like

<<What do I do now?>> or <<If I say this, will I look like an idiot?>>

If you want to know how to have a conversation topic, explore your skills and use them to your advantage. In my case, I'm a person who speaks easily. I can generate a long conversation with an opening sentence like

(something that's happening around you)

If you're not that skilled at speaking, you can try

(a little lie to keep her paying attention to you)

After you start talking, focus on getting to know her over the course of 10 minutes. After that, increase the intensity (never forget that you're the priority, not her).

Also consider learning something new, like comedy or any training skill, etc. In these cases, they always help build trust with the other person. From there, you can start a conversation and then try to find out who she is (without giving yourself away).

Never forget that what people like most in this world is talking about themselves, so once they've gained confidence in you, they'll start talking about themselves, and that's where you take advantage...

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-03-15T06:40:03+00:00

Send the same the frequency of texts pre-date, dont drastically increase or reduce your texting. Logistically set up the next date to be more intimate. Maybe cooking at your place. See my post on escalation + texting.

Dandys3107 · 2025-03-15T07:52:28+00:00

Stay positive and laidback. Don't get overly excited in the beginning, it may feel desperate and it kinda forces the girl to get overly excited too, which women don't usually like. Keep it short and playful, trigger emotions, increase the tension, put your focus on making progress with your relation in real life circumstances. Treat texting just like a mean to keep in touch and spark some fire, but don't put too much significance or effort into it, you are not after just texting with beautiful girls, right?

Strong-Elk-9674 · 2025-03-14T20:31:40+00:00

Amigo no le eches mucha mente a eso por que aveces se pierde las oportunidades por sobre pensar cosas como

<<y ahora qué hago>> o <<será que si digo esto voy a parecer un idiota>>

Si quieres saber tener un tema de conversación explora tus habilidades y usarlas a tu favor,en mi caso yo soy una persona que le queda fácil hablar puedo generar una conversación larga,con una frase de entrada como

(algo que pase a tu alrededor)

En caso de que no seas tan habilidoso hablando puedes intentar

(una pequeña mentira para que ella se quede poniéndote atención)

Después de que la inicies céntrate en conocerla en un transcurso de 10m despues de eso le vas subiendo la intensidad(nunca olvides que tú eres la prioridad no ella)

También considera aprender algo nuevo como comedia o cualquier habilidad de entrenamiento etc... En estos casos siempre ayudan a generar confianza en la otra persona y de ahí puedes iniciar una conversación y a continuación se trate en averiguar quién es ella(sin regalarte)

Nunca olvides que lo que más le gusta a la gente en este mundo es hablar sobre si mismo así que después de que ella te tenga confianza por si sola empieza hablar sobre si misma y hay es donde aprovechas...

Title	Texting after a first date?
Author	Proud-Ad-1364
Upvotes	6
Comments	5
Date	March 14, 2025 8:15 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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