I had two first dates last week and both had agreed in-person and via text to go for a second date. Time comes for the second date and both flake. I am wondering whats the best strategy to follow here to avoid flaking and maximize my chances. Specifically I am trying to understand:

- How much texting should be done between first and second date?

- How much gap is ideal between first and second dates?

Below is the timeline of my dates:

Date 1: First date last Wednesday. Second date was scheduled for this Tuesday. Minimal texting between dates. When I text to confirm if we are still on, I get a text she is not interested in going further.
Date 2: First date last Tuesday. Second date was scheduled for Wednesday. She was sending long texts (one a day) and I responded accordingly. Date comes around and she cancels with no alternatives given.

I understand I am going to meet more people along the way and therefore want to make sure I am following the right protocol here. Thanks for your suggestions in advance.