Texting While She's On Vacation

theoriginalmcswagger · 2015-12-15T16:02:45+00:00

DUDE Chill. You met her last week! This ain't the 17th century where you marry a gal after meeting her for the first time. You can't say that you want to date her if you've just met her. It's seriously weird, impulsive and yeah desperate. Instead, tell yourself that you want to go on dates with her to see if you're both interested in each other. There's a difference!

I've been on 4 to 6 dates with a guy before realizing that I'm not interested in him. 6 dates! Over a period of 1 or 2 months. It may seem a lot for some of you, but the reality is, I don't know him and he doesn't know me. Getting to know someone takes time. One date of 3 hours or one week is not enough to judge if we're good for each other or not. So take it slow romeo.

Keep your cool, let her be with her family on her Christmas vacations. Of course, you can throw her a casual text but it's not mandatory. wish her merry Christmas on the 24th though.

If you bombard her cell with many text messages will potentially turn her away from you. I'd hate it (and it has happened before) if a guy would constantly text me and be all clingy. It's utterly annoying.

Oh and never text her "I have something important to tell you". You guys just met, you're not dating, no its not important that you tell her how you feel and yes it is desperate. Learn how to not be impulsive with your emotions.

Anyways, good luck and happy holidays

PrometheusYo · 2015-12-15T15:21:47+00:00

Text her when you have something important to say. Not that bullshit checking up on her, "hey hows it going." If you are that interested in her and she you, the conversation will form itself from both your own interests in one another. If she's visiting family, then let her do that and spend her time doing that and if something comes up she wants to tell you about she will. Same as you should do.

redeyesz · 2015-12-15T16:43:34+00:00

The other 2 posters are right about not bombarding her with texts, but you also gotta stay on her mind while shes gone. What if youre too aloof and she isn't that excited for the date when she gets back because she practically forgot about you?

It's a fine line. Don't let it get cold.

Mindsink · 2015-12-15T16:48:31+00:00

If she is away on vacation. Let her text you first. Do not text her unless she texts you. If she texts you then great, if not, she is busy doing her thing and probably would like to be talking to you but doesn't want to text first. Oh well. That is good, she is thinking of you. Day before, text her and tell her that you hope her trip was great and you look forward to seeing her tomorrow on your date.

whattayboy · 2015-12-16T18:15:16+00:00

I am in the same situation, but we went on two dates, second one on the very next day after the first one. And then I also dropped her off at the airport. Initially I texted a bit more than I should have, but now I'm just texting when she texts back. It's important to know that she's busy with family and traveling. I do know that I am on her kind based on her replies, so that's where you have to make a judgement call of sorts. Hope this helps, good luck!

JechtSpencer · 2015-12-15T19:01:40+00:00

Hit her with a big VALUE GIVING TEXT. Like a Meme or something.

Or just ask her to hang out. "What r u doin 5pm?"

If she makes up an excuse say "nvm." Do not reply again until the next day.

If she says says anything green like "nothing... etc."

CALL HER. Man up and CALL HER. Nobody calls anymore.

You will stand out immediately. Then just pump her state. Then bring her back down to normal conversation. THen schedule logistics.

"Meet me at (venue) at (time.) Lets have fun."

Title	Texting While She's On Vacation
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Date	December 15, 2015 2:40 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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